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Posted by Lira on Jun-01-2007 06:03:

Question Getting married

So, I'd like to hear the opinions of all married (and divorced) TAs: When did you get married? How was it? How did it affect the relationship? Is there anything you regret having done?

My relationship with my girlfriend's come to a point where it feels we're going to get married any time soon. I do like my girlfriend a lot, but we both think I'm not ready yet for taking this next step. For example, I'm probably going to live in Japan for a year in September, and that is going to delay my graduation for yet another year. So, yeah, I'm sleepy, melancholic, and wondering what the c0re has to say about marriage.


Posted by SuspicionVandit on Jun-01-2007 06:06:

wellllllll
my friend says that marriage is bad IF you are planning to go see Daft Punk 'cus Daft Punk concerts are one giant 5 hour orgy.


Posted by Igaryok on Jun-01-2007 06:10:

People, especially women don't value marriage these days anymore.


Posted by nchs09 on Jun-01-2007 06:11:

quote:
Originally posted by Igaryok
People, especially women don't value marriage these days anymore.
those whores.


Posted by pkcRAISTLIN on Jun-01-2007 06:11:

is your missus cute? if she is, i'll take care of her whilst you're in japan and make sure she doesn't sleep with anyone else but me. then you're free to go to town on cute asian arse, get it out of your system, then i'll return her to you in much the same shape you left her in


Posted by Lira on Jun-01-2007 06:12:

quote:
Originally posted by Igaryok
People, especially women don't value marriage these days anymore.

Well, my girlfriend's been talking about marriage for a couple of years already. I guess she does value that


Posted by fitom tiel on Jun-01-2007 06:13:

She can talk the talk, but can she dance the Hammerzeit?


Posted by Lira on Jun-01-2007 06:17:

Good question... I'm asking her about her dancing skills tomorrow
quote:
Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN
is your missus cute? if she is, i'll take care of her whilst you're in japan and make sure she doesn't sleep with anyone else but me. then you're free to go to town on cute asian arse, get it out of your system, then i'll return her to you in much the same shape you left her in

As long as sleep means not moving and keeping your eyes shut, yeah, sure


Posted by pkcRAISTLIN on Jun-01-2007 06:18:

quote:
Originally posted by Lira
As long as sleep means not moving and keeping your eyes shut, yeah, sure


on second thoughts she sounds a bit boring in the sack!


Posted by Lira on Jun-01-2007 06:31:

quote:
Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN
on second thoughts she sounds a bit boring in the sack!

Not when she's awake


Posted by superglo on Jun-01-2007 06:41:

im getting married in sept. :P


Posted by Lilith on Jun-01-2007 06:41:

Haha! Asking this here is like asking for all the jaded, angry failed relationships from people's sordid histories to be dragged out for a fresh beating...


Then there's the PKC's

F

(Don't mind him, he's just bitter because he's lonely)


Posted by fitom tiel on Jun-01-2007 06:42:

If I could,
I would've.


Posted by UmmiE on Jun-01-2007 06:42:

You have given very little info abt your relationship with her....

your and her age?

your and her goals and dreams in life?

Regardless....

Im assuming you guys dont live together,if so i would advise you to live with her for a while like @ her place or urs whatever works out and then you will have a marriage like thing going on.

Marriage to me is like something in writing proving you guys are together.......( To me @ aleast )

LOL neways when you will be living with her you will size her up on a much different level than you have already @ this point in time.

Hence you will have a better view on this and will be able to make a much more informed decision.


Posted by d-miurge on Jun-01-2007 06:48:

Ehe ist verboten!


Posted by Lebezniatnikov on Jun-01-2007 06:58:

quote:
Originally posted by d-miurge
Ehe ist verboten!



LOL!


Posted by Lira on Jun-01-2007 07:03:

Verboten? Oh 9!!!



Her age: 28
Goal: She's deciding between a master's in literature or applied linguistics (teaching languages).

My age: 24
Goal: Become a linguist.

The only difference, professionally speaking, is that I dream of achieving something great in academic life... and she's happy doing her thing. She's also worried that if we decide to engage in post-graduate studies, we won't get a decent job, which would probably postpone our plans.


Posted by enferno on Jun-01-2007 07:39:

i enjoyed my married life more than my single life.

then again, i dated the girl for 5 years, moved away for college, moved back 6 years later, then a year after that dated her for 2 more and got married for 2. then she divorced me and is still withholding a reason.


all in all, i say go for it.


Posted by Sushipunk on Jun-01-2007 07:59:

quote:
Originally posted by enferno
i enjoyed my married life more than my single life.

then again, i dated the girl for 5 years, moved away for college, moved back 6 years later, then a year after that dated her for 2 more and got married for 2. then she divorced me and is still withholding a reason.


all in all, i say go for it.


She still hasn't given you a reason? Fuck.

Any hints even?


Posted by basd on Jun-01-2007 08:06:

I don't intend on getting married.


Posted by Ian on Jun-01-2007 08:08:

I'll marry a rich girl, divorce her, take the money then marry someone I love and be able to fund their shopping/music habits.


Posted by pkcRAISTLIN on Jun-01-2007 08:10:

quote:
Originally posted by enferno
then she divorced me and is still withholding a reason.


holy fuck. what a cvnt. post those naked pics man, she deserves it.


Posted by Sushipunk on Jun-01-2007 08:14:

quote:
Originally posted by Ian
I'll marry a rich girl, divorce her, take the money then marry someone I love and be able to fund their shopping/music habits.


Or you could find somebody you really dig Ian, and save yourself the hassle of all that

Keep meaning to get your MSN too.


Posted by Ian on Jun-01-2007 08:15:

quote:
Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN
holy fuck. what a cvnt. post those naked pics man, she deserves it.


indeed. it didn't stop him with....

and wait, is this the bird who just had a kid? maybe she got what she wanted


soosheepunk, I'll pm it to ya


Posted by _Nut_ on Jun-01-2007 11:00:

Ill tell you what it is like after November.

One question. Is she going to Japan with you? LD relations is a royal royal bitch. I've been dealing with it for a while.


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