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Contacting long-lost siblings

So, I have a younger (half)sister I haven't seen since my dad died. She'd be about 14 years old now.

In a few years, after she's gone through the turmoil of being a teenager and shit, I'd like to get in touch with her.

My question is, has anybody been through something like this before?? I'm worried how she'll feel about it, how it will affect her, etc.

The thing is, my step-mother is a cunt...so I don't even know if Shivahn (my sister) knows she has other siblings. This might be a total shock to her, and I don't want to ruin her relationship with her mother by exposing what a lying greedy whore she is.

Obviously this could go either way. But I prefer it go the good way.



Thoughts?

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Originally posted by jennypie So, I have a younger (half)sister I haven't seen since my dad died. She'd be about 14 years old now.

oh shit.. i have a half sister i havent seen since my dad died too..lol

i would do it. can't put myself in the same situation, but i'd do it.

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Originally posted by dj tek oh shit.. i have a half sister i havent seen since my dad died too..lol

No way! Any plans to get in touch with her??

is she an only child? i'd think she might be pretty excited to get to know her older sister.


p.s. this sounds like it's straight out of an episode of The OC!

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Originally posted by jennypie No way! Any plans to get in touch with her??

heh

that side of the family were assholes and my father's previous wife [my half sister's mom] is a major kunt and a half.

after the funeral they were acting like they didnt even know my mom and me anymore.

fuck them

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Originally posted by l�cid is she an only child? i'd think she might be pretty excited to get to know her older sister. p.s. this sounds like it's straight out of an episode of The OC!

Ahahaha!


No she's got a brother. But I agree, I think she'd be happy to know she's got sisters. Especially sisters that were produced by the same father. Sort of a link to the dad she never knew. I'm sure I could answer a lot of questions for her and help her fill in the gaps.

On the flip side, I'd hate for it to stir up negative thoughts towards her mother, or upset her in any way. But I guess that's a risk I'm willing to take...and be supportive of if it does happen. I'd totally be there for her and help her work through it.

I want to do this for my own reasons too. I want to know my little sister! I want to see what she looks like, and learn what kind of person she is! Family is just so important I think, and I want her to know that she's got support if she ever needs it.

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Originally posted by jennypie Ahahaha! No she's got a brother. But I agree, I think she'd be happy to know she's got sisters. Especially sisters that were produced by the same father. Sort of a link to the dad she never knew. I'm sure I could answer a lot of questions for her and help her fill in the gaps. On the flip side, I'd hate for it to stir up negative thoughts towards her mother, or upset her in any way. But I guess that's a risk I'm willing to take...and be supportive of if it does happen. I'd totally be there for her and help her work through it. I want to do this for my own reasons too. I want to know my little sister! I want to see what she looks like, and learn what kind of person she is! Family is just so important I think, and I want her to know that she's got support if she ever needs it.

yeah, that's really cool. obviously i don't know her or what she's like, but personally if it were me i'd be really excited if i found out i had an older half-sister... especially if she only grew up with a brother.

she's probably a little slut like you.

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Originally posted by l�cid she's probably a little slut like you.

C'mon now Jennie's not a slut. She's just obsessed with anus's. Maybe she'll rival you in the anal fetish realm? Kill her Jennie, it's the only way to reign supreme!

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Originally posted by l�cid yeah, that's really cool. obviously i don't know her or what she's like, but personally if it were me i'd be really excited if i found out i had an older half-sister... especially if she only grew up with a brother. she's probably a little slut like you.

LMFAO! I seriously wonder about it, lol. Like, I wonder what kind of values my step-mother taught her? She could be a total trashbag whore and have kids of her own by the time I get in touch with her. Hell, my step-mother was only 29 or 30 and already had a kid when she snagged my dad's money..errr...dad. Maybe she raised my sister to be a manipulative cunt as well!

So many possibilities.

I have a half-sister too, but I don't plan on ever seeing her.

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Originally posted by jennypie So, I have a younger (half)sister I haven't seen since my dad died. She'd be about 14 years old now. Thoughts?

Hook me up!

i am actually in a similar but not quite the same situation. i have 6 sisters (yes thats right SIX! oh and no brothers either! ) that i havent seen in 4yrs. i got kicked out (cause my egg donor is a kunt!!) and theres been a lot of termoil in the family ever since. i have my reasons for not contacting them but at the same time i want to see my little sisters. see how they act and who they are. i just cant stand my egg donor! that bitch is very manipulative and shes the reason my family has ALWAYS been broke! ugh so yeah...i know how ya feel!

yeah dont rock grey anything when you know you gonna sweat

plays C&C Music Facotry*

LOL...wrong thread??

LOL

I met a couple of long-lost (half)aunts when I was 16 years-old. It was weird, and there was some family drama, because I didn't know who my maternal grandfather was up until that moment and my mother's simblings were quite mad at him.

Anyway, it was nice to find out I had (half)aunts that were younger than me (I guess the older is 21 now, and the younger is 19). Turns out, my older (half)aunt became a model... but I don't think posting pics would be the right thing to do.

Would it?

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Originally posted by Lira I met a couple of long-lost (half)aunts when I was 16 years-old. It was weird, and there was some family drama, because I didn't know who my maternal grandfather was up until that moment and my mother's simblings were quite mad at him. Anyway, it was nice to find out I had (half)aunts that were younger than me (I guess the older is 21 now, and the younger is 19). Turns out, my older (half)aunt became a model... but I don't think posting pics would be the right thing to do. Would it?

Pics or your story never happened.

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Originally posted by jennypie

i have a half brother (i think that's what they call siblings who are born to a different father?) and i hate him. I'm guessing it's because i'm a legal US citizen and he's an illegal alien, so he's got that aura to him. I'd only seen him for about 6 months(when i was 10 years old) before he came to stay with us about a month ago, so its kind of hard to decide (thus far) whether he would go for a dead baby joke. Also, he speaks very little English and i speak very little Spanish. So i just try to use my latin roots and we mend that way. Also, he is a big fan of porn and his computer is filled with trojans and just yesterday he decided to install his own anti-virus (which WAS a virus) and i told him he was on his own and now he is playing his reGAYton music loud, i'm guessing to piss me off. I think he has also been using my toothbrush since he got here.
I want to "take him to Walmart", so i can put him in the middle of the desert.

Posting pics would be taking the high road.

Cmon Lira, show us your pics.

If you become a model you want to be seen. So pics for helping her get noticed.

Ya for real, that's what models are - attention whores. Now make with the pics.

+10 to the pics

Lira hereby delivers...




... those are old pics of her, as I can't find a more recent one. But, trust me when I say she doesn't look jailbaitish any more

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