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Relationships Sucks.

I'm 26 years old. I have been in a relationship for three years and all the sudden I'm single again.
I didn't want to break up with my her. It was very much her call, now I obsess over what or who shes doing. She never comes to see me and we havn't done anything together in a month. She tells me she needs time. I'm of the opinion that if I give her time and space she will grow emotionally detatched from me with every passing day.
I look at it like this, if she broke up with me than she doesn't love me... so why should I wait around for her while she gets her jollies off with thirty other dudes? Evn though she told me that there was a strong chance we could get back together.
She doesn't even realize how this makes me feel. very abandonned and confused. My life revolved around her, and the way it is now tells me that she doesn't value my companionship the same as I valued hers.
*Am I wrong for making that assumption? what does she need time for? why doesn't she communicate to me?
No i don't have any deformations and my penis is av. guess I have a shitty attitude though, I'm trying to change.

Thanks for all incite

Re: Relationships Sucks.

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Originally posted by justin It was very much her call, now I obsess over what or who shes doing. She never comes to see me and we havn't done anything together in a month. She tells me she needs time. I'm of the opinion that if I give her time and space she will grow emotionally detatched from me with every passing day. I look at it like this, if she broke up with me than she doesn't love me... so why should I wait around for her while she gets her jollies off with thirty other dudes? Evn though she told me that there was a strong chance we could get back together.

Stop obsessing & waiting around for her. Its your turn to get your jollies off with 30 other girls.

move on.. if she wants to get back together and you found someone else, though luck for her.

tell her how you feel. if she understands and wants to get back with you than fine but if not then god gave you left hand for a reason, get to it.

you suck.

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Originally posted by LoveHate you suck.

explain

You're consulting the COR for this? Bad move.

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Originally posted by LoveHate you suck.

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Originally posted by justin explain

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Originally posted by idoru You're consulting the COR for this

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Originally posted by justin explain

you cant move on from the bitch, when she clearly doesnt want you anymore.

Are you sure you're 26?? Are you sure you don't need a grammar book??

I dont need a grammar lesson, (cuz I'll write howev the FK I want) why not consult with the COR? some good adcice in the first two comments. I figured I can tell the difference between good and bad advice but the bottom line is I need advice, shit I'll take it from whoever I can.

best way to stop thinking about one chick is go after one or two more.
have fun, be yourself, alcohol helps.

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Originally posted by LoveHate you cant move on from the bitch, when she clearly doesnt want you anymore.

no... (denial)

I guess I know how you feel, mate.

I'm in a 3 year long relationship and I'd be devastated if my girlfriend and I broke up (although we almost did, not that long ago). Here's something I think you need:

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Originally posted by wotyzoid Are you sure you're 26?? Are you sure you don't need a grammar book??

He's probably emotionally unstable now, and English probably isn't his native language.

didnt you almost fall into temptation once mr. maaz? with some plur chica?

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Originally posted by wotyzoid Are you sure you're 26?? Are you sure you don't need a grammar book??

Babe don't be mean




The best way for me to move on is to not talk or have any contact with them. If she's out with thirty dudes then what the fuck? You should be out with 30 girls. She doesn't seem to be as miserable as you. Go out and have fun man, you only live life once.

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Originally posted by Lira He's probably emotionally unstable now, and English probably isn't his native language.

I can cope with the latter but emotional instability is no excuse to ask for advice in the cor.

You don't know that she's off with other dudes. Maybe she's just confused or feeling smothered, or like she said, just needs time/space.

Sometimes it CAN be as simple as that...I know, because I've been through it. The best thing you can do is keep yourself busy with other things, and try not to think the worst.

Things like this are a true test of the relationship. I know it made mine stronger, and really made me realize and appreciate what TRUE, REAL love is all about. You may find that this is the best thing that ever happened to your relationship.

thank you all

I am gonna get through this. Seems like everybody is consistent in the types of advice. I guess I already knew that it would be that way.

Peace

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Originally posted by wotyzoid I can cope with the latter but emotional instability is no excuse to ask for advice in the cor.

so you think you are mature than the guy who's 10 years older than you ?

I love how relationship advice comes from wotyzoid and lovehate when they're lusting over Rose all the time and are probably trading her for pogs, or whatever's cool with the kids these days.

Seriously, give her the space. if it works out, good, if it doesn't, then learn from it. The more you bug her, the more she'll feel like you're the problem (if you're not already)

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Originally posted by Ian I love how relationship advice comes from wotyzoid and lovehate when they're lusting over Rose all the time and are probably trading her for pogs, or whatever's cool with the kids these days. Seriously, give her the space. if it works out, good, if it doesn't, then learn from it. The more you bug her, the more she'll feel like you're the problem (if you're not already)

wtf

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Originally posted by Ian Seriously, give her the space. if it works out, good, if it doesn't, then learn from it. The more you bug her, the more she'll feel like you're the problem (if you're not already)

For real. Why can't people ever just give a person space when they ask for it?? It's always gotta become some worried, paranoid, suffocate-fest. Leave her the fuck alone like she asked, and she'll probably come back to you a lot sooner.

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Originally posted by Omega_M so you think you are mature than the guy who's 10 years older than you ?

Hes prolly never had a gf & the only time he gets his dick wet is in the shower.

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Originally posted by jennypie For real. Why can't people ever just give a person space when they ask for it?? It's always gotta become some worried, paranoid, suffocate-fest. Leave her the fuck alone like she asked, and she'll probably come back to you a lot sooner.

lol my ex-ex asked me for space, then came back wanting to get back a couple of weeks later but I said no I probably shouldn't have but she was really annoying me at the time.

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