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people who can't take a hint...
drive me fucking crazy.
for example, one of my old friends in NY. we don't talk that often anymore, maybe once every few months. well anyway he sent me a text about two weeks ago, and it was the first time i heard from him in at least 2 or 3 months, so we talked via text for a bit and then i went to sleep and that was that.
the next day he texts me first thing in the morning "why did you stop responding? did something happen?" 
since then he's texted me and e-mailed me a few other times, and i'll respond and chat for a bit but then it just gets to a point where the conversation is going nowhere and i have stuff that i should be doing at work, but he just keeps sending more texts and asking stupid pointless questions, trying to start more conversations. i've told him countless times that i'm moving (tomorrow, yay!) and that things have just been really hectic, and that i'll call and catch up when i have some free time.
so after i ignore his last text, he sends me a message on myspace... and he's not even my friend on myspace. i'm actually not even sure how he found me, considering my last name isn't listed on there.
i'm beginning to think he's either mildly retarded or borderline psycho. have any of you dealt with people like this before? i mean, short of telling him to fuck off or being a total bitch about it, i just don't know how to make him understand that i don't want to be bugged with text msgs every 5 minutes.
COR version: my friend text msgs me. a LOT. i dont know how to make him stop.
Re: people who can't take a hint...
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| Originally posted by l�cid have any of you dealt with people like this before? |
I'm pretty sure I've been that guy at times. 
Not anymore, though.
Re: people who can't take a hint...
yeah, that sucks, but most of us are stupid so you have to be pretty up front about it. tell him you're starting to get creeped out or something, i dunno.
He's just...so....rone-ryyyy.
no cor version?
you = fail
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| Originally posted by Omega_Blue tell him you're starting to get creeped out or something, i dunno. |
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| Originally posted by colonelcrisp no cor version? you = fail |
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| Originally posted by colonelcrisp no cor version? you = fail |
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| Originally posted by colonelcrisp no cor version? you = fail |
btw, asking c0r for advice with stalkers = automatic fail 
..i always wanted to say that.
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| Originally posted by Omega_Blue yeah, that sucks, but most of us are stupid so you have to be pretty up front about it. tell him you're starting to get creeped out or something, i dunno. |
LOL, oh man I have the BEST story to share on this topic...but it'll have to wait till later, I have to go to work. :/
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| Originally posted by l�cid i dunno, dude. i know you and i had the conversation about how sometimes you just know when the "text" conversation is over. you're pretty good about it... but this guy just can't seem to grasp it. |
Re: Re: Re: Re: people who can't take a hint...
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| Originally posted by Omega_Blue next time you want to end it, say something weird like "I'm smearing poop all over my face!!!" and if he continues to keep talking you.. uhh.. ..well i suppose that wouldn't help, but it would be pretty funny. |
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| Originally posted by inconspicuous random guy from past reappears & sends 10,000 messages. how do I stopped annoyance? |
btw, from what i've gathered from numerous phone and txt convo's- the #1 rule of wrapping up a phone conversation is to make plans to speak with the person again.
example:
A: so yeah, anyways about this huge dump i took yesterday..
B: uh-huh.
A: it was HUUGE!!
B: really? that's great. well hey, what do you have going on tomorrow then?
A: i.. uh... i dunno yet. why?
B: ahh, just curious. i'll probably hit you up tomorrow if that's cool.
A: ok! sounds good!
B: alright, take it easy, bye.
END CONVERSATION. just like that.
find out if he has unlimited text and data on his phone plan./.... if the answer is no. sign him up for the daily joke and porno pic messages......... or add him to a TA msn convo citric style!
Alternatively, you could tell him your getting in touch with your spiritual side and becomming an mennonite.... you must now give up all your worldly electronic possesions so no more cell phone and myspace......
@ inconspicuous- yeah for sure it wouldn't work, but it would pretty funny.
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| Originally posted by l�cid actually, i take that back. i know how guys minds work... you fucking whores. |
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| Originally posted by colonelcrisp find out if he has unlimited text and data on his phone plan./.... if the answer is no. sign him up for the daily joke and porno pic messages......... or add him to a TA msn convo citric style! Alternatively, you could tell him your getting in touch with your spiritual side and becomming an mennonite.... you must now give up all your worldly electronic possesions so no more cell phone and myspace...... |
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| Originally posted by colonelcrisp find out if he has unlimited text and data on his phone plan./.... if the answer is no. sign him up for the daily joke and porno pic messages......... or add him to a TA msn convo citric style! |
ouch-
kinda glad im cel phoneless right now
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| Originally posted by Omega_Blue @ inconspicuous- yeah for sure it wouldn't work, but it would pretty funny. shh, don't spread teh secret!!1 dude definitely wants to give you the long distance bratwurst. i suggest you send him pics. ...it's not... dude in your mom's basement, is it? |
EDM was my gateway into drugs.
For lots of people it seems to be the other way around.
lol, i've been in his shoes, the best way is to be honest with him and tell him to get the fuck off you
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