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would you date a 21 year old chick at the age of 18 who happens to have a 5 year old daughter???

well, to tell you the truth, i'm in that situation right now. and to top it off, the father of the kid is a complete psycho.

here's the story in breif:

chick and b/f have a big argument, chick leaves loser, loser stalks girl and family, girl decides to move over here in my city with her sister, and i meet her at burger king

now, we've been talking for a week, and I've gone out with her twice... she's really cool, and one day ago she drops the bomb (everything i just mentioned).

Now, i'm like

What do i do!!!?

hi daddy

advice

btw, she's HOT

stay away from her.

wait till her daughter turns 18

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Originally posted by eRRaTiK wait till her daughter turns 18

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Originally posted by R.j. btw, she's HOT

Yeah, that's how she roped the first guy in.

Avoid birthing vats at all costs.

I guess this is the part where I advise you against thinking with your penis, but I doubt you would listen at this point.

And so the weak inherit the Earth, through sheer numbers...~

So she got knocked up at age 15?

Sounds like a classy girl.

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Originally posted by Spacey Orange stay away from her.

i've been told so many times, and I agree... but there's that nagging thought in the back of my head that's saying "Ah, go ahead, why not!? No parents. No curfew. No Bullshit. wait, scratch that last *NO*"

No. You're not at the same point in your life atm. Age doesn't matter here, it's the fact that you're both adults but in different time frames according to wtf is going on in your life. When you date someone with a child, you're not just dating them, you have the child as well to take into consideration. I highly doubt you're ready for that.

If you get butterflys when you think about her you should stick it out.

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Originally posted by chach If you get butterflys when you think about her you should ask her to homecoming. But since she is old enough to have a child of her very own to take care of and be responsible for, if you are not prepared to be a father, yourself, stay the motherfuck away from her, no matter how hot you think she is.

Fix't.

what happened to the father?
If it's negative (ie, "the pull out system isn't a 100% kekekek ", "i got knocked up WMC and this guy raped me 5 times, he ruined my dress! kekekeke ", or the worst "i thought i was in love, so i married him at a drive through Vegas parlor, but then i found out he likes the New York Jets, no way! kekekekee ") then fuck her rotten for 6 months, have a good time, and never ever pay for her dinner. The meat can tenderize itself.

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Originally posted by SuspicionVandit what happened to the father? If it's negative (ie, "the pull out system isn't a 100% kekekek ", "i got knocked up WMC and this guy raped me 5 times, he ruined my dress! kekekeke ", or the worst "i thought i was in love, so i married him at a drive through Vegas parlor, but then i found out he likes the New York Jets, no way! kekekekee ") then fuck her rotten for 6 months, have a good time, and never ever pay for her dinner. The meat can tenderize itself.

the father = psycho boyfriend

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Originally posted by R.j. i've been told so many times, and I agree... but there's that nagging thought in the back of my head that's saying "Ah, go ahead, why not!? No parents. No curfew. No Bullshit. wait, scratch that last *NO*"

at the risk that you're not going to read this i write the following:

1. i too went out with a chick that had a kid once, but she had the courage to be upfront about when the day i met her. that is your first warning sign that she's not good. she waited until she knew you were interested in her, before she was upfront. why wait until a week after? of course, she knew you'd get the fuck out of there had she told you earlier.

2. you'll fuck her and pretty goddam soon. she might be the best fucken pussy you'll ever have. but the pussy can fuck up your mind. the pussy will cloud you're judgement. you'll do anything for the pussy after you get a taste. i question your life decisions already, so having the pussy control you will only make your life worse.

3. she has a horrible track record. she fucked without a condom when she was 15. was a mom at 16. picked a loser to fuck. in fact, i would more worried about what this says about you given that she's beginning to let you into her life.

4. her life is chaos. why bring all of that chaos into your life when you're ready to go to college and get a career started? all that chaos will suck you in whether you like it or not. if you taste the pussy (see 2. above), it's over for you. you will be paying for her and her loser's mistakes. should this happen to you, one day you'll have some respite and you'll ask yourself 'how the fuck did i get into this fucken mess?' by then it will be too late. you would have spent untold amounts of money, suffered pressured, and most importantly, wasted valuable years of your youth.

5. don't settle for sloppy seconds. you deserve better. often males that have lower rank in society tend to settle for these kinds of women, but you're not there yet. you have unestablished rank at your age. increase you're self worth and get better pussy out there. there are over three billion more pussies out there. i'm sure you can find a better one in which to dip your dick.

NO she has a kid and your 18

Hell no.

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Originally posted by Spacey Orange 5. don't settle for sloppy seconds. you deserve better. often males that have lower rank in society tend to settle for these kinds of women, but you're not there yet. you have unestablished rank at your age. increase you're self worth and get better pussy out there. there are over three billion more pussies out there. i'm sure you can find a better one in which to dip your dick.

A little story about one of my best friends:

When his Mum was 19 he was born.

When his Mum was 21, she married another man, also 21.

This man has raised the kid as his own for over two decades now.

I applaud that man for having the courage to take a bastard child under his wing at such a young age.

We tease my friend mercilessly whenever we see the photo of him at his parents wedding; "you bastard" etc.

Still, I do not recommend you continue relations with this girl.

Stay away.

But maybe you've already gone after her and you're waiting for the COR to justify your choice.

anyone that asks for personal advice on a music forum is going to fail no matter what they do.

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Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN anyone that asks for personal advice on a music forum is going to fail no matter what they do.

Where else are we suppose to get advice from a lvl 20 mage?

craigslist

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Originally posted by SuspicionVandit craigslist

Ya but they are no way near as chaotic and or evil as they get here...

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Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN anyone that asks for personal advice on a music forum is going to fail no matter what they do.

Basically. But perhaps if we throw out enough advice to deter his efforts, it will in fact reduce the chances of him reproducing. Of course it is not ensured, but I'll take the chance!

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