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Parents are divorcing...my dad threatened to kill my mom

My mom asked my dad for a divorce 2 months ago, and she moved out with my brother and I..my brother is 19 and I'm 23. My mom doesn't want my dad to know where we moved..it's about 12 miles away from the former house.

She is scared because of past incidents with him threatening her due to him being emotionally unstable. She just wants peace in her life and doesn't want him to know where we live. What should she do? Restraining order? We're all a little overwhelmed with this situation.

get him institutionalized.

lol

honestly if i was in your situation, the last thing i would worry about is posting on a forum, and taking advice from people who you most likely don't know well, but those are just my 2cents.

But for the health of this thread, first thing i would do is put a restraining order on that guy and get him some help pronto, emotional instability never leads to any good.

edit: meh, might as well thrown in a couple of throat punches.

ummm guns solve problems!

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Originally posted by jfk-pilot honestly if i was in your situation, the last thing i would worry about is posting on a forum, and taking advice from people who you most likely don't know well, but those are just my 2cents. But for the health of this thread, first thing i would do is put a restraining order on that guy and get him some help pronto, emotional instability never leads to any good.

you're right, and you're wrong. I agree that this shouldn't be a place to ask this type of stuff. I may be drunk, but, i sort of know what's going on. My sister had the same problem. Husband was a fucking psycho. Restraining orders didn't really work because even though he sent her threatening messages and even followed her, the police never did anything when we called because he "didn't touch her or threaten her in anyway". It fucking sucked. What I'm saying is, maybe the restraining order won't do much. If your dad is unstable, then something more has to get done. But getting that restraining order is the first step. This was in florida btw. not sure how stuff runs over here.

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Originally posted by BobbyV My mom asked my dad for a divorce 2 months ago, and she moved out with my brother and I..my brother is 19 and I'm 23. My mom doesn't want my dad to know where we moved..it's about 12 miles away from the former house. She is scared because of past incidents with him threatening her due to him being emotionally unstable. She just wants peace in her life and doesn't want him to know where we live. What should she do? Restraining order? We're all a little overwhelmed with this situation.

very wierd, my parents are getting a divorce, my dad actually moved out today. its just a wierd situation hope everything goes well for you.

If she is genuinely scared he'll do physical harm to her there are groups in most major cities that'll women hide from abusive spouses/boyfriends...my friend worked at one. No idea how that will work for their children after a certain age.

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Originally posted by SuspicionVandit get him neutered.

fixed.

damn marriages.

Huaans aret meant for singelhood!!!!!!!!!!

Well if it was me I'd sit down with him and have a nice conversation about his behavioral problems, and why it's very much in his interest that those behavioral problems are resolved immediately and satisfactorily.

If you're not comfortable doing this, I imagine you could find someone willing to walk him through the process for a reasonable fee.

Dude your 23...Take care of Buisness.You have to do what you have to do.

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Originally posted by chach lol

this is by far the worst forum to look for pity or advice.

ok, so i gues i'll be the first person to write something noteworthy here.....

my folks are in the process of getting a divorce as well (only it was my father that moved out). anyway, my mah was worried that he would come back and take stuff without her knowing or whatever. so she changed the locks on both the front door, and the garage door. and also put a note out to some of the neighbors to be on the lookout for a blue saturn (my dad's car).

little different from your situation - but the same things apply....tell the neighbors to look out for this guy, notify local police that patrol the area on a daily basis, etc...

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Originally posted by clubamerica Dude your 23...Take care of Buisness.You have to do what you have to do.

THE SAME THING WE DO EVERY DAY. WE HAVE TO TAKE OVER THE WORLD!

What happened to that show?

Anyway, my dad threatens to kill everyone all the time.

How the fuck do you end up marrying a psychopath in the first place?

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Originally posted by BTG quote: Originally posted by chach lol

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Originally posted by Sean Walsh How the fuck do you end up marrying a psychopath in the first place?

people change. sometimes for the worse, sometimes for the better. this is obviously a case of the first.

anyone die yet?

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Originally posted by Marc Summers quote: Originally posted by BTG quote: Originally posted by chach lol

Man this dad sounds like a real swunt.

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Originally posted by Omega_Blue this is by far the worst forum to look for pity or advice.

Quoted for fuckin' truth.

Re: Parents are divorcing...my dad threatened to kill my mom

You know better than asking for help from the cor3.

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