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Posted by dEsidEL on Sep-11-2007 17:31:

Read This! It's hard to make close friends on Facebook, study says


quote:

It's hard to make close friends on Facebook, study says

Last Updated: Monday, September 10, 2007 | 1:36 PM ET
CBC News


Social networking websites such as Facebook and MySpace aren't expanding people's circles of close friends, but they are creating plenty of meaningless relationships, according to British researchers.

A study of the sites revealed that while many users have hundreds or even thousands of acquaintances on their accounts, their core group of close friends is still unchanged at around five people. However, weak ties among people around the globe are rising exponentially, said Will Reader, an evolutionary psychologist at Sheffield Hallam University, at a meeting of the British Association for the Advancement of Science.

The online study used a questionnaire and, based on the first 200 responses, found that close friendships were formed through in-person meetings in an overwhelming 90 per cent of cases.

"Face-to-face contact is a requirement for intimate friendships," he told the conference. "There are many emotional cues that people give face to face, such as smiling and laughing, which are impossible to fake, whereas online it is easy to say, 'You are wonderful, I love you.' "

A previous study done at the University of Liverpool found that most people have an average of 150 acquaintances in their social network yet also maintain a small core group of friends, which may indicate limitations on the human brain.

Reader said there are "good evolutionary reasons" why core friendship groups are so small. Making friendships means investing time and even money in another person, in which case face-to-face contact is invaluable so that people can see whether their investment is worthwhile. On the internet, it is "very easy to be deceptive" he said.

Social networking sites are, however, giving rise to a group of people known as friend collectors, who add little-known acquaintances just for the sake of having a large number of contacts on their profile. This allows people to "collect friends like boys collect Airfix models."


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http://www.cbc.ca/technology/story/...es.html?ref=rss


Posted by Silky Johnson on Sep-11-2007 17:34:

NO FUCKING SHIT!


Another brilliant study brought to us by Dr. Moron over at the Institute for the Obvious.


Posted by Yohan on Sep-11-2007 17:43:

quote:
Originally posted by jennypie
NO FUCKING SHIT!


Another brilliant study brought to us by Dr. Moron over at the Institute for the Obvious.

This is for dummies who needs to be beaten in the head with a sledgehammer in order to get it. Even then, failure rate is high.


Posted by Tordan on Sep-11-2007 17:44:

lol @ friend collectors.


Posted by exstasie on Sep-11-2007 17:49:

True.

But facebook and other similar means can help build a relationship. Obviously face-to-face contact is a necessity in any important relationship, however they can help.

I've made several friends that I would consider close through facebook. I may have met them informally through a third party and later added them through facebook. I then began talking to them on a more regular basis and became closer to those ppl and felt like I knew them next time I met them face-to-face.

Without facebook, I may not have developped these friendships.


Posted by Silky Johnson on Sep-11-2007 17:52:

quote:
Originally posted by exstasie
True.

But facebook and other similar means can help build a relationship. Obviously face-to-face contact is a necessity in any important relationship, however they can help.

I've made several friends that I would consider close through facebook. I may have met them informally through a third party and later added them through facebook. I then began talking to them on a more regular basis and became closer to those ppl and felt like I knew them next time I met them face-to-face.

Without facebook, I may not have developped these friendships.




You're not only in the Facebook fan club, but you're also the president?


Posted by Ravist on Sep-11-2007 17:52:

there was this one girl at my school that had around 600 friends and i asked one day, do you even talk to all of them? she replied with yeah I do. But that was obviously bullshit


Posted by dEsidEL on Sep-11-2007 17:55:

quote:
Originally posted by exstasie
True.

But facebook and other similar means can help build a relationship. Obviously face-to-face contact is a necessity in any important relationship, however they can help.

I've made several friends that I would consider close through facebook. I may have met them informally through a third party and later added them through facebook. I then began talking to them on a more regular basis and became closer to those ppl and felt like I knew them next time I met them face-to-face.

Without facebook, I may not have developped these friendships.




and you poke more friends online than you do in person now too right


Posted by exstasie on Sep-11-2007 17:55:

quote:
Originally posted by dEsidEL


and you poke more friends online than you do in person now too right


I never saw the point of the Poke...


Posted by dEsidEL on Sep-11-2007 17:57:

quote:
Originally posted by jennypie
NO FUCKING SHIT!


Another brilliant study brought to us by Dr. Moron over at the Institute for the Obvious.




it's okay .. it was a British study anyway so we never paid for it


Posted by jon jon on Sep-11-2007 17:59:

quote:
Originally posted by exstasie
I never saw the point of the Poke...


don't be so naive


Posted by jon jon on Sep-11-2007 18:00:

Honestly Facebook rules so fucking hard, I can't imagine life without it.


Posted by kaniz on Sep-11-2007 18:04:

quote:

A study of the sites revealed that while many users have hundreds or even thousands of acquaintances on their accounts, their core group of close friends is still unchanged at around five people. However, weak ties among people around the globe are rising exponentially, said Will Reader, an evolutionary psychologist at Sheffield Hallam University, at a meeting of the British Association for the Advancement of Science.


Thanks for the obvious, but really - how different is this from "real life"

Most people I know have MANY acquaintances - the kind of people they will say hey to at a club, maybe go out for drinks now and then or have a fleeting conversation on MSN with, but they are not "true" friends, and then have a smaller group of only 3-4 people that are truly good friends. The internet just compounds this 10 fold.

People are far too loose with the term Friendship IMO. I have many acquaintances, but only a handful of friends that I truly care about and would help them with anything if they needed/asked - and quite frankly, I'd rather keep it that way.

However, I've decided on facebook, for the sake of my sanity - I only add friends that are people who I actually know / knew outside of the internet + family members.

Sure, my friend list may not be 10 pages long like some other people I know, but I actually /know/ the people on my list (with a few exceptions that were added before I decided to adhere to this..)


Posted by DigDeep on Sep-11-2007 18:05:

quote:
Originally posted by jon jon
Honestly Facebook rules so fucking hard, I can't imagine life without it.


Posted by Silky Johnson on Sep-11-2007 18:06:

quote:
Originally posted by kaniz
People are far too loose with the term Friendship IMO. I have many acquaintances, but only a handful of friends that I truly care about and would help them with anything if they needed/asked - and quite frankly, I'd rather keep it that way.



Totally agreed.


Posted by thesauce23 on Sep-11-2007 18:07:

for fckn sure. i totally look forward to coming home and checkin to see if any of my friends gave me online attention. who needs face-to-face when u got face-t-screen action goin on... seen?

ahh so many friends, so many pokes


Posted by dEsidEL on Sep-11-2007 18:07:

quote:
Originally posted by kaniz
Thanks for the obvious, but really - how different is this from "real life"




man, stop being so obvious that this is obvious!


Posted by thesauce23 on Sep-11-2007 18:07:

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Posted by Yohan on Sep-11-2007 18:08:

quote:
Originally posted by kaniz
People are far too loose with the term Friendship IMO. I have many acquaintances, but only a handful of friends that I truly care about and would help them with anything if they needed/asked - and quite frankly, I'd rather keep it that way.

Well said


Posted by jon jon on Sep-11-2007 18:09:

quote:
Originally posted by dEsidEL

man, stop being so obvious that this is obvious!


lol!


Posted by Spin Laden on Sep-11-2007 18:16:

I met this broad once who does Facebook.. she should do facedown if you know what I mean

- Lennypie


Posted by CAKE on Sep-11-2007 18:16:

quote:
Originally posted by jennypie
NO FUCKING SHIT!


Another brilliant study brought to us by Dr. Moron over at the Institute for the Obvious.


LoL


Posted by Silky Johnson on Sep-11-2007 18:17:

quote:
Originally posted by Spin Laden
I met this broad once who does Facebook.. she should do facedown if you know what I mean

- Lennypie




LOL


Posted by Nata on Sep-11-2007 18:29:

quote:
Originally posted by jennypie
NO FUCKING SHIT!


Another brilliant study brought to us by Dr. Moron over at the Institute for the Obvious.


bahahaha

jenny if u had facebook id constantly poke u! lol

i actually closed mine and not eve going through any withdrawls haha
ppl life is possible without it!


Posted by Silky Johnson on Sep-11-2007 18:34:

quote:
Originally posted by Nata
jenny if u had facebook id constantly poke u! lol





Lolololol!


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