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Posted by Akridrot on Oct-18-2007 19:27:

Am I the only one who takes longer to cum when ****ing then when jerking off?

Sex feels much better to me, but it takes me so much longer to cum when fucking.

Now I wonder if this is actually the opposite for most people or not. People talk about how they start to last longer over time, because it feels so good the first few times and you cum quickly, but that has never been the case for me. When I first had sex, I truly expected to cum within around 30 seconds or something, but that wasn't the case.

The most awesome part of sex for me seems to be getting it in the first place, then it becomes a chore from that point on. Before I fuck a girl, I obviously like her a lot, but as soon as we start doing it (and this might sound strange), she becomes like a nuisance to me. It's nowhere near as hot as porn, and I just don't feel too excited or enthusiastic.


Posted by Frenchie on Oct-18-2007 19:30:

The things you don't share ....


Posted by Akridrot on Oct-18-2007 19:34:

quote:
Originally posted by Frenchie
The things you don't share ....


LOL. I have a lot of "things I don't share," and this does not fall in that category. It's just sex discussion, what's the harm?


Posted by Beatflux on Oct-18-2007 19:34:

Why don't you have her on top so you can just lie there?


Posted by netroM on Oct-18-2007 19:35:

ur gay.


Posted by Boomer187 on Oct-18-2007 19:39:

u need to stop banging ugly people.





(ugly people being gender neutral )


Posted by L.E.N. on Oct-18-2007 19:40:

Seems logical to me. You already know what you want and have perfected this over the years. Hell sometimes I can knock it before commercials are over.


Posted by DJ Mikey Mike on Oct-18-2007 19:42:

I have awesome control over blowing my bollock porridge. If I'm going to knock nigel, all I'm really interested in the the end result - So I'll go the fucking town on myself and make it quick. If I'm in the sack, it's a completely different story, and I'll make it last till the end of time.

In answer to your question - No, you're not the only one. (Edit: Although for not the same reasons.)


Posted by l�cid on Oct-18-2007 19:44:

Re: Am I the only one who takes longer to cum when ****ing then when jerking off?

quote:
Originally posted by Akridrot
Before I fuck a girl, I obviously like her a lot, but as soon as we start doing it (and this might sound strange), she becomes like a nuisance to me. It's nowhere near as hot as porn, and I just don't feel too excited or enthusiastic.

either you're fucking the wrong girls or you're bad at sex... or maybe a combination of both.


Posted by Abercrombie on Oct-18-2007 19:45:

I share the same life, Akridrot. Though nowhere ever is she a nuissance to me. I can't come on cue either, but like me, value your staying power that the majority of women crave. Sure she gets too sore to contniue the next morning, and that sucks for us, but they're battlescars and they appreciate it. Don't complain because the grass isn't any greener on the other side.


Posted by RJT on Oct-18-2007 19:45:

Re: Re: Am I the only one who takes longer to cum when ****ing then when jerking off?

quote:
Originally posted by l�cid
either you're fucking the wrong girls or you're bad at sex... or maybe a combination of both.


Or gay.


Posted by Zoso on Oct-18-2007 19:47:

I am interested in making my hand feel better.


Posted by Scoops on Oct-18-2007 20:21:

I LOVE SPRAYING MY UNBORN CHILDREN ON THE FACES OF FEMALES


Posted by CONNERMAN2000 on Oct-18-2007 20:23:

Sex requires more energy, so inherently your mind isnt entirely on when you are going to cum, but rather doing the motions, kissing, grabbing, etc, etc.

jerking off takes practically no effort has one thing in mind...cumming. so you're going to do it quicker.

thats my theory.


Posted by HardTranceProd on Oct-18-2007 20:30:

Re: Am I the only one who takes longer to cum when ****ing then when jerking off?

quote:
Originally posted by Akridrot
Sex feels much better to me, but it takes me so much longer to cum when fucking.

Now I wonder if this is actually the opposite for most people or not. People talk about how they start to last longer over time, because it feels so good the first few times and you cum quickly, but that has never been the case for me. When I first had sex, I truly expected to cum within around 30 seconds or something, but that wasn't the case.

The most awesome part of sex for me seems to be getting it in the first place, then it becomes a chore from that point on. Before I fuck a girl, I obviously like her a lot, but as soon as we start doing it (and this might sound strange), she becomes like a nuisance to me. It's nowhere near as hot as porn, and I just don't feel too excited or enthusiastic.


yep, a lot of men have delayed ejaculation. Sometimes the cause is lack of sensitivity (btw, are you circumcised?)

I have absolutely the same feelings on sex, it becomes a nuisance after the girl is right there, naked, in front of me, somehow I immediately lose interest... very strange


Posted by glass on Oct-18-2007 20:51:

Have you tried closing your eye's and imaging Dick Cheney on a beach towel


Posted by Jeremy H on Oct-18-2007 21:09:

Re: Re: Am I the only one who takes longer to cum when ****ing then when jerking off?

quote:
Originally posted by HardTranceProd
I have absolutely the same feelings on sex, it becomes a nuisance after the girl is right there, naked, in front of me, somehow I immediately lose interest... very strange

The chase is better than the catch!
I want you back for the rhythm-attack coming down on the floor like a maniac.
I want you back for the rhythm-attack. Get down in full effect!
I want you back for the rhythm-attack coming down on the floor like a maniac.
I want you back so clean up the dish.
By the way,
how much is the fish?!!




Btw, try being sober the next time you have sex


Posted by Yohan on Oct-18-2007 21:14:

quote:
Originally posted by Scoops
I LOVE SPRAYING MY UNBORN CHILDREN ON THE FACES OF FEMALES

wow. so wrong


Posted by Ang ' ela_ie on Oct-18-2007 21:20:

If you started dating girls that actually have a sex drive you might feel different about it.


Posted by Akridrot on Oct-18-2007 21:22:

Re: Re: Am I the only one who takes longer to cum when ****ing then when jerking off?

quote:
Originally posted by HardTranceProd
(btw, are you circumcised?)


yes

quote:
Originally posted by HardTranceProd
I have absolutely the same feelings on sex, it becomes a nuisance after the girl is right there, naked, in front of me, somehow I immediately lose interest... very strange


hmmmmm......


Posted by UWM on Oct-18-2007 23:33:

Re: Re: Am I the only one who takes longer to cum when ****ing then when jerking off?

quote:
Originally posted by HardTranceProd
I have absolutely the same feelings on sex, it becomes a nuisance after the girl is right there, naked, in front of me, somehow I immediately lose interest... very strange


This might have something to do with the fact that you obviously fancy the love of a man.


Posted by iclone on Oct-18-2007 23:41:

Re: Re: Re: Am I the only one who takes longer to cum when ****ing then when jerking off?

quote:
Originally posted by UWM
This might have something to do with the fact that you obviously fancy the love of a man.

promise to say "fancy" next time we party...


Posted by UWM on Oct-18-2007 23:42:

Consider it done.


Posted by iclone on Oct-18-2007 23:46:

yessssssssssssssssssssssssssss...

are you coming out this weekend?


Posted by Omega_Blue on Oct-18-2007 23:56:

quote:
Originally posted by iclone
yessssssssssssssssssssssssssss...

are you coming out this weekend?


pm


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