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Posted by stk on Apr-26-2002 01:37:

does my ex still like me?

She told me herself that she didnt...and she doesnt show any of it..BUt recently, i went to a school dance with another gurl and i heard from my friends that she got really mad cause i went..i dunno why? Also...i started to ignore her for a few days cause i still liked her a lot..so i thought it was best for me to try to forget about her..BUt she told every1 that i was ignoring her..and that she thought that i was mad at her..? well recently...i decided to kinda "play" with her yesterday, and i told her and pretended that i like this other gurl... well her reaction was kinda weird..and like she wasnt talking much after i told her..so i asked her "are u still mad?"..and she said "why the heck wuld i be mad u idiot?" ....and like the next day..she seemed to ignore me and like when i try to talk to her she will say something like "STOP ANNOYING ME ...your so freaken annoying" and tell me to go away or something... i am confused Does she hate me..or still have feelings for me? i donno..wat do u guys think?

Posted by Damo on Apr-26-2002 01:52:

so typical, don't let her play games with you guy, that's just the way some chicks are

...... FUCKED IN THE HEAD.

Posted by Endlesswave on Apr-26-2002 01:53:

Ummm...

I'm just as confused about this as you are, she could be jealous about you going to the dance with that other girl, and I think she IS mad but isn't saying it because she'll think it's a sign of weakness how she still might feel something towards you? I dunno, I could be WAY off cuz I don't have much exp with women but that's what I think...anyone else agree?

Posted by sothis on Apr-26-2002 01:59:

i highly doubt anyone on a message board who doesnt know anything about your situation in real life can even begin to give you a good answer to your question.

so rather than workin yourself up over what-ifs that board members give you, i suggest you just go ask her, and then youll know for sure, and the truth, not what people guess...

Posted by stk on Apr-26-2002 02:00:

i did ask her if she still likes me..and she said no..

Posted by rubyriva on Apr-26-2002 02:11:

wow, sorry to hear about this...best advice i could give (without knowing you or the situation) is to let her go. she probably just wants what she doesn't have anymore...don't let her play you!!

Posted by whiskers on Apr-26-2002 02:11:

Re: does my ex still like me?

quote:
Originally posted by stk
she said "why the heck wuld i be mad u idiot?" ....and like the next day..she seemed to ignore me and like when i try to talk to her she will say something like "STOP ANNOYING ME ...your so freaken annoying" and tell me to go away or something...

overreaction + pride + dignity = DENIAL

she's hurt. she might say that you're annoying, but i'd bet she cries when she goes to sleep at night. she's hurt.

Posted by davinox on Apr-26-2002 02:16:

like sothis said... I don't know the whole story, but I can say one thing...

but my advice...don't worry about it... If she wants to be with you let her, if she doesn't, that's ok too.

go with the flow...hehehehehehehe...

Posted by drizzt81 on Apr-26-2002 02:37:

Posted by Electric_Hybrid on Apr-26-2002 03:05:

Move on!!!!!!!!
Any girl givin you that much trouble aint worth the effort!!!!

Posted by julez on Apr-26-2002 06:08:

looks like she's mad confused or she's just playing games. As for other girls. Well, i think it's more of possession thing. Hmm.. your value always rises when there's competition for your affection.

Posted by elena on Apr-26-2002 06:28:

there are two possibilities:

1. she STILL likes you...obviously if she's getting all worked up about you going to a stupid SCHOOL DANCE with another girl..lame lame

2. it's nothing to worry about...you guys broke up and she most likely doesnt have feelings for you..but if you start liking another girl really soon after the breakup she would probably feel this TINY TINY MILLISEcOND-lasting shot of jealousy..EVEN IF SHE DOESNT LIKE YOU...cause itll probably make her feel as she were the flavor of the month

Posted by AnotherWay83 on Apr-26-2002 06:38:

i think u should do sum more research...see if u can get her to be ur sex-buddy...like just fuck-partners...that would be perfect

Posted by sothis on Apr-26-2002 06:42:

quote:
i think u should do sum more research...see if u can get her to be ur sex-buddy...like just fuck-partners...that would be perfect

Posted by AnotherWay83 on Apr-26-2002 06:49:

at least its AnotherWay of looking at it...

Posted by Rostros on Apr-26-2002 12:10:

Sukk Me Beutifull

I know your x fancies me :], oj no one fancies me :[ , anyways mate , if she wants you she will have you , girls are fucked up in the head and i say that for 99% of women in the world.

Posted by barry_sheen on Apr-26-2002 14:47:

I reckon she doesn't want to be with you anymore, but at the same time doesn't want you to be with anyone else. Have her cake and eat it type of thing.

Barry

Posted by sothis on Apr-26-2002 15:31:

barry sheen, that is an extremely frightening (in a good way) icon.. hahaha i laughed when i saw it

Posted by barry_sheen on Apr-26-2002 15:33:

Why thankyou, I am to please

Posted by Raptor on Apr-26-2002 20:32:

quote:
Originally posted by rubyriva
wow, sorry to hear about this...best advice i could give (without knowing you or the situation) is to let her go. she probably just wants what she doesn't have anymore...don't let her play you!!

this is probably the best advice... i would have said the same its hard to resolve your problem so the best is just to leave her alone for awhile and let her think about things.