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Posted by jdat on Nov-04-2007 21:07:

She made a mistake?

quote:

Let me start off by saying that I have been dating a lot lately.

There is this one girl I have been seeing who I wasn't that interested in at first, but as time went on I was thinking that maybe I should give her a chance.

I met her in a bar. The first time I approached her, we chatted for a bit. i was going to leave soon and I asked for her number. She was like "I don't meet people in bars." So I talke dto her a little more and when I had her laughing again - I was like "I better go before you start liking someone you met in a bar." So I bolted. The next weekend, I bumped into her again at the same place and she gave me her #.

So anyway, this girl and I have had multiple dates. I have taken her to dinner, drinks, a show... etc. This is over a period of 1-2 months. She has mentioned many times "that I have good qualities" and things of that nature.

Last weekend, we hung out both Friday and Saturday night. We even talked about possibly seeing more of each other.

We get back to my place, I sat on my couch and she on the loveseat. It wasn't long before she got up, sat down beside me, and the next thing I know she is on my lap, making out heavily.

The next night, we went out again, and she was very touchy-feely once again. I purposely sat back and let her make the moves.

It was like 3 AM Sunday morning, she was laying on my couch. I told her I was headed to bed and she could join if she wanted- or I would fetch her a blanket to sleep on the couch. She seemed indecisive so I just went to bed. When I woke she was gone, which was cool...

So, fast forward 2 days later. I call the girl to say hello and make small talk. Somehow we get on the conversation of what transpired on the weekend and she flat out said she "made a mistake".

That really blew me away. I mean I let this make all the moves only to turn around and say what she did like I somehow pressured her?

I told her that this would be pretty much it for us and I don't understand.

Then she breaks out the whole relationship talk.... uggh. Claiming "I am not ready for a relationship." I am just sitting there wondering where that even came from!

I was like "can't we just go back to enjoying each other's company?" and "why do we have to label it?"

I just can't bring myself to hang with a girl who claims making out with me is a MISTAKE. So I told her to go away....

I just find the whole thing very peculiar.

Her body languages says one thing and her mouth speaks another...




this is all fictitious and unrelated to me ( it's a copy and paste from a zine message board ). Thought some of you might want a random read )




Posted by sean5 on Nov-04-2007 22:26:

maybe the mistake was not joining you in bed???


Posted by echosystm on Nov-04-2007 22:49:

1-2 months of dating and no action?



Seriously...



Talk about epic failure and waste of time. If it's not on after 1 week, it's not on. Ever.


Posted by pkcRAISTLIN on Nov-04-2007 22:52:

a woman being indecisive and illogical? no!


Posted by BTG on Nov-04-2007 22:53:

probably because she wants somebody more agressive. some girls feel like dirty sluts when they have to make the first move.


Posted by echosystm on Nov-04-2007 23:03:

quote:
Originally posted by BTG
all girls feel like dirty sluts when they have to make the first move.


fixed.

you're the boy jdat, you got the doodle. ravage her with it.


Posted by chach on Nov-04-2007 23:06:

quote:
Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN
a woman being indecisive and illogical? no!



Posted by DigitalPhoenix on Nov-04-2007 23:11:

damned if you do, damned if you dont...
she probably felt like she was doing all the work

Convince her to go out with you once more but be more confident, grab her hand, tell her "let's have fun, I'm not ready for a relationship either" and do just that:

make her laugh, be creative, watch her reactions to your words and nexgt thing you know..

it'll be morning and she wont be gone


Posted by trewqy on Nov-04-2007 23:12:

whats wit the video?


Posted by tranceDJ on Nov-04-2007 23:16:

You wouldn't have heard "I made a mistake" if

quote:
It was like 3 AM Sunday morning, she was laying on my couch. I told her I was headed to bed and she could join if she wanted- or I would fetch her a blanket to sleep on the couch. She seemed indecisive so I just went to bed. When I woke she was gone, which was cool...


Was replaced with...

[quote]It was like 3 AM Sunday morning, she was laying on my couch. I told her I was headed to bed and she could join if she wanted- or I would fetch her a blanket to sleep on the couch. She seemed indecisive so I threw her over my shoulder, brought her into my bedroom and banged the hell out of her. When I woke she was gone, which was cool...[quote]


Posted by sean5 on Nov-04-2007 23:42:

girls are overrated. become a pro at jerking off (like me) and save your money for better things. think of all the things you could have bought and enjoyed instead of dinner, movies, shows, and other bullshit just for a hole between someone's legs.


Posted by Nrg2Nfinit on Nov-05-2007 00:17:

you could have also used that money to buy yourself a prostitute..


anyways.. you played it perfect jdat.. mature and everything.


Posted by pkcRAISTLIN on Nov-05-2007 00:26:

quote:
Originally posted by sean5
girls are overrated. become a pro at jerking off (like me) and save your money for better things. think of all the things you could have bought and enjoyed instead of dinner, movies, shows, and other bullshit just for a hole between someone's legs.


i think someone is a tad on the ugly side.


Posted by Lira on Nov-05-2007 00:26:

quote:
Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN
a woman being indecisive and illogical? no!


Posted by pkcRAISTLIN on Nov-05-2007 00:30:

quote:
Originally posted by Lira


that's why there werent any female enlightenment philosophers


Posted by Nrg2Nfinit on Nov-05-2007 00:31:

quote:
Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN
that's why there aren't any female enlightenment philosophers


what about margret thatcher?


Posted by Lira on Nov-05-2007 00:40:

quote:
Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN
that's why there werent any female enlightenment philosophers

Mary Wollstonecraft?


Posted by pkcRAISTLIN on Nov-05-2007 00:50:

quote:
Originally posted by Lira
Mary Wollstonecraft?


haha! i knew you'd have to know at least one!!


Posted by sean5 on Nov-05-2007 00:53:

quote:
Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN
i think someone is a tad on the ugly side.


yes, very unattractive here


Posted by Cipha Sounds on Nov-05-2007 01:17:

quote:
Originally posted by echosystm
1-2 months of dating and no action?



Seriously...



Talk about epic failure and waste of time. If it's not on after 1 week, it's not on. Ever.


That's what I was thinking. If you weren't so soft Jdat, you would've been hitting that by now. Most chics are not into poet reading dudes that want to stay up and talk all night unless their looking to get married. She just wanted some dick, why do you think she jumped on your lap. If she's not giving up the pussy within a week then let the bitch go. She figured you to be the pussy whipped type so she didn't stick around. She's probably riding some dude's dick right now while you're reading this.

You waited 2 months LMFAO. You should probably join the Israeli army and toughen up a little. I promise you that you'll have bitches begging for you to shoot your load on their face. I've always been a cocky confident mother****** ever since I was 16, and that's what got me pussy all these years. If you're looking for a sensitive bitch, go to a library . Most likely , she was a bar hoping whore looking for attention.


Posted by Turbonium on Nov-05-2007 01:34:

jdat: I know the feeling... Chivalry is dead these days.


Posted by echosystm on Nov-05-2007 01:58:

quote:
Originally posted by Turbonium
Chivalry is dead these days.


it always was. they just want you to think otherwise, and have succeeded in doing so.


Posted by Turbonium on Nov-05-2007 02:01:

quote:
Originally posted by echosystm
it always was. they just want you to think otherwise, and have succeeded in doing so.

Yea, I've come to realize that the hard way.

Now, my confidence is permanently shot, and thanks to my upbringing, I can't really change myself for the better. That's the problem when you're brought up with integrity... you can't change it even if you wanted to.


Posted by Fledz on Nov-05-2007 02:03:

After 2 months of dating, how did you go from making out heavily on the sofa, to well....nothing

Dude, please tell me she isn't a virgin...


Posted by malek on Nov-05-2007 02:54:

whats her ethnic background?


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