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Posted by Krypton on Jan-29-2008 05:00:

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My mom is pissed off because I'm ready to move out. Her and her boyfriend are yellin pissed off at me right now as I type right now. They are pissed because my mom is unemployed, both living off disability checks from the government, and I help out with $400 a month with bills and food, etc. Well, I've got a nice crib to move into which is only 5 miles from work (instead of 20), I can ride the bus (instead of drive), I can ride a bike anywhere I need. I can afford it. Everything's right, it's that right time..

Need your input, what should I do?

Posted by pkcRAISTLIN on Jan-29-2008 05:01:

fuck her (no, not literally). if she can't be happy for you then she's a bad mother.

Posted by Frenchie on Jan-29-2008 05:01:

Grow some fuckin' balls.

Posted by Ted Promo on Jan-29-2008 05:02:

trancevandyyyyk

Posted by Zewad on Jan-29-2008 05:03:

heinz

Posted by iammesol on Jan-29-2008 05:03:

Move out. She should be more responsible than you. If you stay she'll never get a job.

Posted by Ted Promo on Jan-29-2008 05:03:

quote:
Originally posted by iammesol
Move out. She should be more responsible than you. If you stay she'll never get a job.

she gives jobs, but she doesn't take jobs.

Posted by Krypton on Jan-29-2008 05:08:

You people know me too well.

Time for a name change...

Posted by iammesol on Jan-29-2008 05:09:

Ite?

Posted by Zewad on Jan-29-2008 05:09:

move in with your dad... let your mom and her bf battle it out..

you keep saying yoru dad is mr ubar high military dude..

Posted by Halcyon+On+On on Jan-29-2008 05:11:

Vote Ron Paul, obviously.

Posted by verndogs on Jan-29-2008 05:11:

If you can afford to live on your own while supporting your mom, then go for it

Posted by Ted Promo on Jan-29-2008 05:11:

quote:
Originally posted by Krypton
You people know me too well.

Time for a name change...

which facade this time, Catholic bus driver?

Posted by Krypton on Jan-29-2008 05:14:

Back to the story...

I loaned out about $330 in gold (35% of oz.) so we could prevent the storage company from selling our stored furniture, and now I'm questioning whether I'm going to get my $330 back. To me, it's all preventable, unneeded BS. So naturally, I just want to get away from it right?

Posted by Halcyon+On+On on Jan-29-2008 05:15:

Posted by Ted Promo on Jan-29-2008 05:15:

quote:
Originally posted by Krypton
Back to the story...

I loaned out about $330 in gold

was that enough to buy Erdrick's Armor?

Posted by Zewad on Jan-29-2008 05:16:

people still wear gold?

Erdrick's Armor!

i loved that game... i remember spending hours trying to kill all teh gold men and find the ever ellusive silver slime

Posted by Ted Promo on Jan-29-2008 05:18:

quote:
Originally posted by Zewad
people still wear gold?

Erdrick's Armor!

i loved that game... i remember spending hours trying to kill all teh gold men and find the ever ellusive silver slime

Those slimes man, they were tough. Like, 2hp damage. Feckin' bastards.

Posted by Krypton on Jan-29-2008 05:18:

quote:
Originally posted by verndogs
If you can afford to live on your own while supporting your mom, then go for it

That's what I think the condition of me moving out might have to be. 5 months of unemployment is a killer. And job searching isn't easier nowadays either.

Posted by pkcRAISTLIN on Jan-29-2008 05:21:

quote:
Originally posted by Krypton
That's what I think the condition of me moving out might have to be. 5 months of unemployment is a killer. And job searching isn't easier nowadays either.

yeah, but at some stage you have to cut her off. arent you one of those libertarian types that believe in economic tough love?

Posted by Halcyon+On+On on Jan-29-2008 05:23:

quote:
Originally posted by pkcRAISTLIN
yeah, but at some stage you have to cut her off. arent you one of those libertarian types that believe in economic tough love?

No shit, the plot thickens.

Posted by RandomGirl on Jan-29-2008 05:40:

Your mother is a grown adult. I would assume her boyfriend is too. They shouldn't be relying on you to support them.

Now it would be nice of you to give them some notice before you leave, just so they can adjust their lifestyles to accommodate for you not being a contributing member to the family.

However, you shouldn't feel guilty or bad for moving out.

Posted by Krypton on Jan-29-2008 05:53:

Oh, I wouldn't be moving for at least 2 or 3 months, maybe longer. But I'm friggin 20, it's about time I get my own place ay?

Posted by RandomGirl on Jan-29-2008 05:57:

quote:
Originally posted by Krypton
Oh, I wouldn't be moving for at least 2 or 3 months, maybe longer. But I'm friggin 20, it's about time I get my own place ay?

Then what the fuck?

They shouldn't be upset at all. You're being more than reasonable with the amount of notice you're giving them. If they can't be happy for you, and proud that you are taking a step toward leading an adult life, they can piss off.

Posted by Clovis on Jan-29-2008 05:58:

I'm sure yelling at you was really going to make you change your mind.

Fuck that.

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