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Posted by stella on May-05-2002 21:07:

Moral Dilemma, Advice Needed...

OK, "hypothetical senario" your mate has a girlfriend who not is very attractive by smart and very good fun to be around. He treats her like shit, and as a "f~@* friend" but she doesn't know it, and is seeing some other women. You wouldn't mind being with exhibit A (the girl friend). Do you keep out of it/tell her/tell him to f@*& off/tell the other women/kill them all or what?

Posted by Trancewave on May-05-2002 21:20:

GO FOR IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted by vito on May-05-2002 23:44:

you should get over it and go for someone else
i wouldn't trade in a mate for a girl

Posted by NY1004 on May-06-2002 00:22:

How close are you to this mate?

Posted by Dj Zinni on May-06-2002 00:52:

bro's before hoes. the end

Posted by rupert on May-06-2002 01:15:

if your mate does'nt treat her with respect then he deserves not to have her.

Posted by jp on May-06-2002 02:05:

keep you equipment locked!

Posted by Orbax on May-06-2002 02:53:

quote:
she doesn't know it, and is seeing some other women...

lemme get this straight. The guy has a chick he just likes to use for sex and spends his other time going after other women. And you are wondering to tell the sex pet whats up? Well if thats the case your friend has no morals and is pretty low class. "players" who are testing the waters and stuff are pathetic and thats their way of not getting hurt, because they will never be in a meaningful relationship. Tell the guy hes an ass and clean up, because you think what he is doing is wrong. If he says to piss off, tell the girl in the nicest way possible. Knowing you did the right thing, and other people knowing you did the right thing, will be worth more than what ever temporary resentment people feel towards you. And if there is more than temporary resentment...is this the kind of person you want as a friend? someone who will not forgive you for doing what you think is the dead honest right thing to do.

Posted by roosh on May-06-2002 03:34:

I doubt the girl is that naive that she is being used for sex.

If you go after the girl, the friendship will be over. Ask yourself this...how important is your friendship?

Posted by brunette on May-06-2002 03:44:

I think you should stay out of it.. you're his friend, not hers.. she is obviously a joke to him.. you know you can't have her 'cause he's your friend, so just let him play his game and if she is as smart as you say she is, she'll figure it out (eventually) and get the hell out of that relationship herself.

Posted by Henkie_henk on May-06-2002 03:48:

Yr friend sounds just like my friend.. ah well.. its always friends before girls.. I even ly to girls.. to get em off my friend's back

You could ofcourse tell yr friend that he acts like a dick.. and should break up with this ugly (but o so funny girl) and go for the new chick.. but dont go dating that ugly (but o so funny chick).. friends dont do other friends ex gfs.. period.

o yea.. peter parker = a fag.. he stealz girlfriend from his best friend (and only friend lol)

n3rd

Posted by whiskers on May-06-2002 10:58:

quote:
Originally posted by Henkie_henk
o yea.. peter parker = a fag.. he stealz girlfriend from his best friend (and only friend lol)
n3rd

i was about to comment on peter parker. he's in no way a fag, because he did NOT steal MJ from harry. it's harry's father, who lead to the breakup. hary, btw, knew that parker liked MJ, yet still he went for her and never told him anything and treated MJ badly. and pete parker in the end told MJ to literally piss off, for which he actually IS a fag. damn, i hated that ending!

as for you, stella, i think you should probably talk to your friend about it too. explain how it's not right to treat the girl that way.

Posted by Miss Proximus on May-06-2002 11:06:

I could've sworn you were female

Posted by Rostros on May-06-2002 11:47:

whats going to happen is your going to tell her and she is gonna get the idea that you like her as your protecting her , maybe you do like her but you don't know it.

Tell her and if your friend finds out then you will see if he is a real friend or now , will he admit it that hes a tosser or is he gonna fuck you off , then he will have friend and no g/f.

tell her in secrecy. love you all Dj

Posted by j_spot on May-06-2002 20:35:

quote:
Originally posted by Dj Zinni
bro's before hoes. the end

thats all there is to say

maybe let her in on his secret, then later on(like 3-4 months) go for her.

but for now, BROS BEFORE HOES

Posted by Orbax on May-06-2002 20:50:

Bros before hoes? That sounds like middle school/frat boy bullshit. Its right before wrong end of story. If your friend says to you "You ******! you did the right thing!" then hes a fool and not a friend. Friends understand that the right thing to do is the right thing to do. That whole statement conveys such a lack of respect towards women its pitiful.