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Posted by Intangible on Mar-22-2008 20:56:

What is a "lesbian vibe"?

So I've asked all my friends and no one can answer. Im a bit desperate for some insight, its been on my mind all day.

My story:

I was in the bathroom at guv and this girl starts talking to me. After a couple minutes she says "Are you a lesbian? I thought you were but now I dont think so." So I say say no and ask why and she replies with "I saw you awhile ago and I thought you had a lesbian vibe" then she walks away.

So Im just curious what is a lesbian vibe?

I dont go out to pick up guys and I smile at both guys and girls, but I dont see what I would do to make me seem like a lesbian

And before anyone says it.... I do not look masculine in ANY way.

Posted by chinamon on Mar-22-2008 21:00:

pics or stfu.

Posted by FunkyCrew on Mar-22-2008 21:01:

that's def a first I ever hear about something like that

maybe she just took your smile the wrong way? I know a lot of guys make that mistake

Posted by chinamon on Mar-22-2008 21:03:

i think i know what she means by a "lesbian vibe" because i know people that give off a "gay vibe"... such as thesauce23. something about him screams "help! open this closet door and let me breathe!"

Posted by PressPLay on Mar-22-2008 21:10:

Honestly, you'll get all your answers watching "The L-Word" on TV. Anyway, many people have 'gaydar' and know immediately that you are gay before you even know yourself. Anyway I don't know you, but my guess you'll come out within 3 years. Actually, I hope you are not a les, but Bi!

Posted by I_Am_Vince on Mar-22-2008 21:16:

Basically the girl that approached you thought you were a lesbian and thought you gave up a 'lesbian vibe' kinda like if you see a guy acting pretty flamboy-ish with his hands waving everywhere and you think he's gay... ask Barbina if you wanna learn more lol

Posted by Intangible on Mar-22-2008 21:17:

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Originally posted by PressPLay
Honestly, you'll get all your answers watching "The L-Word" on TV. Anyway, many people have 'gaydar' and know immediately that you are gay before you even know yourself. Anyway I don't know you, but my guess you'll come out within 3 years. Actually, I hope you are not a les, but Bi!

Haha! No question about it, I like guys. And although this might not agree with other people opinions; I do not believe in bisexuality. I think its for people who are either confused, or for girls who want to impress other boys. But thats just my thoughts, Im sure lots of others feel differently.

Posted by teufel-man on Mar-22-2008 21:23:

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Originally posted by Intangible
I do not believe in bisexuality. I think its for people who are either confused, or for girls who want to impress other boys. But thats just my thoughts, Im sure lots of others feel differently.

Yeah I have always questioned the validity of bisexuality

It seems that its just a transition stage to coming out of the closet for most people

Posted by Intangible on Mar-22-2008 21:24:

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Originally posted by Invasionmix
Basically the girl that approached you thought you were a lesbian and thought you gave up a 'lesbian vibe' kinda like if you see a guy acting pretty flamboy-ish with his hands waving everywhere and you think he's gay... ask Barbina if you wanna learn more lol

Ok so my question is: What is the flamboyish version of lesbian behavious? (does that make any sense???)

What kind of behaviour does a "typical" lesbian display? The only lesbians I have ever met have always looked very masculine.

So paging Barbina.... The prettiest lesbian I have ever seen (not in person, but in picture)

Posted by I_Am_Vince on Mar-22-2008 21:25:

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Originally posted by Intangible
The only lesbians I have ever met have always looked very masculine.

So paging Barbina.... The prettiest lesbian I have ever seen (not in person, but in picture)

Nah Barbina is pretty masculine lol

Posted by Intangible on Mar-22-2008 21:31:

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Originally posted by Invasionmix
Nah Barbina is pretty masculine lol

lol... Im extreme gullible and although extremely sarcastic, Im typically oblivious to other peoples sarcasm. So because Ive never met her I have no idea whether you're joking or not. lol

Posted by PressPLay on Mar-22-2008 21:31:

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Originally posted by Intangible

The only lesbians I have ever met have always looked very masculine.

Guess you've never attended PRIDE week events? Anyway, generally they are classed in 2 categories:

1. Butches

2. Lipstick lessies

Posted by Intangible on Mar-22-2008 21:35:

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Originally posted by PressPLay
Guess you've never attended PRIDE week events? Anyway, generally they are classed in 2 categories:

1. Butches

2. Lipstick lessies

Still kind of new to Toronto and I havent made it out to Pride Week. I hope to this summer (except drag queens kind of freak me out).

I had heard of lipstick lesbians but since I had never seen them i had placed them in the same category as leprechauns. lol

Posted by PressPLay on Mar-22-2008 21:40:

At first I said 3 years for you coming out, but now maybe this June (3 months from now PRIDE week).

I better get out of this thread, but it's the only interesting one for this long Easter weekend so far. LOL

I'm only joking about everything!!!

Posted by *~LiSa-LoO~* on Mar-22-2008 21:46:

quote:
Originally posted by Intangible
I had heard of lipstick lesbians but since I had never seen them i had placed them in the same category as leprechauns. lol

Lipstick lesbians are far from being leprechauns. Rather than being `butch` they`re you`re typical feminine woman, but one who is more attracted to their own sex.

If you watched Tila Tequila (sooo awful, but I loved it), the female contestants were lipstick lesbians. This is the best picture I could find.

If Tila was actually a lesbian, she would be considered a lipstick lesbian. However, her bi-sexuality is most like a crock of shit.

Posted by Intangible on Mar-22-2008 21:52:

quote:
Originally posted by PressPLay
At first I said 3 years for you coming out, but now maybe this June (3 months from now PRIDE week).

lol. Well if that lesbian does no something about me that I dont know, Ill be sure to invite you to my coming out party. Lol. But dont hold your breath for it.

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Originally posted by *~LiSa-LoO~*
If you watched Tila Tequila (sooo awful, but I loved it), the female contestants were lipstick lesbians. This is the best picture I could find.

I need to watch more TV, Tila Tequila and the L-Word will be on my list of shows to watch next week. When are they on?

I knew there were such things as lipstick lesbians, but I guess like leprechauns you never see them. lol <--- that would be the irish in me. haha

Posted by Skipper on Mar-22-2008 21:52:

I would suspect she was just trying to pick you up and when it was clear you weren't interested, she said that as if to explain herself.

Also, I don't think I've seen lipstick lesbians in TO.

Posted by PressPLay on Mar-22-2008 21:54:

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Originally posted by *~LiSa-LoO~*

If Tila was actually a lesbian, she would be considered a lipstick lesbian. However, her bi-sexuality is most like a crock of shit.

I missed the season finale, who did she eventually pick? The media was circulating stories that Tila definitely does have a boyfriend and that is why MTV did not renew for Season 2, even though ratings skyrocketed!

Posted by *~LiSa-LoO~* on Mar-22-2008 22:01:

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Originally posted by Intangible
I need to watch more TV, Tila Tequila and the L-Word will be on my list of shows to watch next week. When are they on?

It's finished, but you can watch it on www.mtv.ca It's SOOO bad haha, one of those guilty pleasure shows.

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Originally posted by PressPLay
I missed the season finale, who did she eventually pick? The media was circulating stories that Tila definitely does have a boyfriend and that is why MTV did not renew for Season 2, even though ratings skyrocketed!

She picked Bobby, but reports say that he tried to contact her afterwards and she would have nothing to do with him. I heard that too about the boyfriend thing...but I heard a rumor that they may be bringing it back b/c Bobby "broke her heart". If it comes back though I'm definitely not watching it. The more I watched that show made me realize the more I can't stand her.

Posted by PressPLay on Mar-22-2008 22:04:

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Originally posted by Skipper

Also, I don't think I've seen lipstick lesbians in TO.

I've never met Barbina personally, but she would be categorized as a lipstick lesbian. Ever hear her go gone about fashion chic etc...

Posted by Intangible on Mar-22-2008 22:05:

quote:
Originally posted by *~LiSa-LoO~*
It's finished, but you can watch it on www.mtv.ca It's SOOO bad haha, one of those guilty pleasure shows.

There is nothing better than a bit of MTV to numb the mind after a long day. Ive been shamefully watching That's Amore with Domenico, who I think is one of the guys she didnt pick or something.

I love these young girls who are 18 and are looking for their true love/acting career.

Posted by *~LiSa-LoO~* on Mar-22-2008 22:18:

quote:
Originally posted by Intangible
There is nothing better than a bit of MTV to numb the mind after a long day. Ive been shamefully watching That's Amore with Domenico, who I think is one of the guys she didnt pick or something.

Ya, Domenico was on Tila Tequila. Seriously the show is so awful, my bf was nice enough to watch it with me (he actually got a bit into it), but he made me watch it at home first so I could yell at the TV in the privacy of my own home and not while he was trying to listen. Haha

quote:
Originally posted by Intangible
I love these young girls who are 18 and will do anything to become famous

Corrected! Haha

Posted by chinamon on Mar-22-2008 22:21:

quote:
Originally posted by Intangible
Haha! No question about it, I like guys. And although this might not agree with other people opinions; I do not believe in bisexuality. I think its for people who are either confused, or for girls who want to impress other boys. But thats just my thoughts, Im sure lots of others feel differently.

may god bless those girls!

Posted by teufel-man on Mar-22-2008 22:27:

quote:
Originally posted by chinamon
may god bless those girls!

and may you take their photos!

Posted by barbina on Mar-22-2008 23:04:

Oh wow. I leave for a day and theres a dyke thread ahhaaha.
Anyways.. yes.. I am a "lipstick lesbian" haha and im glad most of you already knew that.. and fuck you vince .. i'll go bull dyke on you if you dont shut your mouth
[<3]

as for the girl in the bathroom
it can be realllly hard.. especially if you throw in drugs/alcohol.. to tell if a girl is gay [unless theyre obvious about it].. its usually body language.. so that girl probably just thought you were hot and wanted to give it a shot [you never konw whos bi these days haha] or she picked up on something that you didn't mean to send.

Flamboyant lesbians? Well uhm... hmm.. Unless theyre the dykey kind I think its hard to call. The way I tell is basically eye contact and body language... just like a guy you can usually tell whos interested.. or just do what that girl did in the bathroom... its easier

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