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Posted by leph555 on Apr-03-2008 11:11:

Sex takes 3 to 13 minutes

quote:
Maybe men had it right all along: It doesn't take long to satisfy a woman in bed.

It's difficult for men of all ages to make sexual intercourse last much longer, a psychologist says.

A survey of sex therapists concluded the optimal amount of time for sexual intercourse was 3 to 13 minutes. The findings, to be published in the May issue of the Journal of Sexual Medicine, strike at the notion that endurance is the key to a great sex life.

If that sounds like good news to you, don't cheer too loudly. The time does not count foreplay, and the therapists did rate sexual intercourse that lasts from 1 to 2 minutes as "too short."

Researcher Eric Corty said he hoped to ease the minds of those who believe "more of something good is better, and if you really want to satisfy your partner, you should last forever."

The questions were not gender-specific, said Corty. But he said prior research has shown men and women want foreplay and sexual intercourse to last longer.

Dr. Irwin Goldstein, editor of the Journal of Sexual Medicine, cited a four-week study of 1,500 couples in 2005 that found the median time for sexual intercourse was 7.3 minutes. (Women in the study were armed with stopwatches.)

It's difficult for both older men and young men to make sexual intercourse last much longer, said Marianne Brandon, a clinical psychologist and director of Wellminds Wellbodies in Annapolis, Maryland.

"There are so many myths in our culture of what other people are doing sexually," Brandon said. "Most people's sex lives are not as exciting as other people think they are."

Fifty members of the Society for Sex Therapy and Research in the U.S. and Canada were surveyed by Corty, an associate professor of psychology at Penn State Erie, The Behrend College, and student Jenay Guardiani. Thirty-four members, or 68 percent, responded, although some said the optimal time depended on the couple.

Corty said he hoped to give an idea of what therapists find to be normal and satisfactory among the couples they see.

"People who read this will say, 'I last five minutes or my partner lasts eight minutes,' and say, 'That's OK,' " he said. "They will relax a little bit."


http://www.cnn.com/2008/LIVING/pers...ref=mpstoryview


damn i forget to count


Posted by stren on Apr-03-2008 11:13:

so if its longer it aint sex ?


Posted by XaNaX on Apr-03-2008 11:25:

queue the flood of posts of "I must be a freak because I can go for an hour every time"


Posted by Acton on Apr-03-2008 11:41:

Average time of 7.3 minutes?

thats fucking pathetic.

i can get it done in half the time


Posted by idoru on Apr-03-2008 11:42:

Most women I've talked to have said 15-20 works just fine for them. Nothing new here, really.


Posted by Az on Apr-03-2008 11:47:

"best 20 seconds of her life"


Posted by elFreak on Apr-03-2008 11:52:

it sounds about right for just plugging away and without foreplay included. Switch positions often and it can last a long time. The downside to this usually means the pause in action can set her back to square one or at least several steps back. Who cares how fucking long it takes, as long as everyone is satisfied. I would rather brag about orgasms given than time spent being futile. (and how big the load i shot on her face was.)


Posted by Rikard on Apr-03-2008 12:22:

quote:
Originally posted by elFreak
I would rather brag about orgasms given than time spent being futile. (and how big the load i shot on her face was.)


Amen.


Posted by DJ Mikey Mike on Apr-03-2008 13:30:

She can have the 2-pump special and fucking like it. I'm a busy man.


Posted by david.michael on Apr-03-2008 13:34:

"You had me at one pump."

- New Dawn dish-soap commercial


Posted by MrJiveBoJingles on Apr-03-2008 13:49:

quote:
Originally posted by DJ Mikey Mike
She can have the 2-pump special and fucking like it. I'm a busy man.


Posted by Sandsider on Apr-03-2008 13:58:

"The time does not count foreplay, and the therapists did rate sexual intercourse that lasts from 1 to 2 minutes as "too short." "

You don't hear me complaining...'experts',.. my Aunt Fanny !


Posted by CONNERMAN2000 on Apr-03-2008 15:34:

quote:
Originally posted by DJ Mikey Mike
She can have the 2-pump special and fucking like it. I'm a busy man.



Posted by THE_Chris on Apr-03-2008 15:48:

Who gives a fuck if she enjoys it anyway


Posted by denys envy on Apr-03-2008 16:18:

does having sex with hand count?


Posted by barbina on Apr-03-2008 16:22:

you all are the reason I'm a freakin homo.


Posted by Audious on Apr-03-2008 16:42:

quote:
Originally posted by barbina
you all are the reason I'm a freakin homo.


I like how you feel the need to mention that you're gay in nearly every post you make. Oh, by the way, I'm straight.


Posted by Nrg2Nfinit on Apr-03-2008 16:43:

lol whats wrong with ending and starting again right after.. round 2 or 3 you should last longer..


Posted by XaNaX on Apr-03-2008 16:47:

quote:
Originally posted by barbina
you all are the reason I'm a freakin homo.


Shit if I was a woman I'd be a homo too


Posted by MrJiveBoJingles on Apr-03-2008 16:47:


Posted by XaNaX on Apr-03-2008 17:44:

lol a classic


Posted by barbina on Apr-03-2008 17:54:

quote:
Originally posted by Audious
I like how you feel the need to mention that you're gay in nearly every post you make. Oh, by the way, I'm straight.


i love that you guys supply me with ways to connect it to anything


Posted by david.michael on Apr-03-2008 17:55:

quote:
Originally posted by barbina
i love that you guys supply me with ways to connect it to anything


huh...huhuhuh....huh...huh...


Posted by Shifty-1 on Apr-03-2008 17:56:

3-13 minutes...pathetic


Posted by Fundamental on Apr-03-2008 17:58:

Jeez, none of the lesbians in those videos are this annoying.


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