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Posted by whiskers on May-19-2008 17:56:

why do women like to talk (on the phone) so much?

I called to ask a question, not to chat about what's happening at work or whatever else they want to let me know about. I will call separately for that.


Posted by iammesol on May-19-2008 17:57:

because omg you just HAVE to hear this


Posted by shaw on May-19-2008 18:03:

because you touch yourself at night.


Posted by Meat187 on May-19-2008 18:07:

Because the night belongs to lovers.


Posted by Project-K on May-19-2008 18:15:

quote:
Originally posted by iammesol
because omg you just HAVE to hear this


OMG SHE WAS LIKE OMG SHE WAS LIKE OMG AND SHE WAS LIKE OMG.


Posted by Lira on May-19-2008 18:22:

Because it's a way of creating several kinds of bonds. You called just because you wanted to make a question, but she probably intepreted it as an excuse to engage in conversation. That happens both to men and women, as far as I know.

I personally like this kind of seemingly endless chatter quite a lot, and I used to spend hours on the phone talking both to girls and guys (mostly girls, though). Most of the time, I'd just ask a really random question (can you see a pattern here? ), and 2 hours of conversation would ensue


Posted by Ania_xox on May-19-2008 18:24:

Because you loved me


Posted by l�cid on May-19-2008 18:30:

because they like attention.

there's only a few people that i can stand being on the phone with for more than 2 minutes... mostly just my mom and my friends that live far away, and even then it's only because i don't get to see them often enough and e-mail/IM just doesn't cut it sometimes.


Posted by chimera66 on May-19-2008 18:33:

i don't LOVE talking on the phone but i do enjoy the random talking and find myself talking to some people for 2+ hours at a time...most of the conversation is worthless but keeps you updated on some people's lives...only with people who don't live near me though


Posted by Project-K on May-19-2008 18:34:

quote:
Originally posted by Ania_xox
Because you loved me



*stabstabstabstab*


Posted by Ania_xox on May-19-2008 18:38:

you have been a TA for over a year and have not posted a pic of yourself

you're not allowed to talk anymore

*pushes Project-K into the corner*


Posted by Project-K on May-19-2008 18:42:

quote:
Originally posted by Ania_xox
you have been a TA for over a year and have not posted a pic of yourself


Actually I've been lurking around since the krysta days


Posted by nekholm on May-19-2008 18:49:

Re: why do women like to talk (on the phone) so much?

quote:
Originally posted by whiskers
I called to ask a question, not to chat about what's happening at work or whatever else they want to let me know about. I will call separately for that.


Exactly what happens here too. I call my gf to ask what time she gets off work, that's a 10 seconds call. She manages to turn it into 5 minutes by asking stuff like do we have milk, what do you wanna eat today, this and that happened. I'm like damnit woman, I'm at work too, I don't have all day.


Posted by SteelWolf on May-19-2008 18:54:

I think its kind of cute... she wants to talk to me so she keeps talking about... everything. Kind of um flattering really. Don't bother me much, especially cuz you can just listen and say "yeah" or "yep" every so often and she's happy just talking


Posted by Project-K on May-19-2008 18:56:

quote:
Originally posted by SteelWolf
I think its kind of cute... she wants to talk to me so she keeps talking about... everything. Kind of um flattering really. Don't bother me much, especially cuz you can just listen and say "yeah" or "yep" every so often and she's happy just talking




yeah, I usually space out after 30 seconds and I just randomly say 'yeah' and 'ok' at random intervals.


Posted by Silky Johnson on May-19-2008 18:58:

Again, because they need constant attention and love the sound of their own voice.

God I fucking hate the tendency of women to babble on about the most inane shit/whatever the fuck is on their mind at any given moment.


Posted by Alex on May-19-2008 18:59:

quote:
Originally posted by jennypie
Again, because they need constant attention and love the sound of their own voice.

God I fucking hate the tendency of women to babble on about the most inane shit/whatever the fuck is on their mind at any given moment.


Yeah.

Uh huh.

Yep.


Posted by MeLLyMeL on May-19-2008 18:59:

Re: Re: why do women like to talk (on the phone) so much?

quote:
Originally posted by nekholm
Exactly what happens here too. I call my gf to ask what time she gets off work, that's a 10 seconds call. She manages to turn it into 5 minutes by asking stuff like do we have milk, what do you wanna eat today, this and that happened. I'm like damnit woman, I'm at work too, I don't have all day.
that is sooo meee!

we spend 5 mins alone trying to figure what to eat and bastardo boyfriend never picks!


Posted by Ania_xox on May-19-2008 19:08:

I love talking on the phone
It's the best substitute for not being able to be with someone.
I can't live without long distance phone cards or my cell.

When I'm dating a guy, we'll call every single night we don't see eachother before bed and talk until he or I fall asleep.
I don't think it has anything to do with attention - it's about feeling close to someone when you can't be with them.
I can't go out for coffee and shoot the shit with my God-sister in Poland - talking for hours on the phone is the next best thing.

PS. the "yah" and "mmm hmmm" interjections don't count as conversation lol


Posted by Lira on May-19-2008 19:09:

Re: Re: Re: why do women like to talk (on the phone) so much?

quote:
Originally posted by jennypie
Again, because they need constant attention and love the sound of their own voice.

God I fucking hate the tendency of women to babble on about the most inane shit/whatever the fuck is on their mind at any given moment.

Isn't most random chat... well, random? And aren't these conversations (regardless of how terapeutic they are to the babbling person ) a way of bringing people together? If we always had to say something useful in order to talk to someone, communication would be really annoying.


Posted by Silky Johnson on May-19-2008 19:11:

Re: Re: Re: Re: why do women like to talk (on the phone) so much?

quote:
Originally posted by Lira
Isn't most random chat... well, random? And aren't these conversations (regardless of how terapeutic they are to the babbling person ) a way of bringing people together? If we always had to say something useful in order to talk to someone, communication would be really annoying.



I'm not talking about random chat though...I'm talking about thinking out loud.


Posted by jdat on May-19-2008 19:13:

I fail at social chit chat and fail at inter-personal chit chat as well.

When I talk I mean serious business and don't like dixing around about stupid stuff ... maybe that explains a lot of things actually


Posted by iammesol on May-19-2008 19:16:

quote:
Originally posted by Ania_xox
When I'm dating a guy, we'll call every single night we don't see eachother before bed and talk until he or I fall asleep.


You have no idea how annoying this is, even if you're head over heels for the person you're talking to.


Posted by Lira on May-19-2008 19:18:

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: why do women like to talk (on the phone) so much?

quote:
Originally posted by jennypie
I'm not talking about random chat though...I'm talking about thinking out loud.

Because I'm not a girl, maybe I've failed to see the difference, but isn't thinking out loud a (rather clumsy) way of starting some random chat?

I think one of the most hilarious convos I've ever had on the phone began with a girl wondering whether she had had breakfast that morning


Posted by Silky Johnson on May-19-2008 19:23:

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: why do women like to talk (on the phone) so much?

quote:
Originally posted by Lira

I think one of the most hilarious convos I've ever had on the phone began with a girl wondering whether she had had breakfast that morning




*hatehatehate*


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