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Posted by r5a on May-31-2008 21:38:

Question about Sex - seriously.

ok. so. ive been with this girl about two months now. we've been enjoying as it has been very casual and stress-free and it's been working great, no fights or anything like that. shes a very shy and sometimes self-conscious and very little experienced in sexual activities.

anyway, just this week we started fooling around a little bit beyond makeouts and spoonings to 3rd base (hand/head) and she apparently doesn't feel anything. we've only done it twice so far and both times were a fail she claims not to feel anything, literally anything. no pleasure what-so-ever.

I have been trying all sorts of techniques and stuff that have worked on previous exs and sent them into violent shakings, combining hand/head ect. the works. shes even tried to help me find her spots and that doesn't go over to well so im really not sure if it's me being a total suck and should start reading books or her and she has something.

its not like im jumping right into giving her hand/head there is a good solid 30 minutes of pre-game before taking it both ways (pretty intense & soft and gentle makeouts and groping). and we are both in the mood.

at first i thought it was that she was feeling uncomfortable or shy about it or was worried about stuff (she had heard about previous things ive done) so we spent a good hour talking about everything before hand and laughing and being really open about it all to make it less awkward which helped somewhat and i still ask her if shes okay with all of this and she tells me yeah she's fine and not worried/shy about it.

is she simply just not ready for all of this? (keep in mind she has had no experience in this before and is still a virgin, same age as me - 18) or is there something else at play here that i'm not seeing?

please help. shes getting upset and starting to think there is something wrong with her, while i have to assure her its not her and probably me and i suck goat dick.

Posted by elFreak on May-31-2008 21:39:

if you call it hand you are a fucking virgin...nerd.

Posted by elFreak on May-31-2008 21:40:

ps its always your fault...if women suck in bed you make them good.

its called the anus.

Posted by elFreak on May-31-2008 21:41:

i might not have a brain but im not the virgin who posts help me shit in the cor.

lol vagina its so easy whats up.

Posted by r5a on May-31-2008 21:41:

quote:
Originally posted by elFreak
if you call it hand you are a fucking virgin...nerd.
gratz' you win at nothing. your cool.

Posted by bucke on May-31-2008 21:41:

Re: Question about Sex - seriously.

quote:
Originally posted by r5a
its not like im jumping right into giving her hand and head before hand, there is a good solid 30 minutes of pre-game before hand

huh? all i understood out of this was hand.

HAND!

Posted by elFreak on May-31-2008 21:42:

i bet you rub your cock on a piece of rabbit fur.

edit :deleting posts makes you more gay.

Posted by bucke on May-31-2008 21:42:

i say just stick it in the hole and its a win.

Posted by Ang ' ela_ie on May-31-2008 21:43:

She sounds like shes pretty inexperienced with herself. I think you just might be out of luck.

Posted by bucke on May-31-2008 21:43:

btw i want the 5mins of my life back that i spent reading this bullshit!

Posted by elFreak on May-31-2008 21:45:

seriously just fuck her...dont wait for her to say omg like stick your rigid manhood in my chowda. say it frenchie...grow some balls.

ps fag

pps bas

Posted by Chris Crossland on May-31-2008 21:50:

Can she get herself off? If not her fuckin bean is broken.

Quit fuckin around and stick it in her ass, prudes.

Fucking skanks!

Posted by Nrg2Nfinit on May-31-2008 21:52:

talk dirty to her.. spit on her vagina and treat her like a dirty whore. That turns them on.

Posted by Chris Crossland on May-31-2008 21:55:

quote:
Originally posted by Nrg2Nfinit
talk dirty to her.. spit on her vagina and treat her like a dirty whore. That turns them on.

True.

She'll be a fuckin whore in no time. A real freak, asking you to shit on her chest.

Posted by r5a on May-31-2008 21:57:

quote:
Originally posted by Chris Crossland
Can she get herself off? If not her fuckin bean is broken.

yeah I think she can.. I'll go clarify that with her sometime later today.

quote:
btw i want the 5mins of my life back that i spent reading this bullshit!
see the arrow < there in the top right? it's called back. yeah i know the internets can be complicated for people with down syndrome.

quote:
She sounds like shes pretty inexperienced with herself. I think you just might be out of luck.
thanks for the reply (seriously) and i agree with you but that's not really helping me. im not going to get up and bounce because of it, id rather help her out / maybe try and help her get experienced. either way its going to be a long process.

quote:
huh? all i understood out of this was hand.
i am retarded, fixed the post.

Posted by r5a on May-31-2008 21:58:

why did I even come here. seriously...

i forgot this is TA.

Posted by elFreak on May-31-2008 22:00:

you need to stop fucking being a puss and sticking it on a pedastal. If your cock is in her hand it should be in her (mouth/ass/kunt). Seriously man, what the fuck is wrong with you..man up you vagina.

Posted by Halcyon+On+On on May-31-2008 22:02:

Is she on some form of birth control? That can seriously impair a woman's sex drive to the point where they simply don't care about what happens to them below the waist. Kind of like what video games do to us.

Posted by elFreak on May-31-2008 22:07:

i think giving a gimp "hand" impairs her sex drive.

Posted by r5a on May-31-2008 22:12:

quote:
Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On
Is she on some form of birth control? That can seriously impair a woman's sex drive to the point where they simply don't care about what happens to them below the waist. Kind of like what video games do to us.
thanks a lot meng. right now she isn't. but i think she was before to control her period. i'll double check.

edit: ya like 2 years ago for a couple months she was on it.

Posted by r5a on May-31-2008 22:12:

are you asain, elFreak?

Posted by Nrg2Nfinit on May-31-2008 22:12:

tell her to masturbate in front of you.. and get herself off. Im 100 % sure she can't get herself off if she refuses to masturbate in front of you. You have to take it slow with her and see what she likes. Play hard to get and make her wet. saves you alot of work with foreplay

Posted by elFreak on May-31-2008 22:14:

quote:
Originally posted by r5a
are you asain, elFreak?

yes i have a 2 inch cock..but i put my chopstick into kimchee fag.

ps no

fuck you agq?

Posted by r5a on May-31-2008 22:15:

quote:
Originally posted by elFreak
yes i have a 2 inch cock..but i put my chopstick into kimchee fag.

ps no

fuck you agq?
why would you have a south koren flag then if you were not of Asian descent?

Posted by elFreak on May-31-2008 22:17:

because

1. i live there
2. you are hopeless
3. barbina gets more vagina then you
4.bas smells
5. all of the above.

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