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Dr. Dobson teaches fathers how to raise a straight son

In the U.S., for all you foreigners who might not know, we have lots of fundie Christians who like to tell people how they ought to raise their kids. Lots of them think that kids turn gay because they have weak or absent fathers. One of these guys is Dr. James Dobson, who heads an organization called "Focus On The Family" and gives some advice on how to make sure your son doesn't grow up to be a fag:

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On the other hand, a boy has an additional developmental task-to disidentify from his mother and identify with his father. At this point [beginning at about eighteen months], a little boy will not only begin to observe the difference, he must now decide, "Which one am I going to be?" In making this shift in identity, the little boy begins to take his father as a model of masculinity. At this early stage, generally before the age of three, Ralph Greenson observed, the boy decides that he would like to grow up like his father. This is a choice. Implicit in that choice is the decision that he would not like to grow up to be like his mother. According to Robert Stoller, "The first order of business in being a man is, 'don't be a woman.'" Meanwhile, the boy's father has to do his part. He needs to mirror and affirm his son's maleness. He can play rough-and-tumble games with his son, in ways that are decidedly different from the games he would play with a little girl. He can help his son learn to throw and catch a ball. He can teach him to pound a square wooden peg into a square hole in a pegboard. He can even take his son with him into the shower, where the boy cannot help but notice that Dad has a penis, just like his, only bigger. Based on my work with adult homosexuals, I try to avoid the necessity of a long and sometimes painful therapy by encouraging parents, particularly fathers, to affirm their sons' maleness. Parental education, in this area and all others, can prevent a lifetime of unhappiness and a sense of alienation. When boys begin to relate to their fathers, and begin to understand what is exciting, fun and energizing about their fathers, they will learn to accept their own masculinity. They will find a sense of freedom-of power-by being different from their mothers, outgrowing them as they move into a man's world. If parents encourage their sons in these ways, they will help them develop masculine identities and be well on their way to growing up straight. In 15 years, I have spoken with hundreds of homosexual men. I have never met one who said he had a loving, respectful relationship with his father.

So if you're a dad the basic idea here is: show your son how cool it is to be a man just like you, by giving him early exposure to balls, tools, and your big penis.

Fucking nutjobs

FLY-OVER STATES!

I'll bet his son(s), if applicable, are gay as hell.

lol what an idiot

if a gay guy's father hates him, chances are it's because he's gay

it's not that he's gay because his father hates him


DONT BE A WOMAN

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Originally posted by nefardec lol what an idiot if a gay guy's father hates him, chances are it's because he's gay it's not that he's gay because his father hates him DONT BE A WOMAN

guise b nais with jaaaaaaaeeeee

In the words of Frankie Boyle, I'd love to have a gay dad.

In the playground when the rest of the kids are saying "my dad will beat up your dad, my dad could beat up your dad" I could say "My dad will SHAG YOUR DAD, and your dad would like it!"

Re: Dr. Dobson teaches fathers how to raise a straight son

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Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles In 15 years, I have spoken with hundreds of homosexual men. I have never met one who said he had a loving, respectful relationship with his father.

what a load of shit

Shit like this gives me hope.

don't be a woman!

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