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Posted by squirrelly on Aug-01-2008 23:28:

wow, I am f*(&ing PISSED.

There is a line you just don't f&*%ing cross when you're "best friends". My friend is getting married to a douchebag, and I was invited to be the maid of honor. Well, I backed out of that because of health issues (didn't know if I'd be in the hospital at the time of wedding), and so went down to "guest". My mom, boyfriend, and I were all going to go together.

I just get off the phone with her and she tells me her fiance is un-inviting my boyfriend, because he doesn't know him. (mind you, we have tried to get together with them before but unless we drive the 45 min to go see them, they won't meet up... they refuse to meet 1/2 way. And when we did meet them halfway, douchebag fiance couldn't even say hello to my boyfriend)

WTF is that? That's like me saying "oh, I'm getting married. PS your husband can't come because my fiance doesn't like him." Seriously? That's so rude. Especially since my boyfriend was the ONLY person to take care of me after I got sick/had surgery.

PLUS, she's been a shitty friend lately.

c0re version: supposed BFF un-invited my boyfriend to her stupid wedding because her "fiance" said so. Should I say "f" wedding and "f" you to not good friend anymore?

//edit

another tidbit of info: BF & I will have been together well over a year by time of wedding, and exact words of doucebag fiance is "I don't want to pay $30 for him to eat at MY wedding"

Posted by Yan on Aug-01-2008 23:31:

Your friend sucks.

On the bright side, you get to be single for a night, if so you choose.

Posted by Meat187 on Aug-01-2008 23:34:

Re: wow, I am f*(&ing PISSED.

quote:
Originally posted by squirrelly
I just get off the phone with her and she tells me her fiance is un-inviting my boyfriend, because he doesn't know him.

Well, after all it's his wedding. It's not like she has anything to say, like invite guests she wants to come.
Just call back and say you won't be coming if your bf isn't.

Posted by Krypton on Aug-01-2008 23:34:

Posted by Clovis on Aug-01-2008 23:35:

Fuck em both imo.

Posted by Yan on Aug-01-2008 23:37:

quote:
Originally posted by Clovis
Fuck em both imo.

This can't be literally performed unless they both go to the wedding. Derp.

Posted by DJ_Eternal on Aug-01-2008 23:37:

It was pretty pathetic of your friend's fiance not to even try and make nice and be friendly with your boyfriend. Aren't you allowed to bring someone along with you anyway regardless as part of the invitation? I would bring him along anyway if that's the case.

It's your best friend's big day, but she should also respect you enough to know how much your boyfriend means to you and she should have passed that message onto her fiance before meeting halfway. They hadn't even met so what valid reason does he have for not liking him, apart from heresay.

I'd be tempted to call and cancel just to prove a point here and show how much this hurt.

Posted by Yan on Aug-01-2008 23:38:

I got it.

Decide to take back being Maid of Honor. Then tell them everything is dandy. Never show up.

Posted by squirrelly on Aug-01-2008 23:39:

No, they HAVE met... and when they did her fiance wouldn't even introduce himself, just walked by and ignored him (didn't even ask me how I was doing, even though I was 4 days after my surgery)

They have a "no guest unless you've been together over a year" policy... but we have been, so wtf?

Posted by In The Lobby on Aug-01-2008 23:39:

quote:
Originally posted by Yan
I got it.

Decide to take back being Maid of Honor. Then tell them everything is dandy. Never show up.

+1

Posted by Yohan on Aug-01-2008 23:41:

I'd just not show up.

Fuck her and her twat of a bf

Posted by Clovis on Aug-01-2008 23:42:

Posted by Lomeli on Aug-01-2008 23:43:

quote:
Originally posted by Clovis

Not worth keeping friends like that.

Posted by DJ_Eternal on Aug-01-2008 23:43:

quote:
Originally posted by squirrelly
No, they HAVE met... and when they did her fiance wouldn't even introduce himself, just walked by and ignored him (didn't even ask me how I was doing, even though I was 4 days after my surgery)

They have a "no guest unless you've been together over a year" policy... but we have been, so wtf?

Pretty sad imo, if they're not even willing to make the effort. Your 'friend' doesn't sound like much of one if she's not even given her fiance a nudge as if to say "come on then fuckwit, speak up". She must have known that this means a lot to you. If they're not willing to make that effort, then you shouldn't be reciprocating by attending the wedding.

Posted by Axer on Aug-01-2008 23:43:

Do me favour, fuck off if you don't like me.

Fixed.

Posted by squirrelly on Aug-01-2008 23:45:

quote:
Originally posted by DJ_Eternal
Pretty sad imo, if they're not even willing to make the effort. Your 'friend' doesn't sound like much of one if she's not even given her fiance a nudge as if to say "come on then fuckwit, speak up". She must have known that this means a lot to you. If they're not willing to make that effort, then you shouldn't be reciprocating by attending the wedding.

she said she "argued with him til she was blue in the face".

There shouldn't be any arguing. There should be a "she's coming, she's my closest friend, and she's bringing her boyfriend. You're not even paying for the wedding, so shut the fuck up about it."

Posted by Vivid Boy on Aug-01-2008 23:46:

30 bucks for him to eat at his wedding???? dude what a fuckin gnock, I'm sure your bf would bearing a boosta full of the juicea. in italian a boosta is the lil envelope filled with money you give as a gift to every wedding.

babe, I say fuck them and their wedding. Be like "Its quite possible I may not marry this guy, However, I back up every one of my friends in at every possible situation. Frankly, I thought you were the same."

Posted by iammesol on Aug-01-2008 23:50:

What is this... high school?!

Seriously, just don't go.

Posted by jonSun on Aug-01-2008 23:52:

quote:
Originally posted by squirrelly

They have a "no guest unless you've been together over a year" policy... but we have been, so wtf?

wtf kinda policy is that? i never heard of that before lol

I say fuck the wedding. If she were really your closest friend this problem would not have arose.

Posted by Fpcookie on Aug-01-2008 23:53:

quote:
Originally posted by squirrelly
There shouldn't be any arguing. There should be a "she's coming, she's my closest friend, and she's bringing her boyfriend. You're not even paying for the wedding, so shut the fuck up about it."

exactly, so...

quote:
Originally posted by Clovis
Tell her to fuck off imo.

Not worth keeping friends like that.

Posted by DJ_Eternal on Aug-01-2008 23:55:

quote:
Originally posted by squirrelly
she said she "argued with him til she was blue in the face".

There shouldn't be any arguing. There should be a "she's coming, she's my closest friend, and she's bringing her boyfriend. You're not even paying for the wedding, so shut the fuck up about it."

Well that's how it should have gone down, it's the bride's big day, she should be putting her foot down on his testicles, and him being the prick he is, is not respecting the situation. It's not as if your boyfriend and him have to speak to each other anyway at the wedding.

If he's wearing the shoes and making the rules, then your stuck between a rock and hard place here, but I'd stick to not going to prove a point.

Posted by spanglo on Aug-02-2008 00:00:

Don't let your girlfriend down... Hos before bros.

Posted by Soeder on Aug-02-2008 00:02:

No need to make a scene...go to the Winchester, have a nice cold pint, and wait for all of this to blow over

Posted by idoru on Aug-02-2008 00:05:

quote:
Originally posted by Clovis
Fuck em both imo.

Posted by DJ_Eternal on Aug-02-2008 00:06:

quote:
Originally posted by Soeder
No need to make a scene...go to the Winchester, have a nice cold pint, and wait for all of this to blow over

Hahahaha and do your impression of an orang-utan.

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