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PLEASE HELP! need relationship advice

So yeah.

There's this girl that I like - a lot - and have liked for some time now. We have been chilling a lot lately, and I think she likes me too.

My issue is: I don't know if/when I should make a move. I'm not sure if I'm reading her signals correctly, and I don't want to look like a jackass.

I guess what I'm really scared of is that I won't be able to get it up anymore, as it has happened in the past. I REALLY like her, and don't want to mess up my chances.

What do I do???How do I know what are the right signs? How do I make sure i can get it up if she ever decides to do "it" with me?

whip it out.

Viagra? I dunno never had that prob.

I just try not to worry about it.

its jennipie so just whip it out.. she'll know where to put it

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Originally posted by Vivid Boy whip it out.

+1 If she really wants it now then you know it was really meant to be.

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Originally posted by Dervish Viagra? I dunno never had that prob. I just try not to worry about it.

dont you have to wait a couple hours or something before viagara kicks in?

how would I know if she wants to do it that night and when I should take the pill? the last thing I want is to freak her out by having a blatant boner in front of her if shes not horny

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Originally posted by Nrg2Nfinit its jennipie so just whip it out.. she'll know where to put it

no dude..its not her. she said i was too short for her...

alright man. im going to take a play out of my playbook. very simple. very easy. very cliche. but it can work. get playful with her. start wrestling her etc. play fighting and then just lay one on her. it works. if she likes you she'll respond to it. if she doesnt respond to it and push you away.... plan b just whip it out

Eric, I'm serious here.

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Originally posted by infinity HiGH no dude..its not her. she said i was too short for her...

get drunk man than you are god and can do anything

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Originally posted by infinity HiGH Eric, I'm serious here.

don't you roll your eyes at the COR

Seriously, If you like her, and feel comfortable around her, get a grip and just ask her.

also, send pics on msn

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Originally posted by Vivid Boy alright man. im going to take a play out of my playbook. very simple. very easy. very cliche. but it can work. get playful with her. start wrestling her etc. play fighting and then just lay one on her. it works. if she likes you she'll respond to it. if she doesnt respond to it and push you away.... plan b just whip it out

Plan A surprisingly works quite well actually.

girls like it when macho guys come down to an emotional level with them without being a pussy. so tell her you've been hanging around alot, and with time spent emotions grow. tell her you think shes a foxy cat. and askto kiss her. then whip it out

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Originally posted by infinity HiGH So yeah. There's this girl that I like - a lot - and have liked for some time now. We have been chilling a lot lately, and I think she likes me too. My issue is: I don't know if/when I should make a move. I'm not sure if I'm reading her signals correctly, and I don't want to look like a jackass. I guess what I'm really scared of is that I won't be able to get it up anymore, as it has happened in the past. I REALLY like her, and don't want to mess up my chances. What do I do???How do I know what are the right signs? How do I make sure i can get it up if she ever decides to do "it" with me?

Infinity,

The more you wait, the less likely it is to work. See if she's into you - if it looks like she is, then it's all right. If you're not sure you should do something, then be subtle, but do something. Hold her hand, hug her, whatever. But don't let it take too long.

And, you've got to take the risk. You may look like a "Jackass"... but, isn't it worth trying? If you don't make a move, you're probably going to drift away in a few months/years anyway...

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Originally posted by Lira Infinity, The more you wait, the less likely it is to work. See if she's into you - if it looks like she is, then it's all right. If you're not sure you should do something, then be subtle, but do something. Hold her hand, hug her, whatever. But don't let it take too long. And, you've got to take the risk. You may look like a "Jackass"... but, isn't it worth trying? If you don't make a move, you're probably going to drift away in a few months/years anyway...

and nothing sticks in a girls mind longer then the dude who whip it out out of nowhere. she'll remember you for life

Have any of these "relationship" threads in the COR actually worked and/or resulted in someone getting laid or becoming happier?

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Originally posted by infinity HiGH and I think she likes me too. I guess what I'm really scared of is that I won't be able to get it up anymore, as it has happened in the past.

I'm not a fan of precision guesswork in this area... if I'm not sure if a girl likes me, I'm not going to risk looking like a fool. But that's me. Usually, you'll know for sure when it's time to make a move... stay away from the gray area.

And, what's up man, you have problems getting it up? Yeah I wouldn't pop a viagra if I wasn't sure... takes about 30-45 minutes and you'll have an uncontrollable boner. better be sure.

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Originally posted by Vivid Boy and askto kiss her

No, this is not the kind of thing you should ask, you just do it!

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Originally posted by The17sss I'm not a fan of precision guesswork in this area... if I'm not sure if a girl likes me, I'm not going to risk looking like a fool. But that's me. Usually, you'll know for sure when it's time to make a move... stay away from the gray area. And, what's up man, you have problems getting it up? Yeah I wouldn't pop a viagra if I wasn't sure... takes about 30-45 minutes and you'll have an uncontrollable boner. better be sure.

I dunno about you, but I always have an uncomfortable boner

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Originally posted by Vivid Boy I dunno about you, but I always have an uncomfortable boner

Elf freak has trouble getting it up too. He takes Viagra for it so ask him.

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Originally posted by Zoso Have any of these "relationship" threads in the COR actually worked and/or resulted in someone getting laid or becoming happier?

I once said to a girl i never met, "what's up slut" and got laid later that night.

You've got to push those feelings down into a deep and dark place within and keep then locked up until they explode in an unhealthy, spectacular and psychotic show of turmoil and despair. Become needy and clingy around her and be sure to be territorial over any other men that approach her. Act insecure and inadequate in front of her and constantly ask her for reassurance about the way you look. She'll eventually come to realise you're everlasting desire for her and will reward you with her heart as you fly away together on the wings of love.

Let me know how it goes.

Is your next question going to be "Where does the penis go?"?

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