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Posted by daphunky1 on Nov-11-2008 08:21:

messed-up situation

I just moved to a resort town where the housing situation is extremely tight, so everyone shares a bedroom with one, if not two others.
I couldn't find any housing at first, but eventually my friend's house had a room open, but they wanted more girls. So I told my friend I'd find a girl to share a room with, so that they at least have 1 more girl in the house. So I email some girl on craigslist that was also looking for housing and met up and had coffee. She turns out to be incredibly cute, (and french), and super cool. After coffee we went out for 2 pitchers of beer, and then bought a bottle of wine and wandered around some trails around the resort for a few more hours. 7 hours together straight, and we never talked to anyone else. I just told her I'd let her know as soon as possible when I know that we can move into this house.
I didn't find out for 2 more days that I could move in, so me and this girl hung out the next 2 days, walking around, doing nothing, finding things in common, getting along perfect (and me thinking she's amazing)...

Now yesterday I got the go ahead that I could move in to the house, and that I could pick whoever I wanted to share a room with, just as long as they are cool.

So now my friend has been trying to convince me for hours that if I have any feelings for this girl at all it is a stupid idea to set myself and the other roommates up for disaster and problems in the future... since I can't deny having feelings for her so he is straight up telling me that I shouldn't let her move in tomorrow. Oh, and at this very moment, she thinks she's 100% moving in, and seemed excited about sharing a room with me.

So do I cancel the love miracle waiting to happen, in hopes of avoiding disaster if things don't work out?
Or do I just go for it?
I mean what if she actually doesn't even like me at all, she's just all chill and happy all the time. Then I gotta share a room with a girl I'm crazy about?


Posted by Spacey Orange on Nov-11-2008 08:27:

do it for the lulz.


Posted by Fusic on Nov-11-2008 08:35:

Definitely go for it, bone her while you have the chance!


Posted by Fledz on Nov-11-2008 08:56:

Talk to her about it.


Posted by Capitalizt on Nov-11-2008 09:09:

Are you kidding me? She should definitely stay with you. Don't blow it.


Posted by nefardec on Nov-11-2008 09:37:

she's probably playing you


Posted by daphunky1 on Nov-11-2008 09:52:

Ya I guess she could be playing me... that would suck. But more likely she is just nice and doesn't actually like me at all.
But I would think she must like me a bit to so readily agree to share a bedroom for the next 6 months.


Posted by T-Soma on Nov-11-2008 11:29:

quote:
Originally posted by Capitalizt
Are you kidding me? She should definitely blow you.


Fixed.


Posted by Lira on Nov-11-2008 12:24:

Re: messed-up situation

"Avoiding disaster?". Do French girls self-destruct when they don't like someone back?

Get in there!


Posted by kr00t0n on Nov-11-2008 12:31:

Tap it?

Sounds like one of those things you'd look back on at 30 and regret not doing.


Posted by MSZ on Nov-11-2008 12:58:

ya as stated, she might be toying with you. scary shit moving in with people you dont know. but i would sniff her pussy no doubt


Posted by echosystm on Nov-11-2008 13:00:

i'd say move in with her... you'll probably end up fucking just by force of "gravity". seems to happpen alot when single males and females live in close quarters.


Posted by Gauss on Nov-11-2008 13:09:

Do it. She can't be playing you after spending 7 hours with you in one sitting. Unless she's putting very much effort in playing you, which is quite unlikely.


Posted by kr00t0n on Nov-11-2008 13:13:

quote:
Originally posted by Gauss
Do it. She can't be playing you after spending 7 hours with you in one sitting. Unless she's putting very much effort in playing you, which is quite unlikely.


Or she had nothing better to do/no where else to go/no cash for anything actually entertaining


Posted by echosystm on Nov-11-2008 13:16:

quote:
Originally posted by Gauss
She can't be playing you after spending 7 hours with you


do you even know any women?

playing men is, for them, like playing xbox. they can do that shit all day.


Posted by kr00t0n on Nov-11-2008 13:20:

quote:
Originally posted by echosystm
do you even know any women?

playing men is, for them, like playing xbox. they can do that shit all day.



Posted by Gauss on Nov-11-2008 13:31:

quote:
Originally posted by echosystm
do you even know any women?

playing men is, for them, like playing xbox. they can do that shit all day.

Right, and waste 7 hours of their time doing it? Sorry, but only dumb whores can do that. I don't associate with such.


Posted by Ania_xox on Nov-11-2008 13:35:

I think you should go ahead and do it.
If you encounter any problems with her then it's going to be her that has to move out, no? I'm assuming these are relatively close friends of yours. I think you just have to have open communication with everyone. Your friends seem uneasy about the fact that you're starting to have feelings for her, so I guess just talk to them and tell them that if shit starts getting weird then you'll find alternate arrangements? I don't think she's going to want to stay if things get weird with you two.

In the mean time, don't fret too much about possible relationship stuff... I mean, you guys just met right? Enjoy eachother's company and the fact that you seem to be hitting it off really well.

Another thing is, if you totally see a potential relationship with this girl, moving in together might not be the best idea. However, given the fact that the only reason you two met up was to discuss living together, it doesn't seem like a typical case of "rushing into things". I guess just put on a brave face and talk to her about your concerns (and your friends' concerns) before the moving happens.

Anyhow, I hope things work out for you. This is a really cute story.


Posted by hooknife on Nov-11-2008 13:44:

FFS, move in with her and pull the Tampon out of your ass. Are you gay?


Posted by Vlad on Nov-11-2008 13:49:

Just tell the girl you like her, and that you think it would be awkward sharing a room with someone youre interested in. Only two things could happen:

A - She likes you too, and you guys fuck all the time and dont have to fit 2 beds into one room.

B - She understands, and agrees it could be awkward if the feelings arent mutual.


Posted by kr00t0n on Nov-11-2008 13:51:

quote:
Originally posted by hooknife
FFS, move in with her and pull the Tampon out of your ass. Are you gay?


This just made me think, why are guys that don't do alpha stuff always called gay?

The gay guys I know are far more forward and risk taking than most straight guys, so the analogy is a bit flawed.


Posted by T-Soma on Nov-11-2008 15:23:

quote:
Originally posted by kr00t0n
This just made me think, why are guys that don't do alpha stuff always called gay?

The gay guys I know are far more forward and risk taking than most straight guys, so the analogy is a bit flawed.


He is just implying that not opting for sex with a female makes him gay. Fuck...


Anyway, people worry too much about things that are awkward, I know I might just be a messed up individual but I thrive on awkward moments and creating them.


Posted by airwalker1 on Nov-11-2008 15:44:

sharing you life with someone is fun,as long as you dont mind loosing some of you freedom. witch a for a lot of guys is way to scary concept.
but if there is one thing in life that needs respect and that is taking chances. so do it if you want to connect with this bird,and worry about the problems later down the line.


Posted by Halcyon+On+On on Nov-11-2008 15:58:

Gee, it sounds like she likes you a lot. There might even be S.O. material here (that means Significant Other for all of you not down with the lingo)! However, if you plan on moving in with her when there are other males there, I would be wary of one of them taking her from you!

So here's what you do:

Find a park with lots of trees, you know, one with lots of food? Find a sort of soft, but not wet, patch of ground and begin digging. Don't stop until you can't go anymore. If you dig all the way to the bottom, you'll have your main hallway. From there, begin hollowing out dens for food storage and a narrow burrow for your offspring. I, personally, was raised in a nice neighbourhood all of my life, so I stole as much string and knitting material from Michaels as my coat could bear, then made myself and potential family a little beddy-bye in my underground lair, but YMMV. You can get soft, downy material almost anywhere that the wind blows garbage to, and most of that is perfect for lining your little love cave. At this point I think you're ready to invite her over for drinks and mating, don't fuck it up! Candles are a must, as the only possessions you have to burn are those you scrounged for anyways, so no worries!

We'll expect pictures of your first 2 litters in 5 months. Don't let us down!


Posted by elFreak on Nov-11-2008 16:20:

moving in with someone after 7 hours sounds like a very smart idea.

make sure you take pics when it does not work out after 2 weeks and she starts bringing home other guys.


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