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So,

My girlfriend and I broke up not yesterday, but the night before (so ~36 hours ago). When we broke up, there was obviously alot of tears and so forth. I went to sleep and woke up... All yesterday and today, I haven't really been upset about it at all. I still love her and want her back, but I pretty certain we've done the right thing and I am somehow not upset at all over it. Am I in some kind of denial or shock? In a few days am I gonna be in the dumps, or is the grieving over now?

Soz for lame relationship thread, I've just never been through a breakup with someone I loved this much. Also, any advice on getting over a breakup? I figure to just stay busy... I'm making sure I go out every night this week.

Yeah, stay busy, go out with new people, and, most importantly, disconnect yourself from the ex to the point where you won't readily know if she's dating someone else. That's the worst thing about breaking up imo, especially if you still love her.

there are few problems in this world that cannot be fixed with sport rape.

yeah make sure u dont start oversleeping all the time, thats when real depression can kick in(the the "wtf how did it come to this" type thoughts become a reality), and that shit will need chemical intervention+psychotherapy.

but dont feel afraid to confront your emotions, ride out and acknowledge what ur feeling in a certain moment about ur situation, dont feel like u gotta be the tough guy and bottle that shit up.


Excercise is great-the more the better. a Duke university study showed it to be as effective as anti d's if not more in the long term.

is this one of those on again off again relationships or are u sure its dunsky?

why did you break up?

this is very important.

Important questions. Do you know who is nailing her now? If so is he someone you knew beforehand?

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Originally posted by elFreak why did you break up? this is very important.

coz her friends were mean and disrespectful.

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Originally posted by elFreak why did you break up?

we have completely different moral compasses, and it has posed too many problems. i have very strong morals and she is very free spirited. we argued at least once every week for the entire time we were together. there have been many breakup ultimatums (mostly given from me).

on my side... she has clinical depression (dependant on meds) and doesn't have her shit together. i mean, she has a uni degree and works 3-4 hours a week at a bead shop. her life is a bit of a shambles and it's hard to feel confident about the future when you know your partner is going to be dragging the chain. she's constantly grumpy for no apparent reason and it's hard to deal with.

on her side... i am too controlling (true) and i guess she's just not that attracted to me anymore. i'm very much the sensitive nice guy type and i think she would prefer a more brutish sort of guy. most of her ex boyfriends were the bogan trade worker types. she loves me, but that attraction isn't there as much as it should be.

He probably has a bigger penis than you and fucks her better.

best way to get over someone is to get in someone else.

you'd better sort your bike out then & ride it off

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Originally posted by jennypie He probably has a bigger penis than you and fucks her better.

thanks jp.

that makes me feel really awesome.

Oh don't take me serious. It makes me feel bad.

someone cue alice deejay - better off alone

but seriously if your answer to both of my questions is no then you should be fine. If the answers change to yes... prostitutes. Good looking, but not too expensive.

someone cue the divinyls - i touch myself.

and then there is barbina

for her obv..

You know what? It's OK! Mrjivebojangles is breaking up with his girlfriend soon so you'll be able to use her as a rebound.

call me old fashioned, but sex is pretty shit for me unless i actually like/care about the person. it's just over glorified masturbation otherwise, and i get nothing out of it. so yeah, the rebound tactic will surely fail for me.

Well I'm the same way...and I did the whole "get under someone else" thing. He turned out to be the love of my life, and 10 years later we're still together.

Oh yea i forgot you have moral issues. That must cause undue stress.

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Originally posted by echosystm call me old fashioned, but sex is pretty shit for me unless i actually like/care about the person. it's just over glorified masturbation otherwise, and i get nothing out of it. so yeah, the rebound tactic will surely fail for me.

yeah, i hear you. still though, glorified masturbation still contains glory.

The only glory I see in masturbation is if you can cum in your palm and slap someone with it.

edit- and then proceed to yell 'GLORRRYYY'

Silence of the Lambs, lol.

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Originally posted by jennypie Silence of the Lambs, lol.

or the jewish version where the nightmare is that the women squeal like a pig when he catches them.

so did you dump her like we told you to in that thread you deleted a while back or did she beat you to the point. sounds like she beat you to the point.

face it though she was fuckin nuts and her friends were douchebags, and you were being the wimpy bitch in that situation, so good on ya i guess.

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