I don't like my ex dating my brother.

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Posted by JasonThomas on Sep-14-2009 02:41:

I don't like my ex dating my brother.

Should I tell her?

do your worst...

Posted by SuspicionVandit on Sep-14-2009 02:42:

feel bad for you.

have sex with your brother and get back at that bunny hopping skank

quote:
Originally posted by Joss Weatherby
incest is wincest

Posted by Sushipunk on Sep-14-2009 02:43:

quote:
Originally posted by SuspicionVandit
feel bad for you.

have sex with your brother and get back at that bunny hopping skank

Posted by The17sss on Sep-14-2009 02:43:

Re: I don't like my ex dating my brother.

quote:
Originally posted by JasonThomas
Should I tell her?

do your worst...

what kind of brother is that??? that's fucked up on his part.

Posted by yukii on Sep-14-2009 02:45:

what kind of brother/ex is that? they deserve each other, don't stump down to their level.

Posted by Lira on Sep-14-2009 02:46:

No, you shouldn't even care. There's a reason why she's your ex

Posted by Renzo on Sep-14-2009 02:47:

Man, he's probably hitting that shit better than you did.

Unlucky.

Posted by Sunsnail on Sep-14-2009 02:48:

Lira you are wrong. You are the worst mod ever

Posted by JasonThomas on Sep-14-2009 02:49:

quote:
Originally posted by yukii
what kind of brother/ex is that? they deserve each other, don't stump down to their level.

yeah, the problem is they expect me to be all cool and hang out. I live with my brother and she comes over all the time. me and my ex have been friends longer than we were dating. so i feel our friendship should come first. but it's really eating my insides.

Posted by JasonThomas on Sep-14-2009 02:50:

quote:
Originally posted by Lira
No, you shouldn't even care. There's a reason why she's your ex

It's fucking hard to just not care.

Posted by chlola on Sep-14-2009 02:53:

Re: I don't like my ex dating my brother.

Date her brother & see how she likes it.

Posted by Renzo on Sep-14-2009 02:54:

Seriously though, that is fucked.

Posted by Krypton on Sep-14-2009 02:56:

Posted by yukii on Sep-14-2009 02:58:

quote:
Originally posted by JasonThomas
yeah, the problem is they expect me to be all cool and hang out. I live with my brother and she comes over all the time. me and my ex have been friends longer than we were dating. so i feel our friendship should come first. but it's really eating my insides.

I'm sorry, I know how it feels. I had my ex bf not even dump me but just start going out with my best friend out of the blue.. & it hurt a lot at the time bc i really cared about him. it was a very depressing point in my life but i had to see that things happen for a reason. he wasn't the one for me (thankfully) & as far as my friend, i guess i saw her true colors. when they ask you to hang out, just decline nicely, don't show them you're annoyed or else they will probably annoy you more.

Posted by trancechan on Sep-14-2009 03:00:

an eye for an eye - you must date her brother now.

oh yeah. she won't like that.

Posted by Lira on Sep-14-2009 03:03:

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Originally posted by JasonThomas
It's fucking hard to just not care.

How come? You're not in a relationship with her any more and you've got no authority whatsoever over their actions. They're free to do whatever they will and, as long as they don't tease you or anything, there's no reason why you should be bothered by their romance. She moved on, and you should do the same. So what if she fancies your brother? At least she's with someone you (probably) trust, and not with a drug dealer in New Jersey.

But, if you're really possessive about your past, talk to him. He probably thinks you're a big guy that knows how to deal with your past experiences... it's about time you showed him he's wrong.

Posted by chlola on Sep-14-2009 03:05:

If I were you I would f*ck her mother in the ass.

Posted by Dj Nacht on Sep-14-2009 03:08:

If she or he is dating your brother its because they're not over you. Deep inside it feeds their comfort zone knowing they can be close to you while being with someone else. Your brother is a tool.

Posted by Krypton on Sep-14-2009 03:10:

Is this her?

Posted by BTG on Sep-14-2009 03:14:

dude you gota kick your brothers ass.

she has nothing to do with it.

Posted by yukii on Sep-14-2009 03:16:

wtf? why is it the guys fault?

it fuckin takes two to tango, the girl is just as bad if she had a relationship with the dude you don't think she would KNOW that it would possibly hurt his feelings?

Posted by Sunsnail on Sep-14-2009 03:16:

quote:
Originally posted by Lira
How come? You're not in a relationship with her any more and you've got no authority whatsoever over their actions. They're free to do whatever they will and, as long as they don't tease you or anything, there's no reason why you should be bothered by their romance. She moved on, and you should do the same. So what if she fancies your brother? At least she's with someone you (probably) trust, and not with a drug dealer in New Jersey.

But, if you're really possessive about your past, talk to him. He probably thinks you're a big guy that knows how to deal with your past experiences... it's about time you showed him he's wrong.

It'd be hard to move on if you see her all the time doin displays of affection with your brother. Also depends on the background... if she dumped his sorry ass and he still has feelings, that's even worse

quote:
Originally posted by yukii
wtf? why is it the guys fault?

it fuckin takes two to tango, the girl is just as bad if she had a relationship with the dude you don't think she would KNOW that it would possibly hurt his feelings?

it's more the guy's fault since its his brother. It's not uncommon for an ex to have disregard for your feelings, but when its family its worse.

Posted by BTG on Sep-14-2009 03:18:

quote:
Originally posted by yukii
wtf? why is it the guys fault?

it fuckin takes two to tango, the girl is just as bad if she had a relationship with the dude you don't think she would KNOW that it would possibly hurt his feelings?

no. brothers should have an understanding.

this bitch is mine and that bitch is yours.

no sharing.

just like GI-Joes.

Posted by yukii on Sep-14-2009 03:23:

ok. awesome bro bonding. but same for the bitch, if she has any sense of dignity/morality- she would take her ex's feelings into consideration. actually, nvm, she's a bitch, so she won't. you're right.

Posted by Lira on Sep-14-2009 03:42:

quote:
Originally posted by Sunsnail
It'd be hard to move on if you see her all the time doin displays of affection with your brother. Also depends on the background... if she dumped his sorry ass and he still has feelings, that's even worse

it's more the guy's fault since its his brother. It's not uncommon for an ex to have disregard for your feelings, but when its family its worse.

What if she realised that it was actually his brother that she liked?

I do happen to know a couple in which a friend of mine first dated a guy, became disillusioned with him and noticed she had much more in common with his brother - so he then started to go out with his brother (had broken up previously, as one would've expected). They're a very happy couple now, and the (then) jilted brother later found an even hotter girl, with whom he's very happy.

Really, his happiness is in no way more important than theirs. It's his problem, and he's the one that should do something to change that. If I were him, I'd be glad to know a girl I (once) care(d) for is now going out with someone I trust.

But, go figure, some people probably find it extremely hard to get over selfishness

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