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mistaking kindness for weakness..
I am a very friendly person in real life. Very friendly. I make friends quick, Im usually well liked by all social circles and can be very generous. However I do have another side, which cuts like a knife. I am quick witted and have a quick tongue. I think fast and I act fast. I love it when people mistake my kindness for weakness and get burned. Its usually chicks that try to take advantage of it and I have no problem burning a girl if she tries to take advantage. I have 0 leeway and a short wick when its lit.
But its funny how guys get depicted as assholes in this world. That theyre the hunters, alpha males all for themselves, competitive, cut throat and complete assholes. I find myself and other guys to be the opposite. If you're cool with them they're cool with you. If you start no shit they start no shit with you. Its chicks who will try to test you sometimes. They will try to take advantage just because they have a twat. nothing makes me happier then putting a dumb girl in her spot too.
So why do you guys think chicks can be so two faced at times? girls can be complete enemies but act like best friends, if 2 dudes hate eachother they fuckin hate eachother and leave it at that. is it because they think they can get away with alot because they have a twat and figure we will do almost anything to get a piece? do they just like to test the limits? share your thoughts.
periods.
i think its passed periods. I think it has to do with the fact that all chicks are attention whores. and they will get attention one way or another from you. They want to make themselves feel special at all times so they will do things to see how far you will go to keep them around.
they just want their holes stretched and filled on a regular basis thats all
case in point: slylee
most girls hate each other, they will back stab each other if they can somehow benefit from it
i know couple of girls that act all "OMG WE"RE SO BFFS" when they are together, but constantly talk shit about one another when i see them separate
This.
do all you people hang around 16 year olds?
women who dont spend their weekends in nightclubs are rather mild and pretty normal.
i laughed so hard BTG, thank you
There's a cultural aspect to it, as far as I'm aware.
I once read women are to be taught to "be sweet", whereas men are told to "be tough". Therefore, men can simply exchange a few swear words and that's it. Women, however, are trapped in a much more delicate social network, and it's not always clear to them how (and if) they can break free from it.
Naturally, there are girls that find it quite easy to express their emotions; and there are guys that aren't exactly confrontational. But, as far as culture is concerned, this is it (or so it seems).
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| Originally posted by The17sss Part 2 is great too. LOL! "Denise... Denise the piece...." p.s.- Lira, your new sig and avatar rule |
lol... what a great movie.
That's pretty much all there is to it.
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| Originally posted by BTG do all you people hang around 16 year olds? women who dont spend their weekends in nightclubs are rather mild and pretty normal. |
It's because they have smaller brains. They are just woman with a small brain. With a brain a third the size of us. It's science.
I'm a man who discovered the wheel and built the Eiffel Tower out of metal and brawn. That's what kind of man I am.
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| Originally posted by BTG do all you people hang around 16 year olds? women who dont spend their weekends in nightclubs are rather mild and pretty normal. |
the best thing to do is buy them tons of drinks, but put it all on their tab and sneak out.
It's all about showing that your kindness is a choice and that you're not a slave to it. If you show that your kindness is backed up with strength, they will respect it... if you let them go to far to overrun you, they won't. Learning to recognize the line and show the appropriately tempered response (don't let them push you, but don't completely shut them down either) is just something you learn with experience. The most important part I've learned about this is to not let anyone teach you that kindness is a weakness by failing to show your backbone when it needs to come out.
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| Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On That's pretty much all there is to it. |
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| Originally posted by BTG do all you people hang around 16 year olds? women who dont spend their weekends in nightclubs are rather mild and pretty normal. |
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| Originally posted by simplcake those ones are usualy 300 pounds and look like quasimodo. oh and isnt your girlfriend phsycopath who beats you, like a little bitch? |
it's the opposite for my experience.
almost every guy i know is non-confrontational and they act just as two faced, if not more, than women. guys generally don't like drama and try to avoid it.
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| Originally posted by Slylee it's the opposite for my experience. almost every guy i know is non-confrontational and they act just as two faced, if not more, than women. guys generally don't like drama and try to avoid it. |
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