Ive just broke up with g/f after 7 months

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Posted by Rostros on Jul-12-2002 10:19:

Ive just broke up with g/f after 7 months

Ive been with my g/f for 7 months , I actually finished a girl so i could go out with her, for the first 5 months we have had such an ace time going out , wining and dining , and chilling out , we have been very close and we have shared a lot of things together, but for the last 2 months , we have been quite distant of each other, it feels like someone has turned down the flame , we had a chat last night about how things aint going as well as they were, and we decided to have a cool off ,
I love living the single life , clubbing and i love being around women , esp flirtin etc, but one side of my wants to be in a relationship and the other half wants to be single , my g/f is confused in what to do , and i guess i am a bit , ive said that we will give it a month and see how we feel at the end of that month. Im 19 and i don't really wanna go into the deep seriously relationships im sure most of you all have been here before esp you tiesto14,

The world will go on and the beer is always serving so i guess im gonna be happy , , , . Regards Rozzer.

Posted by djshorts on Jul-12-2002 11:10:

first ur girlfriend and now ur computer can life get ne worse for ya mate??

Posted by HyPeRSoNiC on Jul-12-2002 12:02:

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Originally posted by djshorts
first ur girlfriend and now ur computer can life get ne worse for ya mate??

I have to agree....... lol

anywayz, if you really love that girl, then age shoudn't matter...
I'm 16.5 and I have a g/f for about 2 years now. we had a cool off for 3 months and we got back together about a month ago.
I love her. and I don't see a problem with being in a long-term relationship that you enjoy

Posted by TimeportE on Jul-12-2002 12:11:

like i always say: "live to the fullest!"

and to have a relationship that lasted 7 months i guess you get quite a lot of experience! (mine longest relation lasted only 2 months).. so use that info/experience you got the next time you get in such an relationship

Posted by HyPeRSoNiC on Jul-12-2002 12:17:

but anywayz, always remember this:

Posted by TimeportE on Jul-12-2002 12:25:

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Originally posted by HyPeRSoNiC
but anywayz, always remember this:

ROLF!

Posted by malek on Jul-12-2002 15:14:

You passed 5 excellent months, you were in a high, maybe super high of the relation. Both of you were used to it, and now that things are more calm, you feel its not the same as it used to. Sometimes in long relationships people get distant because of lack of time (school, work, bs, blabla...) but you should'nt worry about that. You talk about it, take a break, hang with your buddies and it should be back to normal... that is if love is still there. If after a break(let say a month or two), you don't feel the need to be with her (I'm not talking sex) then... there's no then, its over.

Posted by igottaknow on Jul-12-2002 19:38:

Re: Ive just broke up with g/f after 7 months

Maybe I can help. Whatz her phone number? hehe j/k

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Originally posted by DJ RozzeR
we have been quite distant of each other,

Seriously, most relationships start off great because everything is new, exciting , and the sex is awesome. But after this wears off, reality sets in. One or both of you start to considering your future and wonder if you could do better.

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one side of my wants to be in a relationship and the other half wants to be single

Yep we all would like to have it both ways but we cant. Some philosopher said you have let go of something old to make room for something new.
good luck

Posted by vmc on Jul-12-2002 21:05:

read the motto from my sig

Posted by torontotrance on Jul-12-2002 21:28:

See here is the way that i see it. Break Ups do hurt and don't feel nice but they are apart of life. Personally i think that rozzer did not communicate that well with his EX while they were dating. I mean good communication either makes or breaks a relationships. Also ask your parents about relationships, they will tell you that they are not easy and it's a fact of life. My advice is move on (i know it ain't easy tho)

Posted by Rostros on Jul-14-2002 17:25:

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Originally posted by HyPeRSoNiC
but anywayz, always remember this:

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Porn is the best way to waste time pp

Posted by Nook on Jul-14-2002 21:41:

i agree, porn is great. although some porn is really really bad.