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Musings for the sausagefest
Hello Men of the COR
My significant other in life has been very bummed lately; he's working a helluva lot and he's very deeply invested in both jobs so a leave of absence is not an option.
This will go on til the end of June and stretches beyond the scope of our relationship so it's nothing that I have to analyze or "fix"
Both of his jobs are intense and emotionally draining and I'm just trying to be there for him and he tells me I'm being great but I want to do more. He gets a bit introverted when he's stressed about his work so I don't want to push him about it when we do have the odd hour or two together.
My question to you is:
What are little things your woman has done that make you happy?
Sloppy beejer? Extra bacon? Leave you the fuck alone?
All answers welcome
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| Originally posted by Ania_xox Leave you the fuck alone? |
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| Originally posted by Ania_xox Leave you the fuck alone? |
sounds like its time to move on
A man needs his solitude.
The simple reality is that every man is different. Things are not that black and white, and you know this particular person better than any of us do.
Personally, I like a little support from my girlfriend when I'm stressing. I don't want her buzzing around like a headless chicken, but a little empathy/support/recognition doesn't hurt and is sufficient for me.
Oh, but just to be clear, a sloppy blowjob is never a bad idea. Unless his two jobs are keeping him so busy that he doesn't have time to shower. In which case, take him to the shower with you and give him a sloppy blowjob.
I am totally capable of doing that.
It's a sticky situation though
When I'm not dedicating my free time to him, I'm not overly busy.
When I'm not busy, I fill up my schedule with social things.
So several times this week I have peaced the fuck out and gone to another city to spend time with old friends, hung out with my girlfriends, gone to some conferences, worked a lot on my summer research, plus I work like 3 times a week.
I just don't want him to feel that I'm living my life without him.
Again, I would love to talk to him about this and see how he feels about all of it, but I'm not going to because he really doesn't need a deep, reflective conversation right now.
Why have a deep, reflective conversation when you could have extra bacon & sloppy BJs?
SLOPPY BACON-JOB FTW
Re: Musings for the sausagefest
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| Originally posted by Ania_xox Sloppy beejer, Extra bacon, then Leave him the fuck alone? |
[Chris Rock]Feed me, fuck me, shut the fuck up![/Chris Rock]
When I get like that I just want to be left alone.....that is the best thing you can do...remember guys don't want to talk about their feelings. Let him do what all men do...bottle it up inside until it either kills him or he snaps and goes on a murderous rage....its the only two outcomes.
This is so fucking gay.
We've been together for 2 years and the lines of communication have always been open and excellent; yet right now I feel like I'm single and playing games with my own boyfriend.
So the general consensus is to fuck off but be available?
I can do that.
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| Originally posted by david.michael The simple reality is that every man is different. Things are not that black and white, and you know this particular person better than any of us do. |
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| Originally posted by Ania_xox I'm single and playing |
lol
just caught that
U could always get a job so he doesn't have to kill himself working to death. No whore of mine is going to sit on her ass watching People's Court all day 
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| Originally posted by KiNeTiC ENeRgY No whore of mine is going to sit on her ass watching People's Court all day |
I have a regular job, a contract-based work-from-home job, and am doing research for a professor all summer.
I'm not bored honey
And it's not financial need that's holding him to both jobs.
He's very invested in the kids he teaches and also runs a gang-exit program.
Rub his balls and stfu.
dress up like a spanish harlem gangsta bitch make him tacos, suck his dick then leave. dont try to hang around either after the bj or do the hnaging before the bj and leave the bj to the end of the night. literally go in there make his food act dirty suck his dick then leave. as soon as he blows your run the fuck outta there, guys though we pretend sex with our gfs is beautioful we truly dont want to see your face once we cum. we want you the fuck outta there...oh btw before you leave fix him a sandwhich and leave it on the counter for him, once youre gone hes going to be making his way to the fridge to make himself one.
We know your girl instinct is to comfort him and open the "lines of communication" the fuck with this woman urge. show him that his gf can be a nasty ghetto slut whenever he needs her to be.
Every guy is different, as Meat said.
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| Originally posted by Lews Every guy is different, as Meat said. |
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| Originally posted by david.michael |
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