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Posted by Nerologic on Apr-15-2011 15:04:

Distant Lovers?

WestCoast forum is dead, so reposting.

Share your success or failure stories please.

Thinking about getting into a relationship with someone that is around 100 miles away from where I live. Moving for either of us isn't an option. It seems like a good idea, but I have heard so many negative experiences. Anyone have a positive one? lol

Theres a saying in Spanish that goes "Amor de lejos, amor de pendejos," which keeps on popping up in my head over and over making me doubtful. The saying pretty much translate to "long distance love is love for stupids" basically making fun of long distance relationships.

Discuss, please. *Braces for flaming as well*

Posted by Halcyon+On+On on Apr-15-2011 16:30:

Re: Distant Lovers?

quote:
Originally posted by Nerologic
pendejos ... stupids

Hah.

Posted by Happymess on Apr-15-2011 16:44:

Absence makes the heart want to fondle other people.

Don't do it.

Posted by Lira on Apr-15-2011 16:51:

100 miles is not really far

Yes, I've had a positive experience. Had a 2.5 year long relationship with someone 20 thousand kilometres away from me. It wasn't nearly as hard as I thought it would be: We had our ups and downs as all couples do, but we survived.

Posted by Moral Hazard on Apr-15-2011 16:52:

quote:
Originally posted by Happymess
Absence makes the heart want to fondle other people.

Don't do it.

something you want to share?

Posted by Happymess on Apr-15-2011 17:05:

quote:
Originally posted by Moral Hazard
something you want to share?

Not particularly. He just couldn't keep his dick in his pants. Nothing new.

Posted by Halcyon+On+On on Apr-15-2011 17:11:

quote:
Originally posted by Lira
Had a 2.5 year long relationship with someone 20 thousand kilometres away from me.

Had?

Posted by LAdazeNYnights on Apr-15-2011 17:12:

100 miles is nothing man. I dated a girl for 2 years, the second year of which we spent 3,000 miles away. That second year was total hell. Never again.

Posted by Moral Hazard on Apr-15-2011 17:19:

quote:
Originally posted by Happymess
Not particularly. He just couldn't keep his dick in his pants. Nothing new.

Well, that's not nearly as entertaining as I was hoping for.

Posted by Zyklon_Jay on Apr-15-2011 17:20:

It always worked out great for me, go for it.

Posted by wotyzoid on Apr-15-2011 17:24:

Send the letter.

Posted by gmilf on Apr-15-2011 17:32:

It depends what you want out of a relationship. If you only want someone to be emotionally close with and you do not care about hanging out and doing activities together then go for it. Also, you have to be very confident in yourself. But, monogamous relationships in general are bullshit for most people because most people are not comfortable enough with themselves to have anything to contribute to a one on one relationship.

Posted by Nerologic on Apr-15-2011 17:33:

She's in Los Angeles, I am in San Diego.

I have no problem keeping my dick in my pants because we would see each other at least 1-2 times a week before we figure something out.

From what I see its usually the guy fucking shit up.

Thanks again for the responses! But it looks like 50/50 and I'm still confused lol. She has no idea, but I know it would make her so happy if we did stay exclusive...

Posted by LAdazeNYnights on Apr-15-2011 17:52:

1-2 times a week is pretty good man
keep things fresh

Posted by Happymess on Apr-15-2011 17:56:

quote:
Originally posted by Nerologic
we would see each other at least 1-2 times a week before we figure something out.

That's great. You'd actually get to see each other more than some couples living in the same area code.

Good luck.

Posted by Zyklon_Jay on Apr-15-2011 18:08:

what sucks about long distance relationships is that you can't have those toilet convos because you probably aren't there yet.

the couple that shits together stays together.

Posted by gmilf on Apr-15-2011 18:37:

Where's she at? I'll go check in on her for you. Unrelated but, is she a screamer?

Posted by psycontroll on Apr-15-2011 18:46:

quote:
Originally posted by gmilf
Where's she at? I'll go check in on her for you. Unrelated but, is she a screamer?

Posted by Nerologic on Apr-15-2011 18:48:

I just pulled a quick pic from her fb...shes the one on the left obviously lol

She's a screamer when I'm not being lazy, which is here and there. For the most part she's a moaner, unless I feel the need to go full throttle...

Posted by psycontroll on Apr-15-2011 18:52:

Amor de lejos amor de PENDEJOS...
Amor de lejos felizes los 4....

Posted by Nerologic on Apr-15-2011 18:55:

quote:
Originally posted by psycontroll
Amor de lejos amor de PENDEJOS...
Amor de lejos felizes los 4....

This is true, but if I wanted this I wouldn't bother trying to be exclusive....

Posted by DJ RANN on Apr-15-2011 18:59:

quote:
Originally posted by Nerologic
I just pulled a quick pic from her fb...shes the one on the left obviously lol

She's a screamer when I'm not being lazy, which is here and there. For the most part she's a moaner, unless I feel the need to go full throttle...

That one big fucking afro. Tell her to get a haircut or you're going to end it.

Posted by Nerologic on Apr-15-2011 19:08:

quote:
Originally posted by DJ RANN
That one big fucking afro. Tell her to get a haircut or you're going to end it.

You should see her bush down stairs.

Posted by tubularbills on Apr-15-2011 19:38:

100 miles is nothing. that's an hour and a half drive. sure you can't be there instantly if something bad happens or whatever, but you can easily plan a weekend around it.

but across the pond and/or countries apart...that's where the difficultiness starts.

Posted by DJ RANN on Apr-15-2011 19:45:

quote:
Originally posted by Nerologic
You should see her bush down stairs.

Wait, you mean....

or.....

or....

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