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Posted by AnotherWay83 on Apr-22-2011 18:11:

on the fear of getting old

i turn 28 in July and i don't know why but i'm freaking the fuck out. 27 was a bit sobering but this upcoming one is making me feel soooo fucking...done.

i guess for some reason i just assumed the partying, bar hopping and the constant quest to get laid would continue indefinitely
now with each passing weekend i can't help but feel reminded that you know what, someday, probably soon, it'll end. i'll be too damn tired, feel too damn old and creepy to hit on the 21 yr olds and thats gonna suck.

worst of all is the regrets. we all have our own i know but it's just...i expected alot more from my social life for my 20s than what actually materialized, and it feels like it could've been so much better in so many ways. fuck!!

i hardly have any true solid friends. in LA even in my early 20s most of my buddies were in their 30s (don't ask why it just worked out that way) and after moving to NYC i lost touch with almost all of them. come to think of it, perhaps they were never really true friends anyway, or we somehow would've stayed in touch, right? even in NYC i only have 1 - 2 close friends, after 1.5 yrs of living there, but i can't help but question the strength of those friendships often...

life's too long, and why are we only young for such a small percentage of that span? to think that the average lifespan these days is 70 or so...and most of that time is spent being an old person

Posted by Domesticated on Apr-22-2011 18:15:

Fuck yeah. Senility is my only true fear. Not even death scares me.

I'm still young and don't regret much, but fuck, if I had my time over I would have used my early years out of school a hell of a lot better.

Posted by EddieZilker on Apr-22-2011 18:21:

I'm 41. Everything is horrible, now. Everything. You youngins don't know how good you have it. Every day, I pray for God to take me. I can't remember shit. Every day, I pray for God to take my life. You young people don't know how horrible everything is, now that I'm 41. My memory is shit. Everything is horrible, now. I never get laid.

Posted by igottaknow on Apr-22-2011 18:24:

Re: on the fear of getting old

quote:
Originally posted by AnotherWay83
... only have 1 - 2 close friends, after 1.5 yrs of living there, but i can't help but question the strength of those friendships often...

life's too long, and why are we only young for such a small percentage of that span? to think that the average lifespan these days is 70 or so...and most of that time is spent being an old person

that's why most ppl get married because friends aren't forever

Posted by MrJiveBoJingles on Apr-22-2011 18:25:

Being an old person is not so bad. That is what I hear from old people, anyway.

Most people start to find interest in stuff other than just partying and sex before they hit 30. Those who don't end up looking pathetic pretty fast.

Posted by JD8180 on Apr-22-2011 18:27:

Posted by AnotherWay83 on Apr-22-2011 18:30:

quote:
Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles
Being an old person is not so bad. That is what I hear from old people, anyway.

Most people start to find interest in stuff other than just partying and sex before they hit 30. Those who don't end up looking pathetic pretty fast.

yeah, it's something that's coming to me now. i've had other interests and god knows i have a humongous backlog of books i've been wanting to read forever and a day, but all of that has always taken a back seat to the partying and pussy chasing. time to start devoting more time to other pursuits

Posted by tubularbills on Apr-22-2011 18:33:

i'm 28 and i just started getting gray hair within the past 5 or so months. not a fan.

i personally don't like to tthink about getting old, cause it's just too depressing. instead i just focus on short term stuff.

Posted by psycontroll on Apr-22-2011 18:49:

quote:
Originally posted by psycontroll
I never thought old people were so emotional.....
I think most of the tranceaddicts on this site are like 9,000 years old...lol...
but I love it because these three months have been so much fun on this site....

so much good music and drama.....

old tranceaddicts are so emotional..

Posted by Reza on Apr-22-2011 19:06:

as long as my penis keeps working

ITS ALL GOOD

getting old is a part of life

Posted by jonSun on Apr-22-2011 23:45:

quote:
Originally posted by EddieZilker
I'm 41. Everything is horrible, now. Everything. You youngins don't know how good you have it. Every day, I pray for God to take me. I can't remember shit. Every day, I pray for God to take my life. You young people don't know how horrible everything is, now that I'm 41. My memory is shit. Everything is horrible, now. I never get laid.

Don't forget having to a few viagras just to rub one out to old man/teen girl porn.

When I was in my late 20's I feared getting old as well. I heard some older cousins & friends tell me not to worry because my 30's will be better than my 20's as long as I didn't get married & I played my cards right financially. I found that hard to believe since my 20's rocked pretty hard. I thought they were all full of shit but as it turns out they were right. Now im in my early 30's & while I don't go out 6 nights a week like before, I do still party 3-4 times a month. Thing is you still have to look & feel young. Don't lose your hair & try & stay in shape.

Posted by Zyklon_Jay on Apr-22-2011 23:50:

the only thing that happens at 30 that sucks is that your metabolism slows down. Everything else is hand down better, with more money comes more freedom.

Guess what? Those clueless 21 year old skanks will fuck you more at 30 then they would at 21.

Posted by jonSun on Apr-22-2011 23:55:

quote:
Originally posted by Zyklon_Jay
the only thing that happens at 30 that sucks is that your metabolism slows down. Everything else is hand down better, with more money comes more freedom.

Guess what? Those clueless 21 year old skanks will fuck you more at 30 then they would at 21.

very true on both. alot easier to get snatch, but at age 23 running 3 miles a week to stay in shape & eating taco bell everyday was ok. Now I have to run 12 miles a week & watch what I eat.

Posted by Lira on Apr-23-2011 00:04:

I'm 28 and I still feel I'm 17.

Posted by igottaknow on Apr-23-2011 00:08:

quote:
Originally posted by Lira
I'm 28 and I still feel I'm 17.

no way.

Posted by pyro264jb on Apr-23-2011 00:28:

Re: on the fear of getting old

quote:
Originally posted by AnotherWay83
even in NYC i only have 1 - 2 close friends, after 1.5 yrs of living there, but i can't help but question the strength of those friendships often...

life's too long, and why are we only young for such a small percentage of that span? to think that the average lifespan these days is 70 or so...and most of that time is spent being an old person

Dood chill out, most of the partys I go to in New York have clubbers that are "our" age (I'm turning 30 in August

You should stop by the new york forum, say hello :-)

quote:
Originally posted by jonSun
very true on both. alot easier to get snatch, but at age 23 running 3 miles a week to stay in shape & eating taco bell everyday was ok. Now I have to run 12 miles a week & watch what I eat.

I stopped eating breakfast, and only eat salad for lunch, still this flab is tough to fight. But your right, I get more ass now then I did when I was 21, money, freedom, and confidence come with age.

Posted by Swamper on Apr-23-2011 01:31:

You guys are way too young to be whining

I'm gonna be 35 in June and I can say I live a lot more now than 10 years ago, lol

Stay in shape...eat right...be true to your friends - don't becoming a regretful, jaded person and you'll be just fine

Posted by gmilf on Apr-23-2011 01:53:

nope, its all down hill from 27. Write your will, start building a mausoleum so that people will remember you and just think of all the screw ups. Stop now before you make more regrets.

Posted by EddieZilker on Apr-23-2011 01:59:

quote:
Originally posted by gmilf
nope, its all down hill from 27. Write your will, start building a mausoleum so that people will remember you and just think of all the screw ups. Stop now before you make more regrets.

+1

Posted by DigitalPhoenix on Apr-23-2011 02:06:

You whining fucking scrotumbags! "booo-hooo, i'm getting old mommy"
I spit on your freshly sprayed, baby oil head.
While you fucking fucks, cvnt-template about your future, how 'bout you do something about it?

Shot of vodka?

Posted by EddieZilker on Apr-23-2011 02:10:

quote:
Originally posted by DigitalPhoenix
You whining fucking scrotumbags! "booo-hooo, i'm getting old mommy"
I spit on your freshly sprayed, baby oil, head.
While you fucking fucks, cvnt-template about your future, how 'bout you do something about it?

Shot of vodka?

THAT PISS WILL BE TAKEN FROM YOU AS YOU AGE, MARK MY WORDS!!

YOU'LL ALSO TAKE MORE PISSES WITH AGE!!

Posted by gmilf on Apr-23-2011 02:13:

but with less volume and more calcium deposits and blood

Posted by Zyklon_Jay on Apr-23-2011 02:14:

its ironic that you are 3 years older than me swamper, because my cock is at least 3 inches bigger.

Posted by DigitalPhoenix on Apr-23-2011 02:20:

quote:
Originally posted by EddieZilker
THAT PISS WILL BE TAKEN FROM YOU AS YOU AGE, MARK MY WORDS!!

YOU'LL ALSO TAKE MORE PISSES WITH AGE!!

dont fuck with tha bladder brah, not cool

Posted by eye_03 on Apr-23-2011 02:22:

quote:
Originally posted by EddieZilker

YOU'LL ALSO TAKE MORE PISSES WITH AGE!!

quote:
Originally posted by gmilf
but with less volume and more calcium deposits and blood

GODDAMN that made me laugh! hard.

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