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Posted by aszot88 on Oct-31-2011 06:11:

life is boring and everyone sucks

So, I'm new to this chat business, but I figured I'd try it out since this is NOT Facebook. Anyway, where I live, there is NO ONE that I can relate to. I haven't met anyone that loves trance the way I do. What am I supposed to do? Go out to shows n shit like that by myself? I feel so alone in my world and I wish I could share my time with someone like me. Any suggestions on how or where to find people worth talking to?

Posted by KushnOJ on Oct-31-2011 06:11:

Posted by Banora on Oct-31-2011 06:15:

Re: life is boring and everyone sucks

quote:
Originally posted by aszot88
What am I supposed to do? Go out to shows n shit like that by myself?

Yes, that is exactly what you are supposed to do. You're not going to find these people who share your interests unless you venture out of the basement.

Posted by phyrrus on Oct-31-2011 06:18:

start the scene, my man. find friends, distribute music, set up gigs. I find that wearing short-shorts on stage helps to attract attention.

Posted by D-res on Oct-31-2011 06:23:

Re: Re: life is boring and everyone sucks

quote:
Originally posted by Banora
Yes, that is exactly what you are supposed to do. You're not going to find these people who share your interests unless you venture out of the basement.

Exactly. Go to the show alone and MEET other people like you. No shame in that...

Posted by Alex on Oct-31-2011 06:59:

If you're ever in Montreal I'll show you my penis. I asked for a tattoo of a dragon on my pen0r but the guy fucked up and gave me a Christmas tree.

Great for the holiday season but somewhat difficult to explain the rest of the year.

Posted by aszot88 on Oct-31-2011 07:16:

Does anyone know of good places to go around NJ tri state area? It would be awesome to go to Canada one day though, but not to see your penis haha.

Posted by aszot88 on Oct-31-2011 07:18:

What if you're an introvert?

Posted by LAdazeNYnights on Oct-31-2011 07:23:

how old are you?

check the nyta subforum. there are lots of events in nyc, obviously. i'm in LA currently, though I'm from Jersey. i'm not sure what kind of events are going on in jersey, but i see talk of them occasionally in the nyta section. they might mostly be 21+ tho. if you aren't 21, you'll have to get your fix in the city (venues like roseland, even pacha often have 18 or 19+ nights with good djs)

as for being an introvert - i'm embarrassingly introverted myself. you just gotta make it work for you, if that's how you want it to be. otherwise try to be more extroverted. i don't mind going to parties on my own at all (often i drink too much when that's the case, but i have a great time regardless)
i feel where you're coming from - few of my friends have ever had more than a passing interested in edm. when i'm home in jersey i have 1 friend who's always up to check out parties in nyc, as he used to be a trance head, and we have a few other friends we know from meeting in nyc or even locally who usually are down.

Posted by st3nc on Oct-31-2011 07:35:

these are all good neccesary steps, here is a list, for clarity...

1) find the nearest dubstep scene, emo kid scene, alternative lifestyle scene, postoffice kids, crackhead mob, crazy bar...

2) listen for dubstep songs, and when you find one that's tolerable, be like, yo this is good trance...knwowing full well it is dubstep or just xyz edm...enjoy a life of filth, drugs, and monotony you wish you could slow down but are barrelling through at speed of a 18-wheeler

Posted by Quazar on Oct-31-2011 07:56:

Going to assume you're not trolling.

When I first moved to LA, I only had a handful of friends here and none of them were into EDM/nightclubs/etc. So I found TA, which helped me find events, and I started going out by myself. It doesn't take long to make friends in the EDM scene, people are normally pretty friendly.

Posted by FuzzQi on Oct-31-2011 08:14:

The first step is joining a chat site, like TA

Posted by Psynon on Oct-31-2011 09:31:

Is there some certain reason you want friends that like trance music too?

I have quite a many friends but no one of them likes trance music. I like to keep it that way, so it just feels like my thing. Of course it's nice to see some people in forums that like the same music but IRL it would weird imo.

Posted by KilldaDJ on Oct-31-2011 10:15:

Take drugs and listen to deadmau5

Posted by denys envy on Nov-01-2011 15:15:

drumstep is the new dubstep, bruh.

Posted by mathieu on Nov-01-2011 16:02:

you think youre in pain? go to testicular cancer help group to see real pain

Posted by Sykonee on Nov-01-2011 19:04:

Make like Limp Bizkit and break stuff.

Alternatively, make the sensible choice and meet new folks at nearby shows/events. If you have problems breaking the ice in person, start with local forums/groups.

Posted by EddieZilker on Nov-01-2011 21:50:

Re: life is boring and everyone sucks

Posted by OkiDokie on Nov-01-2011 22:15:

quote:
Originally posted by Alex
I asked for a tattoo of a dragon on my pen0r but the guy fucked up and gave me a Christmas tree.

Posted by st3nc on Nov-02-2011 01:49:

quote:
Originally posted by aszot88
So, I'm new to this chat business, but I figured I'd try it out since this is NOT Facebook. Anyway, where I live, there is NO ONE that I can relate to. I haven't met anyone that loves trance the way I do. What am I supposed to do? Go out to shows n shit like that by myself? I feel so alone in my world and I wish I could share my time with someone like me. Any suggestions on how or where to find people worth talking to?

business is new, so, I'm this chat, I'd figured but I try out it, NOT Facebook, since out is this. NO there is ONE, live where anyway, I relate to can I that. I haven't met anyone that loves trance the way I do. do I am, supposed to What? by myself? that like shows n shit out to Go. I feel so alone in my world and wish I could share my time, like me, with someone. suggestions, Any where how on or people to talking worth find to?

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to put it in your words

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don't sit and wait for your phone to ring, wait for texts, or call people, real life is real life, you are not a "troll" so troll bitch, learn to walk, balance, and work shit out in your head before you spit shit out to others heads, also your face is hot in the mirror, to you, no fucking shit, that is a UNIVERSAL, get over it, jack off more, watch stupid shit, enjoy what you enjoy, claim your style, do your fucking life, and be funny, do not be an assclown putting people down, also I am the shit, when you see me in real life... ...it is that fast, ninja funny shit

Posted by EddieZilker on Nov-02-2011 01:59:

quote:
Originally posted by st3nc
business is new, so, I'm this chat, I'd figured but I try out it, NOT Facebook, since out is this. NO there is ONE, live where anyway, I relate to can I that. I haven't met anyone that loves trance the way I do. do I am, supposed to What? by myself? that like shows n shit out to Go. I feel so alone in my world and wish I could share my time, like me, with someone. suggestions, Any where how on or people to talking worth find to?

...

to put it in your words

...

don't sit and wait for your phone to ring, wait for texts, or call people, real life is real life, you are not a "troll" so troll bitch, learn to walk, balance, and work shit out in your head before you spit shit out to others heads, also your face is hot in the mirror, to you, no fucking shit, that is a UNIVERSAL, get over it, jack off more, watch stupid shit, enjoy what you enjoy, claim your style, do your fucking life, and be funny, do not be an assclown putting people down, also I am the shit, when you see me in real life... ...it is that fast, ninja funny shit

Thorazine, STAT!