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Girlfriend Woes

You've probably noticed i'm being a little bitch lately. Girlfriend needs more, i can't give more, and wondering if anyone has ever managed to make this work. Is it better to just work less, and be more balanced. I honestly dont' require the attention she needs so for me, i'm happy but she is starting to like burn dinners and shit. Should i hire a temp ? make the time and be more balanced albeit less productive, wait till she is 30 and undesireable by society then start being a douche. She is kinda spoiled, knows she's good looking and well, she feels she has the power. How do i make her feel less assured. Like how would you lower her self esteem so i can basically do what i'm doing now and she is delighted.

HMusic took over too many hours - lead to wife and I going to counselling. Less hours put in now, but I'm cool with it. Always think what will you want to look back on when your'e 75. Balanced loving life wins.

Ignore her and give her even less time. Show her how good she had it.

You have to choose what matters most to you and do that. If you want to do everything, things tend not to work out.

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Originally posted by Julz Ignore her and give her even less time. Show her how good she had it.

IDK, hot chicks get anything they want. She'll probably just be able to find an older, richer guy.

but those hours are kinda what i need to do to get where i want to be. like should i just take 2 mnutes every 4 hours and call her and say like whatcha thinkin about. I mean i'm spectecular in every way except i don't have that much time but all my spare time goes to her. And let her do stuff most boyfriends would not be cool with. The thing is she is kinda an ego centric man eater that like wear stupid shoes that are way too expensive and is talking about plastic surgery. She is a singer and although she is the only person I can talk to for a while, well things are getting a little more how do you say, well she started exercising. That is like when the nazis started their air force. IT only means one thing.

Marry her.

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Originally posted by jayxthekoolest IDK, hot chicks get anything they want. She'll probably just be able to find an older, richer guy.

Then why waste your time with a shallow bitch???

Honestly women, especially hot ones love when you treat them like everyone else or worse.
Because they are so used to being worshiped all day everyday.

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Originally posted by jayxthekoolest IDK, hot chicks get anything they want. She'll probably just be able to find an older, richer guy.

older and richer sure but i mean you don't find good looking funny successful artists that can fuck you like the a republican anywhere really. I mean I would say i would score higher but i do love her. So it isn't a question of that, i would say i'm just as much a catch. Is this like that phase where i just let her have a gangbang and htings are cool ?

she isn't that shallow. She pretends. She thinks she some fucking cast member from gossip girl. lol But she isn't shallow. Insecure i htink like most musicians. And she also hasn't had that many partners and altough i tell her she is getting the best, she things maybe i'm lying.

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Originally posted by Looney4Clooney but those hours are kinda what i need to do to get where i want to be. like should i just take 2 mnutes every 4 hours and call her and say like whatcha thinkin about. I mean i'm spectecular in every way except i don't have that much time but all my spare time goes to her. And let her do stuff most boyfriends would not be cool with. The thing is she is kinda an ego centric man eater that like wear stupid shoes that are way too expensive and is talking about plastic surgery. She is a singer and although she is the only person I can talk to for a while, well things are getting a little more how do you say, well she started exercising. That is like when the nazis started their air force. IT only means one thing.

If you have a goal of where you want to be, and you want to do something great, well, then you really have to either comment to that goal fully (i.e. 100% of your free time) or you have to decide if you want a relationship more. Like look at Adele, she has to give up professional music for 6 years in order to have a relationship. I mean, I think that's just the way the world works.

Anyways, worth considering:

http://ramonthomas.com/2007/10/crai...ciating-assets/

ah fuck addele

that girl should not have a career. HOnestly , you can find someone that can sing like that in every fucking city at some karaoke bar. She really pisses me off. She is not good looking enough or talented to do what she does. Ya i fucking can't stand that girl. Who the fuck let her into the waiting room.

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Originally posted by Looney4Clooney ego centric man eater that like wear stupid shoes that are way too expensive and is talking about plastic surgery. She is a singer

sounds like a dream come true, better lock that shit down

she isn't really like that. I woudn't be with someone like that. She is great. DOn't know if I could do better.

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Originally posted by Looney4Clooney she isn't really like that. I woudn't be with someone like that. She is great. DOn't know if I could do better.

read the article i linked dude

look i'm just looking for insight from actual people that have dealt with this. Like that old guy trancelover. Nows your time,

ANother thing is that she kinda keeps me sane. Grounded. Which is important. She is my best friend too. So it isn't some small thing. Consider us married basically. So its kinda a big thing.

Alright, well I do wish you good luck with whatever you choose to do and with whatever happens.

it isn't luck.


it is a decision, do one line of work that can result in my dream job, but at the cost of a relationship, or just do what i'm doing now and have the relatinoshp

can't someone find the nash equilibrium for me?

Stick with the career. I think it'll stick with you longer than she will tbh.

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Originally posted by tehlord Stick with the career. I think it'll stick with you longer than she will tbh.

That's my opinion too. That's why I posted the link to "girls are depreciating assets". I mean, I think with relationships you just can't force them. If it feels like it is going south, it is going south.

but what about say someone you might consider someone the only person youv'e really got along with like that. I'm not gonna say soul mate because that is m4b talk but i mean is there a middle ground for those that have had to do this sort of thing ? I mean our relationship is great except i don't give her enough time.

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Originally posted by Looney4Clooney but what about say someone you might consider someone the only person youv'e really got along with like that. I'm not gonna say soul mate because that is m4b talk but i mean is there a middle ground for those that have had to do this sort of thing ? I mean our relationship is great except i don't give her enough time.

I honestly don't think you'll be able to find that middle ground. You're one of those people (as far as I can tell on here) that's all about themselves. That's great when you're trying to take over the world, but not so great when you want to pay attention to somebody else. Nothing wrong with being that way, it just has it's costs.

Would she be happier if you gave her the time you give to all of us?

dude. speaking from experience, its a phase. Give her all you have and then she won't need more. Just play into it. Otherwise you'll hear the "you never pay attention to me" bull shit that some girlfriends say when they think they're neglected. It'll pass but until then, put everything down.

naw i really would say i am quite the opposite. I rarely think about myself. As if my soft golden middle is obvious under the silly badboy rhetoric that is obviously not real. But ya, if i don't like you, i won't do a think for you, but if i do, I will go out of my way to help you out. Like shit , you said you needed hardrives, i was ready to mail a bunch to you for free.

Naw you have my douchery all wrong. I mean i bet you wouldn't think i am a strong proponent for women's rights. I give alot of money to organizations that help the mentally ill, my character is i don't know, lets just say , I probably think about what i do and how that makes people feel more than most. I mean i'm the kinda guy that if i were to rape someone, you can guarantee that i will use lots of lube, a condom and tell her she is gorgeous. So fuck you .

i'm afraid the next girl i bring into my home she'll be shocked on how much gear i have. Any of that happen to you guys?

Here we go man, I said that already so many different times and will say this again "you have to love yourself first to be able to share that love with someone else" and the way you acting recently, man "this is freaking mission impossible" for you. Damn it, just wake up and start to behave like normal human being and stop acting like an ass because you are much better then this "Wild dog running around with no real purpose" image you are trying to create of yourself, get the freaking grip and no don't give here everything she wants, doesn't work that way, ultimately you will suffer down the road - just my $0.02 from the guy who's ideas sucks lol

Cheers the "On" dude

Darek

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