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so, I took the coffee shop gal out..

I think it would be better this way..


Dear Diary

Yeah, so I took Miss Linnea out tonight *exclamation mark here*. I know, I said Thursday but she had to reschedule(due to work)(apparently the coffee shop game is serious business)(???)

Aaanyways, she knocked off at 11. Suggesting coffee would have been ludicrous(stupid decisions expected of me as per past female liaision, yes)(have our blue balls learnt better.. well)

liaision <--- fcuk, that's a difficult world to spell.

We were both hungry enough for a bite. I suggested the new Lebanese place near Pikes.

I drove. I ordered some starters and the conversation started rolling out pretty smoothly(thankfully).

Work.. Studies.. Been a hectic week.. She covered the default basics for a first time date.

Not into EDM.. But hey, she's from the same place as Neil (fcuk, that place is a dead shithole)

Shadow puppets is a competitive sport there. I said that, she laughed.

We ordered up. I didn't order my usual appetite. Figured I wouldn't show my true form(yet). New place.. so multiple dishes on our table. We shared it around.. chatted more. She's funny.. Nice smile too.

Weirdly enough, we both had acid indigestion. Went to the 24 hour pharmacy nearby which eventually ended up with us getting some candy floss and chilling at the benches at Rosebridge.

A few more walks and talks later, she told me that she had just came out of a relationship, 3 months ago. Yes, the rebound nookie alarm rang. Our blue balls turned up the volume too.

I dropped her at her car. She gave me a kiss on the cheek and suggested that we hit up movie on Tuesday. I said that I would confirm on Monday(yes, ye old hard to get) .. But, then I caved.. But saved it with, 'yeah I should be free.. will just text ya later to confirm'. Ok, not really a save.

So hey, Tuesday it is. Now to temporarily solve our 'backed up' problem down there.

Redtube. Latinas ?

NICE MAN!!!
i must have missed this part, but how did you go about asking her out in the first place?

that was a great read

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Weirdly enough, we both had acid indigestion.

Probably the deal-maker right there. Nothing like mutual suffering for a little bonding.

walk the dinosaur

Nice one man! Try the dick in the popcorn trick at the movie!

OP, are you in junior high?

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Originally posted by WittyHandle OP, are you in junior high?

He might just be a bit shy. Or not overly confident about picking up ladies yet.

Glad it went well (apart from the acid reflux bit, that's always a bitch)
Always a good sign when the girl suggests you meet again. Keep us posted.

Good work, mate.

So.... Does she actually look like Natalie Imbruglia, now that you've spent some time with her?

We may require pics

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Originally posted by Euforix Was there a certain point in this thread?

Guy got a date? Might as well make a thread. Anotherway83 does.

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Originally posted by Euforix Congrats, if that's what you want to hear. Was there a certain point in this thread?

After the slight mess that was the original post, it kinda does.
Stories need to have a beginning and an end, after all!

The 'saga' was perhaps spread over 2 other threads but aaanyways, yeah she does kinda look like Natalie, not a perfect clone but striking resemblances. Hey... still a pretty girl either way ? So good enough for me.

To quick & further explain the initial thread(about a week ago?). Pretty Manager at the new coffee shop near the office. Met her 3 times in 2 days. Only in the city for 4 months so far... I did the obligatory.. 'so hey, why don't I show you around a bit'

And yeah.. Movie ..Tuesday.. we just see it goes from there ?

Expectation:
Skin on Skin

Most likely reality:
Movie.. Random idling .. More Redtube @ home.

Serious lack of booze in the 1st and soon to happen second date. Problem is the media has girls convinced all guys are axe murderers, rapists, cheaters, scum and scoundrels in general. When you're not meeting a girl through a casual trusted friend then you have 2 options to get in the pants assuming she's not a hoe. Spend several dates and much effort proving that you're a good guy and then going for it. Or, booze it up so she doesn't care if you're a good guy, then she'll figure you're legit later on down the road and you don't deal with blueballs while that happens.

Summed up imo add booze before, during or after the movie and raise the goal up to dick in vag instead of skin to skin. Unless you're actually in junior high as previously speculated in which case enjoy the heavy petting you wildcat you.

So, just to be clear:

Rapist or ax-murderer - NOT OK!

Manipulatively subverting her self-awareness with alcohol because you feel she's been unduly influenced by mainstream media to repress her natural sexuality - OK!.

I'm going on the assumption that he is a good guy and therefore booze is just an avenue to take care of the blue balls while she gradually realizes it. Not attending to the blue balls could actually ruin it for him. Perhaps this girl could be his future wife but in his 1 step at a time date process she sees him as twitchy and irritable and bounces altogether before relieving him of his built up devil seed.

But yes your summary is quite accurate.

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Originally posted by GGM Serious lack of booze in the 1st and soon to happen second date. Summed up imo add booze before, during or after the movie and raise the goal up to dick in vag instead of skin to skin.

good point.... don't get wasted though lol... just enough to let the shit loose.

but kuddos overall

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Originally posted by Serial Killer just enough to let the shit loose.

It's common courtesy to ask if she's into that first.

Thread title made me think of Always Sunny...

Good for you Charlie!

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Originally posted by GGM Serious lack of booze in the 1st and soon to happen second date. Problem is the media has girls convinced all guys are axe murderers, rapists, cheaters, scum and scoundrels in general. When you're not meeting a girl through a casual trusted friend then you have 2 options to get in the pants assuming she's not a hoe. Spend several dates and much effort proving that you're a good guy and then going for it. Or, booze it up so she doesn't care if you're a good guy, then she'll figure you're legit later on down the road and you don't deal with blueballs while that happens. Summed up imo add booze before, during or after the movie and raise the goal up to dick in vag instead of skin to skin. Unless you're actually in junior high as previously speculated in which case enjoy the heavy petting you wildcat you.

sex is the only thing that matters?

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Originally posted by jonmitz sex is the only thing that matters?

Not at all, but it sounds like he's got everything else covered (getting to know her, having fun, learning history, verifying compatibility etc etc...).

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Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On It's common courtesy to ask if she's into that first.

There is the "oops I slipped" or "my bad, it's real dark in here" approach. But highly not recommended...

lame.

if you didn't hit it on the first date, you failed. i'm sorry, better luck next time.

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Originally posted by jonmitz sex is the only thing that matters?

what else is there?

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Originally posted by GGM assuming she's not a hoe.

but "bitches ain't shit but hos and tricks" - Dr Dre

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