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Love?

Do you believe in love ? And if so, what do you think about it ?

love fucking sucks...unless, of course, its mutual and true

Most of the time it's like the fifth horsman of the apocalyps. But sometimes it can be a liberating experience. It all depends on how it flows; upwards to pleasure or down to misery

Love is the most painful emotion you'll ever experience.

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Originally posted by Essential1 Love is the most painful emotion you'll ever experience.

Love is just what you make of it. At times I felt a lot like like I was destined never find it, but I was so incredibly lucky and found the love of my life, my perfect match, when I had stopped searching. We have been together for one year and it has been the happiest and most totally awesome year ever.
I agree, love can be painful at times, but it is also the most fulfilling, exquisite feeling as well. With every passing day, I feel it more intensely, it is totally fantastic.
Don't ever give up, because just when you think love can't happen to you, it does.

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Originally posted by cammie Love is just what you make of it. At times I felt a lot like like I was destined never find it, but I was so incredibly lucky and found the love of my life, my perfect match, when I had stopped searching. We have been together for one year and it has been the happiest and most totally awesome year ever. I agree, love can be painful at times, but it is also the most fulfilling, exquisite feeling as well. With every passing day, I feel it more intensely, it is totally fantastic. Don't ever give up, because just when you think love can't happen to you, it does.

My gf of almost 2 years just broke up with me. That's what I mean about love being painful. Basically, love hurts when people change.

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Originally posted by Essential1 My gf of almost 2 years just broke up with me. That's what I mean about love being painful. Basically, love hurts when people change.

That is so true, Essential. I didn't mean to disparage your earlier comment. I should have explained that I had a similar experience two years ago, and never thought that I would recover, but I did. And just when I wasn't looking for another relationship, I was so lucky to have found the one person who has truly made me happy. I plan to work together with him and get through any problems we encounter as we grow and change together.

Love is the emotion of extremes. Either you have love and are extremly happy, or you need love and are extremly lonely. Or you just lost someone you loved and your extremly sad

once this song came out :
britney spears - I believe in love


well listen to the words!

you'll see!

love is real

Yes, love is definitely real. But falling out of love is just the same, and hurts like a bitch.

Damn, I'm so lonely now.

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Originally posted by jdat once this song came out : britney spears - I believe in love well listen to the words! you'll see! love is real

is that for real? are you serious?

dang, man, dan' ol' love hurts, i tell you what, man

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Originally posted by Nadi Love is the emotion of extremes.

Yeah, it can take you to hell or to heaven as well. Someone said that love hurts when you're not loved back... hmmm... I wouldn't say so. When you really love someone, you don't expect to be loved back, all you wish is that the person will be just fine, because you'll really care about (him/her). It'll just hurt if the person doesn't care at all about you, which won't be love, but passion (strong physical attraction). Passions are quick, but love last longer.

I could spend hours and hours talking about it...

'Better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all....'

-BLuEOcEaN420
~70278330~

i believe that love exists, but i think there's only one kind of love...and i cant explain that too well...i dont think theres any such thing as "romantic love"..thats just lust

'''LOVE IS A WORD INVENTED FOR A FEELING THAT HAS NO EXPLINATIONATION'''

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LOVE IS ONLY A WORD

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Originally posted by Essential1 Basically, love hurts when people change.

That's an interesting insight...
Being married for 3 years and having going out with my now wife for over 10, I can tell you what I know about that:

1) Have some common goals that you both can accomplish in life together. This is very important. How many times have you heard the, "We just drifted apart..." senario...too many times...
There's nothing wrong with doing your own thing; you should, but be sure to balance that with your relationship.

2) Communicate, communicate, communicate.
For guys, this can be hard. But most of the time women just want someone to hear them out; not necessarily looking for answers to their daily problems (wipes brow...)
Become a soundboard for them.

3) Tell them you love them and hug them everyday. Hey...it doesn't hurt...

4) Support them 100% in whatever they decide to do. For example, my wife Irish Dances (like the stuff you see in 'Lord of the Dance') and goes to class one a week.

I'm no expert, but out of all of my friends, I have the longest lasting relationship by a long shot.

My .02�...

What is love? Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more

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Originally posted by Haak What is love? Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more

Haddaway rox

I think that love is basically good and should work, but because the society is so shitty, love is almost everytime fake. Maybe not fake at all, but it's really hard to now find real love.
For example, I am personnaly angry against some stupid tv program because some person look at them and decide unconsciously to base their future reactions, opinions and feelings on them.

~ RazerYokes

I can't really say I've ever been in love, so I may not have any right to comment, but the way I see it, if you want to fall in love then you will.

I've enjoyed the time I've spent with my girlfriends (well, most of it ) but at the same time, my feelings never evolved beyond that superficial "attraction" or a sort of mild feeling of "caring" for them. You may argue that I didn't give the feelings enough time to mature, or that I just haven't met the right girl, but I can't see things changing. I'm not emotional enough to fall in love. Well actually that's not true: I like to think of myself as "emotional" but just not in the way we're talking about here - I get emotional about people dying, or getting hurt or about more "transcendent" things (which would take a while to explain) but I doubt I could ever reach any sort of emotional intensity in an exclusive relationship.

I'll probably end up marrying at some point, or at least nestle myself into a nice cozy relationship with someone, but I doubt I'll be acting out of "love" more for the security of sexual companionship.

Not to say that I'm obsessed with sex or anything, but I'm still of the belief that - at base - that's where hetero-sexual love inextricably stems from.

Read into this what you will.

i think love do existe, but when its ends its hurts so much ("love hurts when people change") ...
and its hurts even more when u love a porsen and he doesnt love u back...
but still i think the purpose of ppls lives is 2 love and b loved.. (Better to love once and b hurted then never love anyone..)
and in the end evry one have 2 find the right one 4 him ...

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Originally posted by Fir3start3r That's an interesting insight... Being married for 3 years and having going out with my now wife for over 10, I can tell you what I know about that: 1) Have some common goals that you both can accomplish in life together. This is very important. How many times have you heard the, "We just drifted apart..." senario...too many times... There's nothing wrong with doing your own thing; you should, but be sure to balance that with your relationship. 2) Communicate, communicate, communicate. For guys, this can be hard. But most of the time women just want someone to hear them out; not necessarily looking for answers to their daily problems (wipes brow...) Become a soundboard for them. 3) Tell them you love them and hug them everyday. Hey...it doesn't hurt... 4) Support them 100% in whatever they decide to do. For example, my wife Irish Dances (like the stuff you see in 'Lord of the Dance') and goes to class one a week. I'm no expert, but out of all of my friends, I have the longest lasting relationship by a long shot. My .02�...

I'm one of those many "we just drifted apart" people. But not b/c I let it happen, it just did. She changed into a different person from the one I fell in love with, and I aparently didn't change enough.

See, she's almost 22 and I just turned 19 so we have completely different goals. She's working full time, going to college for extra courses she doesn't yet have, and also lives about 1/2 hour from me. I on the other hand still need 1 credit to finish high school, I'm working a homer simpson job, and I still don't know what I want to do with my life. So basically, we drifed apart b/c she matured too fast and I stayed in the same place I was when I met her.

The only thing I dread now is walking down the street a few years from now and seeing her with some next dude who is much more successful than I attept to be.

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Originally posted by jdat once this song came out : britney spears - I believe in love well listen to the words! you'll see! love is real

I did a search and I can't find it

Anyway, I think love is all good. Even if it ends or goes wrong, at least you learn something from it, hopefully.

and in case you didn't know, I love you inatrance! -Lovely

Love I don�t think it can exist it might but I cant believe it. Not that I�ve been hurt in the past by it but for some odd reason I cant see it when it's there. Maybe cuz I�m in such a negative view I just cannot see it but I�m cheerful and happy strange

Luv I can see and I can use on people I care a lot about but cant put my thumb exactly on them if you get my drift.

this.. is a loaded subject for me. I feel about 90% of the time I'd be better off being a bachelor or a hermit for the rest of my life. The other 10% of the time though I'm lonely as hell. Better to have loved and lost blah blah blah.. bullshit. The two true loves of my life I think about to this day (I knew them 7 and 6 years ago resepectively) and the thing is I know one never had a clue and the other knew, and was really interested in trying to discover her feelings, but we both decided our situations were not supportive to any relationship. (This goes back to the similar goals item mentioned by Essential1) before. ANd to this day I'm kicking myself in the ass constantly for not trying to find some more solid common ground between myself and her to be able to at least attempt. Maybe if I had done that I'd be more accepting of the "loved and lost" phrase, but right now that's just stupid to me.

Anyhow.. yes,I believe true love exists, but in its purest form it's a very rare thing. And also to paraphrase Essential1 again, it takes work. That I can do, but I don't have the patience when I'm the only one working on it. Truth of the matter is I don't mind listening at all, I'm usually better at it than talking myself. Thank god we're not actually talking abotu marriage. THat's where I get into really sticky issues; suffice it to say I just think that it's a broken concept, though I tend to have problems with roommates of any sort. I need my alone time
(And you wonder why my few long distance relationships [I met girls in the town I went to college in after I had moved to another college.. I was visiting friends still at school there] have been fairly succesful... Much alone time there.. though sometimes too much )

I've gone too long already, and as stated before I could go on for hours about this.. it's made trickier that this viewpoint is varied by my moods as well. And yes, being horny does affect my viewpoint on this matter as well. New sex with a new partner is always exciting, but sometimes knowing what to expect to some degree is comforting in its own way, and generally speaking sex with one you love is the most fulfilling...

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Originally posted by Lovely I did a search and I can't find it Anyway, I think love is all good. Even if it ends or goes wrong, at least you learn something from it, hopefully. and in case you didn't know, I love you inatrance! -Lovely

very true! :P I love you lovely!@#!

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