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Achieving Female Orgasm
My girlfriend has never gotten off. She likes to have sex and she's done it alot. How the heck can I get her off! We haven't had sex totally all the way yet so post all your tips because I promised her I would do it!

Pulsating shower heads. Trust me, works like a charm.
Eat her out right to the point were she will cum and then shove it in.


the clit is slightly to the left
thats all ya need to no.
edit: or was it slightly 2 the rite
i forget.
stick a cactus up her rectum
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| Originally posted by DuMonde TrAnCeR stick a cactus up her rectum |
Hmm, ok...first off, every woman is different. Some girls may like a slow, rhythmic up and down motion right on her most sensitive nub. Some other piece of action, however, may enjoy a really fast flicker across her hood with some fingerplay thrown in.
Then there's your girlfriend, who really likes to be teased a LOT and then a hard & fast side-to-side action right on her clit...with a toy (or some other hard object like that pic I posted) being poked in right as she's cumming.
Some of JP's tips:
-You don�t want to head straight for the clitoris with your tongue; your best bet is to start by licking around the area. Stick your tongue between the folds of the labia and lick. Start at the perineum (found just below the vaginal opening) and lick upward in one long stroke. Much like a cat does when cleaning itself.
-Now you can either do one of two things, lick so that your tongue comes up and brushes over the clitoris or stop just short of it. Either way I�m sure that your girlfriend will start to squirm. Another stroke that you can use when you�ve teased her sufficiently is to lap at the clitoris with a pointed tongue � much like a cat lapping at milk would do.
-This is a stroke that can be used when she�s very close to orgasm to push her over the edge. You can speed up the rate of the lapping or slow it down, or combine slow and fast in any rhythm of your choosing. Just remember to listen to your girl�s responses so that you know whether she�s enjoying the sensations or you�re totally pissing her off.
-If you�re feeling adventuresome then there are a couple of other things that you can try if you are so inclined. One of them is to try dipping your tongue into your GF�s vaginal opening. You can vary the depth of the thrusts and the speed.
The only thing I'd add to that is to experiment not only with pressure & speed, but also direction. Does she like up & down? Circles? Side to side? Make sure you remind her to let you know what feels REALLY good, because it starts feeling that way and some of us just hold our breath and don't say a word!
greetz
jpLOVEparade
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| Originally posted by DuMonde TrAnCeR stick a cactus up her rectum |
jp man, you knnow yer ish buddy!
Just listen to her. She tell/moan/groan you where to go. I've had the best results by asking them to lend a hand as it were...
They need to bereally comfortable with thmeselves/you, but if she gets into it you're guaranteed climax. Remember, communication is the KEY to any good relationship.
Cheers,
Fats
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| Originally posted by cycloptor yep...thats the one right there... always works |
arf arf 
send her to me 
haha j/k, couldn't resist
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| Originally posted by jploveparade Hmm, ok...first off, every woman is different. Some girls may like a slow, rhythmic up and down motion right on her most sensitive nub. Some other piece of action, however, may enjoy a really fast flicker across her hood with some fingerplay thrown in. Then there's your girlfriend, who really likes to be teased a LOT and then a hard & fast side-to-side action right on her clit...with a toy (or some other hard object like that pic I posted) being poked in right as she's cumming. Some of JP's tips: -You don�t want to head straight for the clitoris with your tongue; your best bet is to start by licking around the area. Stick your tongue between the folds of the labia and lick. Start at the perineum (found just below the vaginal opening) and lick upward in one long stroke. Much like a cat does when cleaning itself. -Now you can either do one of two things, lick so that your tongue comes up and brushes over the clitoris or stop just short of it. Either way I�m sure that your girlfriend will start to squirm. Another stroke that you can use when you�ve teased her sufficiently is to lap at the clitoris with a pointed tongue � much like a cat lapping at milk would do. -This is a stroke that can be used when she�s very close to orgasm to push her over the edge. You can speed up the rate of the lapping or slow it down, or combine slow and fast in any rhythm of your choosing. Just remember to listen to your girl�s responses so that you know whether she�s enjoying the sensations or you�re totally pissing her off. -If you�re feeling adventuresome then there are a couple of other things that you can try if you are so inclined. One of them is to try dipping your tongue into your GF�s vaginal opening. You can vary the depth of the thrusts and the speed. The only thing I'd add to that is to experiment not only with pressure & speed, but also direction. Does she like up & down? Circles? Side to side? Make sure you remind her to let you know what feels REALLY good, because it starts feeling that way and some of us just hold our breath and don't say a word! greetz jpLOVEparade |
got ma woman pretty stoned with 1 hand
(hope she do not read this
)
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| I've had the best results by asking them to lend a hand as it were... |

Thanks for the tips. I haven't tried oral yet. Most people tell me it's a chore but it's effective. So maybe some time soon I can try it!
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