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Posted by DJ Sunburn on Oct-05-2002 18:53:

Achieving Female Orgasm

My girlfriend has never gotten off. She likes to have sex and she's done it alot. How the heck can I get her off! We haven't had sex totally all the way yet so post all your tips because I promised her I would do it!


Posted by jp on Oct-05-2002 18:57:


Posted by Vanilla on Oct-05-2002 19:04:

Pulsating shower heads. Trust me, works like a charm.


Posted by JdDark on Oct-05-2002 19:13:

Talking

Eat her out right to the point were she will cum and then shove it in.



Posted by Technaut on Oct-05-2002 19:16:


Posted by DJ Mikey Mike on Oct-05-2002 19:25:

the clit is slightly to the left thats all ya need to no.

edit: or was it slightly 2 the rite i forget.


Posted by Ste on Oct-05-2002 19:28:

stick a cactus up her rectum


Posted by cycloptor on Oct-05-2002 19:30:

quote:
Originally posted by DuMonde TrAnCeR
stick a cactus up her rectum


yep...thats the one right there... always works


Posted by jp on Oct-05-2002 19:35:

Hmm, ok...first off, every woman is different. Some girls may like a slow, rhythmic up and down motion right on her most sensitive nub. Some other piece of action, however, may enjoy a really fast flicker across her hood with some fingerplay thrown in.

Then there's your girlfriend, who really likes to be teased a LOT and then a hard & fast side-to-side action right on her clit...with a toy (or some other hard object like that pic I posted) being poked in right as she's cumming.

Some of JP's tips:

-You don�t want to head straight for the clitoris with your tongue; your best bet is to start by licking around the area. Stick your tongue between the folds of the labia and lick. Start at the perineum (found just below the vaginal opening) and lick upward in one long stroke. Much like a cat does when cleaning itself.

-Now you can either do one of two things, lick so that your tongue comes up and brushes over the clitoris or stop just short of it. Either way I�m sure that your girlfriend will start to squirm. Another stroke that you can use when you�ve teased her sufficiently is to lap at the clitoris with a pointed tongue � much like a cat lapping at milk would do.

-This is a stroke that can be used when she�s very close to orgasm to push her over the edge. You can speed up the rate of the lapping or slow it down, or combine slow and fast in any rhythm of your choosing. Just remember to listen to your girl�s responses so that you know whether she�s enjoying the sensations or you�re totally pissing her off.

-If you�re feeling adventuresome then there are a couple of other things that you can try if you are so inclined. One of them is to try dipping your tongue into your GF�s vaginal opening. You can vary the depth of the thrusts and the speed.

The only thing I'd add to that is to experiment not only with pressure & speed, but also direction. Does she like up & down? Circles? Side to side? Make sure you remind her to let you know what feels REALLY good, because it starts feeling that way and some of us just hold our breath and don't say a word!

greetz

jpLOVEparade


Posted by jp on Oct-05-2002 19:40:

quote:
Originally posted by DuMonde TrAnCeR
stick a cactus up her rectum



Posted by skaborough fats on Oct-05-2002 19:53:

jp man, you knnow yer ish buddy!

Just listen to her. She tell/moan/groan you where to go. I've had the best results by asking them to lend a hand as it were...

They need to bereally comfortable with thmeselves/you, but if she gets into it you're guaranteed climax. Remember, communication is the KEY to any good relationship.

Cheers,
Fats


Posted by Ste on Oct-05-2002 19:58:

quote:
Originally posted by cycloptor


yep...thats the one right there... always works


also try pouring bleach in her gash, the feeling of her clit dissolving will make her cum 1000 times over!


Posted by Technaut on Oct-05-2002 20:01:

arf arf


Posted by AnotherWay83 on Oct-05-2002 20:39:

send her to me

haha j/k, couldn't resist


Posted by DJ-Ande on Oct-05-2002 20:39:

Dancing Dude

quote:
Originally posted by jploveparade
Hmm, ok...first off, every woman is different. Some girls may like a slow, rhythmic up and down motion right on her most sensitive nub. Some other piece of action, however, may enjoy a really fast flicker across her hood with some fingerplay thrown in.

Then there's your girlfriend, who really likes to be teased a LOT and then a hard & fast side-to-side action right on her clit...with a toy (or some other hard object like that pic I posted) being poked in right as she's cumming.

Some of JP's tips:

-You don�t want to head straight for the clitoris with your tongue; your best bet is to start by licking around the area. Stick your tongue between the folds of the labia and lick. Start at the perineum (found just below the vaginal opening) and lick upward in one long stroke. Much like a cat does when cleaning itself.

-Now you can either do one of two things, lick so that your tongue comes up and brushes over the clitoris or stop just short of it. Either way I�m sure that your girlfriend will start to squirm. Another stroke that you can use when you�ve teased her sufficiently is to lap at the clitoris with a pointed tongue � much like a cat lapping at milk would do.

-This is a stroke that can be used when she�s very close to orgasm to push her over the edge. You can speed up the rate of the lapping or slow it down, or combine slow and fast in any rhythm of your choosing. Just remember to listen to your girl�s responses so that you know whether she�s enjoying the sensations or you�re totally pissing her off.

-If you�re feeling adventuresome then there are a couple of other things that you can try if you are so inclined. One of them is to try dipping your tongue into your GF�s vaginal opening. You can vary the depth of the thrusts and the speed.

The only thing I'd add to that is to experiment not only with pressure & speed, but also direction. Does she like up & down? Circles? Side to side? Make sure you remind her to let you know what feels REALLY good, because it starts feeling that way and some of us just hold our breath and don't say a word!

greetz

jpLOVEparade


wooooooooooooooooooooo u no ya shite!!!!!!!!


Posted by Endre on Oct-05-2002 20:47:


got ma woman pretty stoned with 1 hand

(hope she do not read this )


Posted by jp on Oct-05-2002 23:08:

quote:
I've had the best results by asking them to lend a hand as it were...


Indeed, many young females rather don't say anything when enjoying the moment.

Good oral sex can make girls, especially the shy ones, enter the pleasuredome of which they never knew it's excistence. When girls feel really confortable (that's your occupation), the internal barrier of her mind will be taken over by the body.

Girls just don't reach the levels of total satisfaction with some short foreplay and a quick bounce. Take your time and put some energy in exploring the wilderness

Let me tell you this: girls enjoy oral sex above anything! If he has still most of her pubic hairs, ask her to trim it. She will gladly do so after you showed her the benefits


Posted by DJ Sunburn on Oct-06-2002 13:39:

Thanks for the tips. I haven't tried oral yet. Most people tell me it's a chore but it's effective. So maybe some time soon I can try it!



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