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Posted by djcapshaw on Oct-06-2002 05:39:

How Do You Mend A Broken Heart?

Hey everyone
I have a question. How do you mend a broken heart? My guy and I broke up about a month and a half ago not because we wanted to but because we had to. He says long distance doesn't work? We're still good friends but it kills me every time we talk and sometimes when we do I don't think he's even all the way there. How do you all deal with heart aches?

Calisa

Posted by Dmatrox on Oct-06-2002 05:47:

how do you deal with heartaches. You cant be human or get yourself brainwashed. Emotions make us human, most of the time is wonderful but other times its not so great.

Posted by Ekstasis on Oct-06-2002 06:00:

Just takes time. I know it sucks, but I would avoid talking to him till the emotions die down a bit. If you keep talking. One person is going to move on before the other and that hurts more then the breaking up did.

Posted by Vanilla on Oct-06-2002 06:06:

Riva-Time is the healer

Posted by Essential1 on Oct-06-2002 06:53:

I'm in the exact same situation, just do things that would take ur mind off him. spend more time with friends and just learn to be single again. the problem with me is, i forgot how to be single and often make a ass of myself...

Posted by Trancealot on Oct-06-2002 07:06:

yah..when your long distance..keep enjoying each others company. If one person moves on like don't flaut it in the other person's face. You both we in good company when you known each other and can be when your far away.

Posted by AnotherWay83 on Oct-06-2002 08:05:

stop looking for happiness and fulfillment outside of yourself. if u do, u will never find it simply because u're looking in the wrong place.

it's all within you. happiness is sumthing that is released, not found.

Posted by biznology on Oct-06-2002 08:26:

liquor and marijuana|just kidding, sorta

Posted by Ste on Oct-06-2002 13:59:

some superglue and a roll of duct tape

Posted by Lira on Oct-06-2002 14:03:

quote:
Originally posted by DuMonde TrAnCeR
some superglue and a roll of duct tape

duh

Posted by Illusion on Oct-06-2002 15:45:

Re: How Do You Mend A Broken Heart?

quote:
Originally posted by djcapshaw
How do you mend a broken heart?

The human heart is like glass. When it breaks! it breaks for good.

You can patch it back together and pretend it's normal again.
And it kinda looks healed from a distance. But if you take a closer look you can see all the scars.

*sigh*

Posted by drizzt81 on Oct-06-2002 15:49:

Re: How Do You Mend A Broken Heart?

quote:
Originally posted by djcapshaw
Hey everyone
I have a question. How do you mend a broken heart? My guy and I broke up about a month and a half ago not because we wanted to but because we had to. He says long distance doesn't work? We're still good friends but it kills me every time we talk and sometimes when we do I don't think he's even all the way there. How do you all deal with heart aches?

Calisa

well, i was about to crack this awesome joke from Dog soldiers, a movie i saw this summer, it owns, but seeing that have a real problem, i will not do this.

I have done the long distance thing once for a short amount of time, it does not work. And there are a couple of things, which will get u back on track:
1. change in enviroment: Go out, have fun, meet with friends
2. alcohol dis-solves all problems
3. time

I was messed up for about two months, then I went 'home' (different country) and figured out that there is more to life.. like music and heck, I had the summer of my life. Yeah, I still miss her, but i am over her now, I think

good luck

Posted by TrAZ on Oct-06-2002 16:06:

booze and pills

booze and pills

Posted by JdDark on Oct-06-2002 16:21:

You mend a heart with tape and love or let it heal on it's own.. or don't get into those positions and don't get it broken at all.

Posted by Illusion on Oct-06-2002 16:32:

quote:
Originally posted by JdDark
or don't get into those positions and don't get it broken at all.

You havn't lived till you've loved.

And there's no such thing as love without hurt.

Posted by musicaddict on Oct-06-2002 17:52:

I know how you feeling right now djcapshaw. I didn't break up with my girlfriend or anything but yeah...I told a girl how I felt about her and what did I get for answer? "I only see you as a friend. Nothing more." That really made me sad and I still am right now but I know that I can't force her to like me. I dont want to anyways, whats love if its bein forced..anyways, sorry about the jabbering but just give it time...time is the answer here..

Posted by nekholm on Oct-06-2002 19:08:

by getting durnk

Posted by JdDark on Oct-06-2002 21:32:

quote:
Originally posted by Illusion

You havn't lived till you've loved.

And there's no such thing as love without hurt.

YEs there is..

i have been in love and have not ever in my life have had a broken heart.

Posted by TrAZ on Oct-06-2002 22:08:

obviously it wasnt relationship with sex involved and feelings.

Thats when it takes the toll. I hate it!

Posted by BaBiDuCKiE on Oct-07-2002 07:26:

*shrug*

Maybe you should tell him how you feel. Either that or just cut off all communication with him till you can deal. Postpone the drama until you're ready.

Posted by Trance-Canada on Oct-07-2002 07:59:

Yeah... I've noticed alot of... "oh... alcahol solves everything"...or..."booze pills, booze pills.." Well that dosent work for everyone... and I dont think she wants to do something your addicted to either

Posted by Trance-Canada on Oct-07-2002 08:00:

quote:
Originally posted by Illusion

You havn't lived till you've loved.

And there's no such thing as love without hurt.

Illusion is someone who know's what they are talking about. Everything has agood side and a bad side... In the end you'll have to feel them both.

Posted by Rostros on Oct-07-2002 12:07:

get over it sexy , ive had to many broken hearts , but they are always fixed after time .