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Posted by pnuemo on Nov-01-2002 16:34:

help people... ;(

i need help... i've known this girl for 3 years now... we've been good friends... and she dated one of my friends for like a year and a half... they broke up and what not... and she straight told me one day, that she would be with me, except for my friend (her ex). i was like, fuck that.... well, it's been almost a year since that, and i dont see much of her now, but i really do love this girl... i just dont want to ruin anything... because when we do hang out... its fun as hell... any suggestions for my WEAK ass?

Posted by jp on Nov-01-2002 16:38:

Let love shine in your heart

Posted by Fir3start3r on Nov-01-2002 16:48:

Exactly...weak.
Go for it.
If your friend has a problem with it, I suggest he move on with his life and get his own.
Getting jelious about an old gf is just emotional immaturity on his part.

Posted by pnuemo on Nov-01-2002 16:52:

i dotn care at all about my 'friend'... i want nothign to do with him... he's not a friend anymore... so i dont care about that...i've had this go bad before... i get into that 'friend' zone... and i'm fucked...

Posted by pnuemo on Nov-01-2002 16:52:

and firestarter... you dont need to kick me while im done...i know im weak, you dont have to reitterate...

Posted by Fir3start3r on Nov-01-2002 17:47:

quote:
Originally posted by pnuemo
and firestarter... you dont need to kick me while im done...i know im weak, you dont have to reitterate...

So what's the problem?
Go for it...

Posted by MisterOpus1 on Nov-01-2002 17:57:

Kinda reminds me how I snagged my wife, except her X was not a friend of mine whatsoever (and pretty damn looney in his own sense). Life is about taking chances. You never know what might happen. You just might grab the woman of your dreams. I was fortunate enough to have this happen to me, and I regret nothing about chances being taken like that. She is my everything...

Then again, you might get kicked in the nuts. So wear a cup.

Posted by pnuemo on Nov-01-2002 18:28:

good call... but see, i've been burned like this before... i know i wont find out unless i try...

quote:
Then again, you might get kicked in the nuts. So wear a cup.

thanks for that... needed a laugh...

Posted by Rhythm on Nov-02-2002 06:00:

Hey Pnuemo,
I've been in the same exact situation, and I didn't make my move. I regreted it, but now I'm over it. But I am still left wondering if I had made the move if it would have worked. I now have determined if I am in that position again, I will make the move. You can only hold back your love for so long dude, and you don't want to wait till it's too late and you are forever marked as just "a friend" (as girls tend to do with guys). Hope this helps.

Posted by Essential1 on Nov-02-2002 07:09:

I'll qoute myself on this, as I live by this qoute:

quote:
It's better to regret doing something than it is to regret not doing it.

Just tell her how you feel, but make it clear that even if she doesn't feel the same way you want to keep what u guys have. U talk about her like she's a really sweet girl, so I don't think you would have to worry about rejection or loss of a friend.

Posted by Phu on Nov-02-2002 09:08:

Just do it and go for it.

Posted by JM on Nov-02-2002 09:30:

It's better to regret doing something than it is to regret not doing it.

this ^^ one is good!

>JM<

Posted by pnuemo on Nov-02-2002 16:52:

well, you guys rock.... thank you all for the input... and i will go for it... thanks for all the advice...

Posted by Essential1 on Nov-03-2002 00:27:

let us know how it goes.