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Posted by Sexyfairy on Jan-19-2003 23:09:

Guys this one is for you!!

Heres the question....Why is it such a no no to show ur feelings to a girl???? Thats what i wanna know!!!

Posted by Munken on Jan-19-2003 23:12:

because pricks like me make fun of their friends if they tell a girl they love her.

Posted by malek on Jan-19-2003 23:15:

it depends on how old is a guy... but usually, showing our feelings is reserved at people we really realy love/trust. Otherwise, it would make us look weak if we showed our feelings to anyone.

Posted by whiskers on Jan-19-2003 23:15:

dunno, it probably has something to do with self-image. guys are supposed to be masculine and control their emotions? BULLCRAP, i say.

Posted by tu_face on Jan-19-2003 23:19:

quote:
Heres the question....Why is it such a no no to show ur feelings to a girl???? Thats what i wanna know!!!

it isnt not 4 me neways..

Posted by DJ Sarah H on Jan-19-2003 23:22:

i don't hide my emotions as such, i will admit i tend to gloss over it if i am angry or upset, i don't like her knowing when i am upset or sad, cos i don't want her to be upset or sad.
I want her to be happy as much as poss

and Wlcked Red, if u read this, I Love You Baby xox xox

Posted by whiskers on Jan-19-2003 23:34:

quote:
Originally posted by Wicked Neo

xox xox

^^^ LOL!!!

Posted by Trancewave on Jan-19-2003 23:38:

excuse me while I puke....

Posted by Spyder on Jan-19-2003 23:40:

quote:
Originally posted by Wicked Neo

i don't hide my emotions as such, i will admit i tend to gloss over it if i am angry or upset, i don't like her knowing when i am upset or sad, cos i don't want her to be upset or sad.
I want her to be happy as much as poss

and Wlcked Red, if u read this, I Love You Baby xox xox

quote:
Originally posted by tu_face
it isnt not 4 me neways..

Ya but u guys have GF's sot hats eazy..

wot i think fairy is trying to say is.. guys who are still just on a friend level.. they are shy about letting out their emotions to the girls they like..

Posted by jon on Jan-19-2003 23:46:

well i tend to keep the majority of my fealings and emotions to myself, i just dont want other people to know what imm fealing

Posted by davinox on Jan-19-2003 23:46:

Either...they're too shy.
Or they just hide their emotions to be macho/tough/cool, whatever.

Posted by Dmatrox on Jan-19-2003 23:48:

We like to play it cool

Posted by Eugene on Jan-19-2003 23:55:

Because it's not socially appropriate for guys to be overly expressive, whereas it is socially appropriate for girls -- indeed expected of them -- to be that way. That's part of the social fiber of our lives.

Wanna hear something interesting?
Many psychologists believe that the reason why it's thought that men have a "higher sex drive" (which of course is stupid, both sexes have the same drive) is because men feel socially safe express their emotions only during sex.

Also, sexyfairy... when you say "emotions", what kinds of emotions are you talking about? Sadness/tears? Love? Anger? Anger is not an emotion that we feel compelled to hide...

Posted by Spad on Jan-20-2003 00:00:

I don't think it's a no no. I think I'm pretty open with my feelings, maybe too open

Posted by KoreanDJ on Jan-20-2003 00:29:

quote:
Heres the question....Why is it such a no no to show ur feelings to a girl???? Thats what i wanna know!!!

Maybe the girl already has someone else in her mind and don't want to make things complicated by knowing your feelings towards her?

Stevek

Posted by Chuck Norris on Jan-20-2003 00:58:

Well... fuck... if 'this girl' likes 'this guy' why does she wait until he says something? It's about time she did the hard part

Posted by Endlesswave on Jan-20-2003 03:15:

Ok well I don't think it's shyness that stops a guy from showing his emotions/feelings to a girl (ie sensetive side?). For me anyway it's mostly whenever I did do that in the past it tended to freak the girl out. Being too emotional and opening up to a girl too much too fast was what did it. I mean I don't do it as much anymore but it's hard though sometimes.

Posted by Psy-Trancer on Jan-20-2003 03:37:

www.askmen.com...read some stuff there...you'll get your answers...some atleast

Posted by Essential1 on Jan-20-2003 05:54:

quote:
Originally posted by Julie_Spyder
Ya but u guys have GF's sot hats eazy..

wot i think fairy is trying to say is.. guys who are still just on a friend level.. they are shy about letting out their emotions to the girls they like..

confidence plays a big role in this. If i'm not confident that the emotions will be returned to me, I keep my mouth shut. But then again, that's probaly why i'm single.

Posted by Lira on Jan-20-2003 06:26:

quote:
Originally posted by Julie_Spyder
Ya but u guys have GF's sot hats eazy..

wot i think fairy is trying to say is.. guys who are still just on a friend level.. they are shy about letting out their emotions to the girls they like..

Nope, it's not just shyness.

Last year, I met a wonderful girl. Many many things happened between us and one day, she said she loved me. Every girl to whom I had said "I love you" in the past got hurt and I didn't want it to happen again... ironically, not being able to say it that time hurt her as well after all.

There are many reasons why a bloke might hide his feelings. If you get to know the person, you'll probably find out the reason. There's no such thing as a "general answer"

Posted by PatMcGroin on Jan-20-2003 06:30:

my emotions always get the better of me. it sucks

Posted by Sirocco on Jan-20-2003 06:40:

quote:
Originally posted by PatMcGroin
my emotions always get the better of me. it sucks

yeh...like when emerge is dropped

Posted by goldenarm79 on Jan-20-2003 08:18:

Sometimes its a good thing to honestly express your emotions, and other times its not. Use your own discretion as to how you do things, along the guidelines etc.

"Ultimately to me, Martial Arts, means, honestly expressing yourself, when you pour water into a cup it becomes the cup when you pour water into a teapot it becomes the teapot, water can flow or it can crash, be like water my friend and just keep on flowing." -Bruce Lee(1940-1973)
I hope that makes some sense but i thought it would be helpful.

Posted by shark on Jan-20-2003 09:16:

According to most of my ex's I don't have any emotions.
I am an incensitive bastard.
But we can't all be the same.

Posted by Furel on Jan-20-2003 11:28:

Sometimes I hide my feelings cause I think the time is not right to show them... By exposing myself, I feel Im vulnerable and I get affraid of being hurt... So I just wait tillI feel secure about exposing myself...

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