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wat does it mean if your ex still worries about u?

Its been long since we broke up..almost a year and a half now..and we haven't been talking to each other for quite awhile...and i still have the same feelings for her when we first got together..well recently i was in a mad depression because of all this shit and stress i was going thru and my ex calls me up and asks me if im ok and stuff..and then she tells me..u konw i still worry about u ...i dont know why...anyways i gotta go ..and she hangs up..what does this mean?

i dont think she still likes me cause she had a past BF in the past 1.5 years we have been apart and has seen lots of other guys..need your guys opinions? thx

it means u affected her life for the better somehow and shell always remember u and care for u. doesnt necceserily mean she wants to get back with you or has the same feelings she once had for u ..

ill tell u one thing though .. theres a good chance u can hit it again though .. every time my ex calls me and says something like that i end up smashing that ass with in the week .. and my ex girlfriend hates me.

i would think that she still has feelings for you...

she's been going through so many guys these past 1.5 years, because she is trying to find that one person to replace you but she does not seem to be able to find that person... because that one person is you!!!

i say, call her up, then tell her how you feel... see if she feels the same way...

I think you should go back and talk to her, because you already had something going on before; unfortunately you lost that... but through a little bit of work I believe you can rebuild your relationship into a strong one and maybe get remarried soemday??

Go for her tiger!! Rawwwrrr...

ewww... your ex has been around with that many guys and you still want to get back with her?

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Originally posted by ahlamalek ewww... your ex has been around with that many guys and you still want to get back with her?

...my thoughts exactly...

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Originally posted by stk Its been long since we broke up..almost a year and a half now..and we haven't been talking to each other for quite awhile...and i still have the same feelings for her when we first got together..well recently i was in a mad depression because of all this shit and stress i was going thru and my ex calls me up and asks me if im ok and stuff..and then she tells me..u konw i still worry about u ...i dont know why...anyways i gotta go ..and she hangs up..what does this mean? i dont think she still likes me cause she had a past BF in the past 1.5 years we have been apart and has seen lots of other guys..need your guys opinions? thx

the way i see it, if you fell in love with her, there is no way you will not love her. it is just your feelings for her, you will forget about them, they will be buried deep in your mind, but tend to resurface in events like this or if you see her and shit, but it goes away. but always comes back, thats from my own personal experience, does anyone else get this. for me i see her and think about them for like a week or shorter, then forget it, then i see her again and it happens again. the feels are never lost, only subconciously hidden.

If it didnt work the first time, chances are that it wont work a second time. You broke up for a reason, remember that. If your still close, try to stay friends with her, but avoid a relationship. Thats just my take on it. I have had some bad expierences in this department. I'll never take an ex back again.

just tap that ass again and move on

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Originally posted by Ekstasis If it didnt work the first time, chances are that it wont work a second time. You broke up for a reason, remember that. If your still close, try to stay friends with her, but avoid a relationship. Thats just my take on it. I have had some bad expierences in this department. I'll never take an ex back again.

well said.

what is it that you really want anyway?

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ewww... your ex has been around with that many guys and you still want to get back with her?

?

he didnt even say how many people constitutes "lots of other guys". even so, had our friend stk talked about the many women hes potentially dated/fucked since her, you all would probably be virtually giving him a high five and congratulating him. god forbid a woman move on as well and have a healthy dating/sex life after a breakup a year and a half ago. are you able to keep your dick in your pants that long/by choice?

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ill tell u one thing though .. theres a good chance u can hit it again though .. every time my ex calls me and says something like that i end up smashing that ass with in the week .. and my ex girlfriend hates me.

well then. arent you a charmer. im getting an overwhelming desire to tear off your clothes and have sex with you right now!

regardless, i wouldnt read so much into it, stk. just because someone says they care about you, doesnt always imply that they want you back or that they are in love with you. if i found out an ex boyfriend of mine was really depressed and having serious issues, i would probably give him a call and say a similar thing, and let him know i was there for him if he needed me. not because i want him back, but because hes a human being, and so am i, and especially if you date someone, there will always be that element of a friendship there. so, i would want to be there as a friend.

so yea. i wouldnt be quick to jump to conclusions that she wants you again. in addition, i agree with what a few people have said about how it ended once, so you should move on and find a new person. it did end for a reason, you should learn from the situation and not look back.

It means your both unstable. Get a prescription.

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Originally posted by sothis quote: ill tell u one thing though .. theres a good chance u can hit it again though .. every time my ex calls me and says something like that i end up smashing that ass with in the week .. and my ex girlfriend hates me. well then. arent you a charmer. im getting an overwhelming desire to tear off your clothes and have sex with you right now!

eh... i can understnad how an ex who isn't interested in getting back into the relationship would be less than hesitant about getting some ass. i mean really, it's a lot easier than going out and finding some random person to fuck. people have physical needs to satisfy, you know.

Chillout room definetly needs a sub-section for love advice me thinks

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Originally posted by tranceDJ Chillout room definetly needs a sub-section for love advice me thinks

maybe it'll pass. maybe everyone is depressed cause it is winter.
or something.

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Originally posted by butterfly maybe it'll pass. maybe everyone is depressed cause it is winter. or something.

im not depressed .. i love the winter .. skiing, sitting by the fire place at night, hot chocotale (with a lot of Vandermint added), laying in a warm bed with a girl watching the snow fall .. winter is way more romantic then summer.

summer = gross sweaty sex and smelly sweaty people

if ur cold in the winter, u can always put on more clothes and get warmer, but if u hot in the summer...ur f*cked .. cant get nude .. well at least not in Jersey.

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Originally posted by kirbtastic im not depressed .. i love the winter .. skiing, sitting by the fire place at night, hot chocotale (with a lot of Vandermint added), laying in a warm bed with a girl watching the snow fall .. winter is way more romantic then summer. summer = gross sweaty sex and smelly sweaty people if ur cold in the winter, u can always put on more clothes and get warmer, but if u hot in the summer...ur f*cked .. cant get nude .. well at least not in Jersey.

sex is always sweaty and requires showering for me. i'd prefer to do it in the summer when my feet don't get cold.

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Originally posted by sothis regardless, i wouldnt read so much into it, stk. just because someone says they care about you, doesnt always imply that they want you back or that they are in love with you. if i found out an ex boyfriend of mine was really depressed and having serious issues, i would probably give him a call and say a similar thing, and let him know i was there for him if he needed me. not because i want him back, but because hes a human being, and so am i, and especially if you date someone, there will always be that element of a friendship there. so, i would want to be there as a friend. so yea. i wouldnt be quick to jump to conclusions that she wants you again. in addition, i agree with what a few people have said about how it ended once, so you should move on and find a new person. it did end for a reason, you should learn from the situation and not look back.

Well said!

She phoned you up because she still cares about you, but it doesn't mean she wants to restart things. You say it was the original breakup that contributed to your depression, going there again would be a bad idea, at least until you're fully recovered.

I've been in a similar situation, and I later found out that she was just "worried" because she thought the depression was her fault (which it wasn't) and didn't want that on her mind. So it could be the same situation with u. Personally, I have NEVER stayed friends with exes after break-ups. Less of a chance of getting back together with her means less of a chance of one of us getting hurt.

If you get back with her you will probably have feelings for her for a week or two and will remember why you two broke up in the first place. Right now your just feeling that you want to feel like how it was when you were with her before but once you do get that feeling back you take it for granted and lose feelings all over. I was in the same situation and after a few weeks it just wasnt there anymore. I mean you already know everything about her... the fun of getting to know about a new girl is not there anymore, you already tapped that ass... it will feel good for a few weeks because you havent hit it in awhile but you start to relize you had it before and other guys had it before so its not that special no more. Basically if the girl is not 1 of a kind and a REALLY good gf, getting back with your exes really dont work out. I mean you broke up with them for a reason.

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Originally posted by kirbtastic ill tell u one thing though .. theres a good chance u can hit it again though .. every time my ex calls me and says something like that i end up smashing that ass with in the week .. and my ex girlfriend hates me.

absolutely nothing. you can relax now

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Originally posted by kirbtastic ill tell u one thing though .. theres a good chance u can hit it again though .. every time my ex calls me and says something like that i end up smashing that ass with in the week .. and my ex girlfriend hates me.

rotfl.. that sounds soo 'nice'! hahahah

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Originally posted by kirbtastic .. every time my ex calls me and says something like that i end up smashing that ass with in the week .. and my ex girlfriend hates me.

'Smashing that ass' is my new all-time favorite phrase for hooking up.

'Housing' used to be tops on the list.

LMAO.

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Originally posted by RedLunatik just tap that ass again and move on

No comment... you said it all!

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Originally posted by butterfly sex is always sweaty and requires showering for me. i'd prefer to do it in the summer when my feet don't get cold.

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Originally posted by uwmadtrance 'Smashing that ass' is my new all-time favorite phrase for hooking up. 'Housing' used to be tops on the list. LMAO.

lol .. "housing" is sooooooooooooooo 2002

smashing is it for 2003. just dont let the ladies hear u say it, especially the lady u just finished smashing...i have found out they really do not like the term at all. also dont try to get them to say "oooooh (insert your name here), i love it when u smash my ass" . it ends the love making process ubruptly and causes very bad stares.

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