interesting night, one for the ladies to give advice on id say,

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Posted by SoulSupply on Mar-22-2003 11:42:

interesting night, one for the ladies to give advice on id say,

well, last night i went to the theatre with a very good friend of mine, nothing big, her sister and 2 of her sisters friends went as well, and it was a really good night. then i went back to her place and we were sitting on the couch and i asked her to my graduation dance (which i had planned to do) but also i kinda asked her out (which i hadnt planned to do), totally expecting to get the usuall "i dont want to risk the friendship" speech, i was really taken aback when she said she liked me too, but there was a problem that she thought one of her really good friends, who i have a bit of a history with (nothing ever happened between us, but i liked her for ages and she messed with my head a little), she thought she had started to like me a little. the question is, is that just an excuse or is she being genuine? later when i was leaving we kissed and it was really nice! but i cant help but feeling shes just being too nice to say no.
end of rant.
ladies (and fellas), wot do u make of it?

Posted by Rememberence_ on Mar-23-2003 01:17:

It's hard to say from what you've told us mate... but it seems like a weak excuse (as in, sounds like it isn't an excuse), especially after she's said she likes you. I say forget about her friend who has, after all, messed with your head. You like each other, give it a shot. Good luck to you both.

Posted by JudgeJulez on Mar-23-2003 01:19:

springtime's here, and love is in the air....ahhhhhh

Posted by KaPs on Mar-23-2003 01:32:

i don't kiss people just cause i feel sorry for them

Posted by Lira on Mar-23-2003 01:37:

quote:
Originally posted by KaPs
i don't kiss people just cause i feel sorry for them

This is a good point... what's your doubt, mate? She's said (and showed) everything you needed to know... it's up to you now Show her that she's more important to you than whatever happened in the past with any of her friends

Posted by Paula on Mar-23-2003 02:31:

It's really not that complicated. You're not currently "involved" with her friend, correct? Well if you aren't proceed with the girl (the one that kissed you) thats there. There is absolutely NO point in hanging on to the past if there's nothing there.
Make sense? Don;t waste more time , more of your life, worrying about little things like that.
~~Paula~~

Posted by RedLunatik on Mar-23-2003 02:53:

and they called it puppy love

Posted by Endlesswave on Mar-23-2003 02:57:

I say you go with the girl you revealed your feelings to and one you kissed. The other girl messed w your head (doesn't matter if she MAY like you or not, she had the chance but messed it up). Stick with how things are. Goodluck!

Posted by LKD on Mar-23-2003 03:07:

man this is as easy as counthing the digits on ur hand

so girl#1 u ask out says she likes u...she wouldnt have said that if she didnt and was gonna makeup that other thing about her friend (girl #2)

now #1 mightve jsut been concerned because #2 and her may soon drift apart with u being involved with #1...

a policy as u already know among guys is never to date an ex gf or ex crush of a friend of urs..i dunno if thats the case with girls but if #2 messed with ur head and nothing ever happened, fuck it..go for #1..shes being honest with u....especially if she kissed u..

Posted by Prototrance on Mar-23-2003 04:10:

quote:
Originally posted by DJ El Kay Dee
man this is as easy as counthing the digits on ur hand

so girl#1 u ask out says she likes u...she wouldnt have said that if she didnt and was gonna makeup that other thing about her friend (girl #2)

now #1 mightve jsut been concerned because #2 and her may soon drift apart with u being involved with #1...

a policy as u already know among guys is never to date an ex gf or ex crush of a friend of urs..i dunno if thats the case with girls but if #2 messed with ur head and nothing ever happened, fuck it..go for #1..shes being honest with u....especially if she kissed u..

Check out the relationship doctor.

Posted by LKD on Mar-23-2003 04:34:

quote:
Originally posted by Prototrance
Check out the relationship doctor.

hey..im just doin the internship right now....get the PHD in a few years

Posted by bassaholix on Mar-23-2003 06:33:

Ahh easy man.. u like the 1st girl.. for her ... she's the one that you kinda liked.. and besides... you asked her not that other chick!

Hell if you kissed then whats the problem.. i bet you she is thinking about it right now...

Posted by Rememberence_ on Mar-23-2003 07:09:

thinking about getting some cock in her slot that is

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Posted by StereoPrincess on Mar-24-2003 01:17:

quote:
Originally posted by DJ El Kay Dee
a policy as u already know among guys is never to date an ex gf or ex crush of a friend of urs..i dunno if thats the case with girls but if #2 messed with ur head and nothing ever happened, fuck it..go for #1..shes being honest with u....especially if she kissed u..

Yes, its the same with girls.

If she was using an excuse then she would have used the "I don't want to ruin the friendship" excuse for I don't like you that way. But she actually said she liked ya and then gave you this story so I don't think she is making it up.
pretty much its her decision to make. So it seems like you are going to have to wait and see if she wants to lose her friend (the other girl) or just stay away from you.

Posted by JM on Mar-24-2003 11:25:

dont think too much about it. play with the attitude that you dont care either way, while staying respectful. see how that goes. too many times ive seen (and sometimes experienced) girls giving the cold shoulder once they found out they (and I) were way interested...

so like i said, play it cool, dont expect anything...let it go naturally

>JM<

Posted by Mikrop on Mar-24-2003 19:09:

DUDE... your in!!! Headfucks are not worth worrying about so much that they hold you back...

On a lighter note...

From a chick at work to me:

quote:

... I'm single, I have a 16 month old baby and I don't do relationships. How does that sound?

Only prob is I work with her...