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Posted by brainfried on Apr-02-2003 19:01:

Love Poundin' Sensation LOVE! Is it worth the risk?

What do you guys/girls think? is falling in love worth the risk of getting heart broken and completly destroyed? It feels soooooo good but then it can feel so bad.


Posted by tu_face on Apr-02-2003 19:10:

yes.

simple, but true


Posted by sooper on Apr-02-2003 19:11:

Re: LOVE! Is it worth the risk?

quote:
Originally posted by brainfried
What do you guys/girls think? is falling in love worth the risk of getting heart broken and completly destroyed? It feels soooooo good but then it can feel so bad.


Good question!

In my opinion its worth the risk.

I see it like this:
I'm Lactose Intolerant - but I LOVE my cheese.
Eating cheese for me is being in love.
But eating cheese means inevitable diarhea (like a broken heart after love).
Nonetheless, the joy of eating cheese surpasses the torment of liquid poop squirts.

But then one day, you marry cheese, and have dairy children, and the diarhea is gone forever, but your kids grow moldy.

Love is really just that simple.


Posted by tu_face on Apr-02-2003 19:17:

Re: Re: LOVE! Is it worth the risk?

quote:
Originally posted by sooper
Good question!

In my opinion its worth the risk.

I see it like this:
I'm Lactose Intolerant - but I LOVE my cheese.
Eating cheese for me is being in love.
But eating cheese means inevitable diarhea (like a broken heart after love).
Nonetheless, the joy of eating cheese surpasses the torment of liquid poop squirts.

But then one day, you marry cheese, and have dairy children, and the diarhea is gone forever, but your kids grow moldy.

Love is really just that simple.


lmao

well, better than i put it anyway..


Posted by Shudder on Apr-02-2003 19:19:

Re: Re: LOVE! Is it worth the risk?

quote:
Originally posted by sooper

I see it like this:
I'm Lactose Intolerant - but I LOVE my cheese.
Eating cheese for me is being in love.
But eating cheese means inevitable diarhea (like a broken heart after love).
Nonetheless, the joy of eating cheese surpasses the torment of liquid poop squirts.

But then one day, you marry cheese, and have dairy children, and the diarhea is gone forever, but your kids grow moldy.

Love is really just that simple.


can't explain it better


Posted by butterfly on Apr-02-2003 19:27:

i have been asking myself that everyday. i am in one of the most hopeless depressions i have ever been in right now and it is over this very topic. i fell in love for the first time only to not recieve it in return. that hurt more than anything i could ever have imagined but at the same time it felt so amazing to be able to love someone else and to open up to him completely. even though i am in horrible pain now i am glad i know what it feels like to love because it makes life so much more wonderful. and then i get depressed cause i don't have it in my life..... *sigh*


Posted by sooper on Apr-02-2003 19:33:

quote:
Originally posted by butterfly
i have been asking myself that everyday. i am in one of the most hopeless depressions i have ever been in right now and it is over this very topic. i fell in love for the first time only to not recieve it in return. that hurt more than anything i could ever have imagined but at the same time it felt so amazing to be able to love someone else and to open up to him completely. even though i am in horrible pain now i am glad i know what it feels like to love because it makes life so much more wonderful. and then i get depressed cause i don't have it in my life..... *sigh*


Time is the healer - its the biggest truth, although in your situation it maybe the hardest thing to believe. Look forward to loving again!

In the mean time, enjoy lots of internet porn.


Posted by brainfried on Apr-02-2003 19:35:

quote:
Originally posted by butterfly
i have been asking myself that everyday. i am in one of the most hopeless depressions i have ever been in right now and it is over this very topic. i fell in love for the first time only to not recieve it in return. that hurt more than anything i could ever have imagined but at the same time it felt so amazing to be able to love someone else and to open up to him completely. even though i am in horrible pain now i am glad i know what it feels like to love because it makes life so much more wonderful. and then i get depressed cause i don't have it in my life..... *sigh*


Thats exactly what happened to me and i guess now im able to finnalu talk about it. But i know how you feel i really did go fucking crazy, it still comes back sometimes but i guess time really is a healer. Hope you feel better.

Still dont know if id ever let myself into that again, but life does seem kind of empty without love


Posted by butterfly on Apr-02-2003 19:36:

quote:
Originally posted by sooper
Time is the healer - its the biggest truth, although in your situation it maybe the hardest thing to believe. Look forward to loving again!

In the mean time, enjoy lots of internet porn.


who needs internet porn when i have my vibrator? (although it broke )

but anyway... yeah i know about time and yeah it is hard to beleive. you'd think after a month that i wouldn't break into tears this easily.... but i can't possbily be this way forever so i can only look forward to the future.


Posted by Magnus on Apr-02-2003 19:39:

Its definitely worth the risk. Yes when things don't work out, the pain is without a doubt the worst thing one can ever know. Its like dying slowly while still alive. I've been there several times in the past and no amount of comfort from friends or family will help you. You are sick and the only known cure is the one you lost.

But life goes on and you live another day to try to find love again. After going through what I explained above several times, I once again took a chance again with a girl I met. That was 8 years ago and that girl turned out not only to be the girl of my dreams, but eventually my wife. We are not meant to go through this life alone. I say go for it.


Posted by Endlesswave on Apr-02-2003 19:39:

quote:
Originally posted by brainfried
Still dont know if id ever let myself into that again, but life does seem kind of empty without love



Exactly. I'm a little reluctant to develop feelings like that for ANYBODY unless I know and am fairly certain things will work out...that is why I think love sucks ass imo because it has never worked out for me. Ever.


Posted by Sugarbean on Apr-03-2003 04:30:

quote:
Originally posted by Endlesswave

I think love sucks ass imo because it has never worked out for me. Ever.


me too...

not worth it.


Posted by Sugarbean on Apr-03-2003 04:31:

lol i come back to see someone has changed my sig....

*stares at lynx*


lol


Posted by raverchikadee on Apr-03-2003 04:40:

falling in love is def worth it. But what sucks is when that other person doesnt love you the same. thats normally what my problem is. They "love" me and then become occupied with something else like cars, friends, or money. And i end up heartbroken. But that time of "love" is the best time. Would i do it again.. most certainly!


Posted by Psygnosis on Apr-03-2003 04:46:

quote:
Originally posted by butterfly
who needs internet porn when i have my vibrator? (although it broke )




LOL


Posted by DCaff on Apr-03-2003 05:47:

i look at it this way, you learn from it. so the next time you fall in love your a bigger person than you were in the last relationship. so you know what to do or not to do in the new one. Learn from it.


Posted by TranceSeeker on Apr-03-2003 11:11:

quote:
Originally posted by DCaff
i look at it this way, you learn from it. so the next time you fall in love your a bigger person than you were in the last relationship. so you know what to do or not to do in the new one. Learn from it.


True man!


Posted by George Kendall on Apr-03-2003 13:06:

Yeah its worth it


Posted by icedale on Apr-03-2003 13:27:

Shame / Disagreement

Can you restrain youself from falling in love? I'm not sure whether I can(*). And why try to avoid it? Why miss all that great feeling? I know it hurts really bad when things don't go well e.t.c. But, you'll try to get over it. I haven't yet though. I don't think I've tried though. But, that's another case

(*)You know when you feel it
You know when it hits you
There's no mistake when you fall
You don't anticipate it
You can calculate it
It just comes crashing through your walls


Posted by FastFashion on Apr-03-2003 14:13:

Love is in the air RE: LOVE! Is it worth the risk?

Being UNDOUBTFULLY in love is the best thing in the world! Especially when you can share your life with that "someone". Sharing differences, experiences, and all the time you have to get to learn and know from eachother makes a relationship grow so healthy. It's awesome. You never sit down and have a doubt in your mind about the relationship. It's all about moving to the next level WITH that person. A lot of you may not understand that yet, but like myself, you will learn as you mature what it is to really be in love.


Posted by JohnSmith on Apr-03-2003 14:51:

quote:
Originally posted by X-Multiply
Its definitely worth the risk. Yes when things don't work out, the pain is without a doubt the worst thing one can ever know. Its like dying slowly while still alive. I've been there several times in the past and no amount of comfort from friends or family will help you. You are sick and the only known cure is the one you lost.

But life goes on and you live another day to try to find love again. After going through what I explained above several times, I once again took a chance again with a girl I met. That was 8 years ago and that girl turned out not only to be the girl of my dreams, but eventually my wife. We are not meant to go through this life alone. I say go for it.


Couldn't have said it better myself. I have almost the same situation, we've been together 7 years, and we are getting married on our 8th anniversary. it IS worth it people.


Posted by biznology on Apr-03-2003 15:35:

quote:
Originally posted by icedale
...

You know when you feel it
You know when it hits you
There's no mistake when you fall
You don't anticipate it
You can calculate it
It just comes crashing through your walls


are we talking about drugs or love here?


haha. sky falls drugs *could* be about love.

hey sugah, maybe youre in love with the master of your sig!? maybe not.

i think people place too much of an emphasis on love. not that its not important - everyone should experience it. but i dont think that you should be trying to avoid it to avoid getting hurt...what happens ten years from now when the pain from the avoidance overcomes any pain from getting dumped?!

jump off that cliff, take a chance. if it was never meant to be you wouldnt be wondering about 'the chance' in the first place. girls dont usually let you get that far|


Posted by Rememberence_ on Apr-03-2003 15:58:

/me jumps off a cliff

*weeeeeeee!!*




hey come to think of it bizz, Sky Falls Down *could* be about drugs lol... I have always sung the lyrics and thought about lurve. I think I'll continue to do so too, singing about drugs in such a beautiful production would just clash for me.

It makes you float through clouds and...
It makes you smile at strangers [I love that line... *sniff*]
It's just the greatest state of beingggg... oooooh ohhh!




PS: love is worth the risk, living is worth the risk.. live life, you only get one!


Posted by SynRG888 on Apr-03-2003 16:03:

quote:
Originally posted by biznology
are we talking about drugs or love here?


lol u took the words right out of my mouth...

being in love is like naturally rolling all the time... but having your heart broken is like the worst comedown ever times 1 billion... and it lasts a long, long time...

as far as I go.. i don't got time for that shit anymore.. career and partying with my friends takes up all my time... and you know what.. I dun think at this point I could be any happier


Posted by Rhythm on Apr-03-2003 16:08:

quote:
Originally posted by brainfried
Still dont know if id ever let myself into that again, but life does seem kind of empty without love


Everyone can learn to love again once time has eased your suffering. You will both fall in love again.


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