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Do I shag this bird?
It means exactly what it says on the thread title 
Ive known this girl for years, we used to see each other everyday during school, and she always had a soft spot for me, which i knew, but nothing ever happened from it. Shes a good girl at heart, but has more than had and done her stupid things, tbh, shes one of these girls with "trouble" wrote on their head. She went out with my mate for about a year (they dont see each other any more and i dont think he'd care if i shagged her and he doesnt like her anyway anymore (not even as friends)). the stupid things include saying she's pregant when she isnt, saying shes engaged when she aint. she told us all she was engaged to mr x, so we went to mr x and said something and he was like "wtf?????". shes more than capable of milking a situation and stirring shit.
so my situation is this, she wants to shag me but do i? shes not bad looking tbh, but i dont mind the shagging part, but its if she comes back after saying "ooo i love u and i really like u and wana be with u", "that shag ment nothing did it?" - which i really cant be arsed with, esp with her.
so my options are these
a) make sure its a one night stand no strings attached 'fun' on both behalves.
b) we do have sex, was ment to be nothing more but she comes back harrasing me like i did to az for his tranceairwavews mix 
c) cut my loss's and dont even go there.
if we do and she comes back going mad i can always give her the cold shoulder, sounds harsh but i dont want to go out with her, but i do like her as a friend. can 'friends' have sex without it all going tits up? i dont want a relationship, but wouldnt mind fooling around with her, aslong as she thinks the same.
opinions plz
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