I met a girl at a party 1 year and a half ago,she was beyond perfect,she was,i thoguht,the one.Over the last year ive been trying to have a relationship with this girl but all she wants to to is get horny with me at partys and stuff.
Last weekend i was at a party with her and she said she was ready to give me everything she had,she was ready for a commitment.I was the happyest boy in the world for a week,until she phoned me earlier and said she didnt want me anymore.
I no longer have any will to live and breathe,and i just cant think right,i dont know what to do.

Please, don't blame yourself, Transa. Its obvious that she has some issues. Don't be so sad. Maybe its for the best.

I just cant see which part of me not being with the girl i think i love is for the best.

Dang! is today bad news days? (sorry I'm terribly depressed today) sorry to hear that transa, is there something we can do? I mean what's happening these days?

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So damn Happy!

That sucks, happened to me too and you never forget somebody like that. But there nothing that can be said, you know it's not your fault and there's nothing that can be done.

Just remind yourself that you would have ended up just as miserable if you'd stayed together eventually, because she wouldn't have been putting 100% into it.

Sorry to hear it anyway, the important thing now is to keep some dignity. Don't pester her or show her how hurt you are (tough but true). She'll respect you all the more for it. If you are supposed to be together then you will be, she'll see sense eventually.

I think the lesson here is one I learned long, long ago; most girls are bitches (excluding all the ones on the forum of course) Unfortunatly I'm not gay either, which causes a bit of a problem...

transa, u need to get out more, or just get some more self respect

u'll come across many, many extremely beautiful chix in life, so does that mean u're gonna fall in love with every_fuckin_one of them...hell no...i bet that after discovering many of their true colors, u wont even find them that attractive any more...

but hey...if u do find one that has the looks along with the character, dont forget to ask if she has a twin sister

just my 2 cents...

peace

You're getting some great advice here from people that want to be your friends.

You just need to figure things out for yourself first, before you try to find out what happen from her. You need to find out truely in you heart why you are in love with her. You need to step away from the relationship and look at it from a different viewpoint.

Love is the most blinding feelings people every experience. It has its good parts and its bad parts. Remember that when you are in love you are oblivious to everything else but love.

Just take some time off with yourself and some friends and you will see things in a different light. It makes a big difference to look at your life once in awhile from your friends perspective or from another angle.

Good Luck m8, and keep your head up. Life is about challenges and experiences, don't measure your life with its downs.

Payce

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"The mind is like a parachute, it works better if it's open."

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Originally posted by Transa I met a girl at a party 1 year and a half ago,she was beyond perfect,she was,i thoguht,the one.Over the last year ive been trying to have a relationship with this girl but all she wants to to is get horny with me at partys and stuff. Last weekend i was at a party with her and she said she was ready to give me everything she had,she was ready for a commitment.I was the happyest boy in the world for a week,until she phoned me earlier and said she didnt want me anymore. I no longer have any will to live and breathe,and i just cant think right,i dont know what to do.

dude this fucking sucks.. im sorry to hear this... dawm
man if you like this girl, go after her, don't let her go...i mean don;'t go over board, but let her know how you feel...

Im in a shitty position right now too...I'm into this girl right now... i shouldnt be though cause... shes from TA and guess what she has a boyfriend...and what am i gonna do? I can't do shit...
at least your girl doesnt have a nother guy on her mind.. so I wouldnt give up...

good luck !

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Originally posted by TyBy7996 Im in a shitty position right now too...I'm into this girl right now... i shouldnt be though cause... shes from TA and guess what she has a boyfriend...and what am i gonna do? I can't do shit...

whatever josh.!

xoxo Ur Dream Grl

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" when you are in love...it doesnt matter whats happening out there.. ' cause everything is happening inside of you "

Girls break more hearts then guys do!!!!....... see this is what i see ...if a girl really is in love with a guy but the guy doesnt feel the same way ..he will still usually stay with that person.....but girls on the other hand if they see that u like them more then they like u then well that relatioship is over they will dump u faster then anything else.....but if she doesnt then u know shes speical....but espeical young girls.....they play way to many games which they cant understand or deal with them selfs!!

Dude I feel for ya......

Step back and lose yourself in the music ..............
blow women off for awhile.... it's funny when your not looking somtimes they all come a calling...... also as for this girl just chill don't give her the attention you have been, don't be rude just do your thing with the Boyz and try to enjoy yourself.

Best of luck to ya...

Playlist a few hours of your fav trance, turn it up LOUD, sit back and lose yourself. It'll give your soul a moment to rest, so you can wake up the next day and have enough resolve to fight on despite the icy black needle in your heart. Things like this don't get any easier until a lot of time has passed, and from my experience it's going to get worse before it gets better...