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SYSTEM-J
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Registered: Sep 2003
Location: Manchester
Weird Crushes

There's a woman at work who's in a different department to me. She must be around 40, she is a little bit pudgy as middle aged people tend to be, she's almost certainly married and is probably not even looked at twice by anyone else, certainly not by anyone half her age. Lord knows there are plenty of attractive 20-something girls around the place. And yet for some reason I want to sex her up really, really badly. I speak to her in passing about two or three times a day and I've found myself starting to flirt with her increasingly during these brief spells, even though it's utterly pointless and absurd.

So COR, I have three questions. For everyone: What weird attractions have you had towards unlikely people?

For the likes of JBJ and Hal who love to hypothesise on these things: why do we develop these weird counter-productive crushes on completely inappropriate people?

And finally, for the playas: How do you convince a middle-aged co-worker to have an affair with you?


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Ian
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Registered: Dec 2001
Location: UK

Ruth from Spooks. I think it's her eyes or the fact that if she wants harry pearce she's worth chasing

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Registered: Jan 2002
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Does she remind you of your mother in any way? /Freud


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VAR
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Registered: Mar 2006
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personally, i am attracted to people, not stats.
i have met many 40 somethings that were more insatiable than some 20 somethings, and that speaks volumes.


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KilldaDJ
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Registered: Sep 2001
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son i am dissapoint

unless pics are provided


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Fledz
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Registered: Sep 2006
Location: London UK

There's a woman at work that another colleague of mine referred to as an "undercover hottie" a few months ago. When he said that, it all made sense. It just made sense.

Not many people understand what I mean by that but judging by your OP, I think you will find you do.


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bigjimslade002
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quote:
Originally posted by Fledz
There's a woman at work that another colleague of mine referred to as an "undercover hottie"


i refer to that as having "GAS" or:

gillian anderson syndrome

ever watch the x files and look at scully and go "meh".then see her on next weeks episode out of that suit and say woah!

she is hot one second and not the next.many girls have GAS to me.i see a few girls at my work who just look blah but get em outside and they clean up real well.

so anyway. gas.


oh and you should know whether she wants to have an affair or bang you right off the bat.most of these women will definitely put the vibe out their they are searching for strange.good luck with that.


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I think it has a lot to do with pheromones and the kind of energy the woman is projecting. Sexual attraction isn't just about looks, there's all kinds of body language we barely pick up on that influences how we feel about another person. You should try to make something happen with that I'm almost certain you feel the way you do because SHE wants it.

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ziptnf
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Registered: Jun 2008
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I had sex with a woman in her mid-40's last month. She was actually really hot for her age. It's so worth it. They are way better at sex than younger girls. This chick was a squirter too

Go for it, dude. Start hitting on her, older chicks really want to fuck younger guys too, it's a huge turn on for them.

Oh, and to answer your question, talk more about her personal life and as things get more personal, talk about her sex life. She will likely tell you that it could use some "spicing up".


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Ted Promo
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Haha. I can only imagine this, zip. Ayyyyy girl. Wanna come to my place? We can listen to 12000 Micrograms, turn on the black lights, I'll do my best Raja Ram impression and whether you like it or I will do sexthings to you and at you.

And you can menopause coolly on my hand.

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Meat187
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Registered: Dec 2007
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She obviously reminds you of your mom, thus you want her love.
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Vector A
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Registered: Apr 2011
Location: U.S.

I don't think I've ever been attracted to a woman over the age of 35 or so. although I'm sure that will change as I age.

There was a girl at my high school that I had a bit of a crush on who was kind of "weird" looking: big eyes, reeeally skinny (like near-anorexic, certainly not the body type I usually like), kind of "hollow" looking face. I think I was attracted by her personality and the way she carried herself more than her appearance.

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