OK, I've been emailing this girl I really like (only contact I have of hers) and last time I thought I'd plain out ask, does she wanna get together sometime over the holidays? She emails me back, quite a long email... answers my other questions but not the one above. Then she finishes with "C u soon, Nikki"

I mean... wtf?! I don't wanna ask her again and sound like a broken record (just noticed the suitability of that cliché on this forum... :P), but she just seem to have bypassed my Q completely. Fair enough if she doesn't wanna see me, but then she sticks "C u soon" at the end

Erm, help/ideas please?!

Jack

its a long email, she probably digressed and never went back. Just do a blatant reply email that says, "sweet, so you wanna get together on the holiday or what"

Hmmm.. it seems like shes avoiding the question because she might not want to hurt you, or could be shy. If it was me i would email her again and find out whats going on. Woman are a jigsaw puzzle with a missing piece sometimes so dont let it get to you.
How long you known the girl for?

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Originally posted by goonerjack OK, I've been emailing this girl I really like (only contact I have of hers) and last time I thought I'd plain out ask, does she wanna get together sometime over the holidays? She emails me back, quite a long email... answers my other questions but not the one above. Then she finishes with "C u soon, Nikki" I mean... wtf?! I don't wanna ask her again and sound like a broken record (just noticed the suitability of that cliché on this forum... :P), but she just seem to have bypassed my Q completely. Fair enough if she doesn't wanna see me, but then she sticks "C u soon" at the end Erm, help/ideas please?! Jack

Fuck the bitch.

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Thanks orbax... i'll give it another try then

I was in the same groups as her when i was like 4... but we've never really spoken properly until the last few months or so.

Mto... to fuck her, I'd need to get with her, right? Unless you weren't being so literal...

And that's another thing... girls and the use of the word 'love, '...... what does it actually mean?!

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Originally posted by goonerjack Thanks orbax... i'll give it another try then I was in the same groups as her when i was like 4... but we've never really spoken properly until the last few months or so. Mto... to fuck her, I'd need to get with her, right? Unless you weren't being so literal... And that's another thing... girls and the use of the word 'love, '...... what does it actually mean?!

I meant to forget about her. Don't be so weak minded dude. Don't let your obsession get you in crap. If she doesnt wanna play your cards, dont play hers. If you give in to women now (i assume you are young), you're gonna be their bitch forever. Seriously man. You might maybe wanna ask again. Yo you wanna hook up? If she just ignores you or answers with a no, move on and forget it. Trust me man, you're better than that.

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Oh.. and love? I'v lived to learn that love is very overrated. Actually very very rarely is there love. Its mostly obsession towards a person due to boredom, lack of sex, lack of interaction with that person, and due to the fact that you just dont wanna be alone. So .. um.. fuck love.Go with the instinct and live for the moment. If something feels right, it feels right.. don't think about it too much. If its worth your time, proceed.. if it fucks with you .. fuck with it. You know.. its all bullshit.

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mto... no offence but you seem bitter about something. of course if she straight out tells me that she don't wanna be with me, fair enough... i really like her but i'd deal with it.

Nou... i'm kinda intrigued as to what you mean!

just take it slow.... *aaahh fuck what i said im too tired, im off to bed*
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Last edited by Marcy on Jul-05-2004 at 01:12

Wow! You're asking a girl out via email? Sweet... also, very sheepish. The only reason she wrote you back is because you've known each other for ages.
Do not write her. It's that simple. Phone up, meet her and _then_ ask her out.
Only contact is email... BS, you like her, therefore you _see_ her sometime during the day, and that is sufficient enough to ask.

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Originally posted by goonerjack mto... no offence but you seem bitter about something. of course if she straight out tells me that she don't wanna be with me, fair enough... i really like her but i'd deal with it. Nou... i'm kinda intrigued as to what you mean!

Not bitter my friend, just honest. Sure i've had my share of experiences, both good and bad. However, if you overthink, if you give in, and if you don't put yourself first, you are destined to get hurt. Be wise and i love you.

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