Registered: Mar 2006
Location: between boston and NYC
Girlfreind Advice
Hello all, ive got an issue at hand and have come to a crossroads.
Ive been dating this girl for 2 months, shes beautiful, and what attracted me to her was her not being as slutty as all the other girls in my age group (22 years old). However, after 2 months of being with her shes still not very affectionate with me and we've only had sex once. Not to say that sex is the only thing that matters, but id hate to be in a situation where i would cheat on her with someone less attractive because i havent gotten liad in a month.
I dont want to bring it up with her because shes a genuinely nice girl and make her feel guilty and get guilt sex out of it. Should i wait it out ? Talk to her ? Dump her ?
An example of non-affection: pic her up today, hang out for a few hours, go out for some beers and wings with a few freinds, go to drop her off and only get a peck on the cheek. wtf ? at least give your boyfreind a decent kiss.
Input ?
I also consider myself decent looking, socially aware and decent with women, except extremely picky, after my last girlfreind it took me almost a year to find a girl that id deemed decent enough to date rather than randomly hook up with.
May-24-2006 03:56
Ygrene
Dr. Stinkburger Deluxe
Registered: Nov 2003
Location: Totergefuttert
Without having read any of that I say:
ROFLMAO!!
Hahahaha, Boomer is my hero!!
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May-24-2006 03:58
RapidFire
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: Feb 2005
Location: toronto
rapeh4x that.
May-24-2006 04:01
Aquarian
king of no pants
Registered: May 2005
Location: Laval, Quebec
I don't know what to tell you but -
I know a guy who didn't kiss his girlfriend until they'd been 'together' about a year. Now they're happily married. (but I still think they're freaks)
Some people just need more time to devellop intimacy. Maybe she's been betrayed in the past, who knows. How much 'affection' are you showing? And are you intrusive about it?
May-24-2006 04:01
chadmk3
tranceaddict in training
Registered: Mar 2006
Location: between boston and NYC
quote:
Originally posted by Aquarian
I don't know what to tell you but -
I know a guy who didn't kiss his girlfriend until they'd been 'together' about a year. Now they're happily married. (but I still think they're freaks)
Some people just need more time to devellop intimacy. Maybe she's been betrayed in the past, who knows. How much 'affection' are you showing? And are you intrusive about it?
id say im affectionate without being overbearing or making her uncomfortable but id like for her to make the first move. I dunno if its taking her a while to get comfortable with me or what, but its not like we havent been intimate.
May-24-2006 04:04
Caela
evolve
Registered: Sep 2005
Location: Montana
weird. is she mad prude?? if not, then i'd say that she's not really feeling ya.
try to have a romantic evening, invite her over, cook her dinner, get some wine and drink LOTS of it. and if nothing happens, then...it's time to move on.
or...y'know u could always bring it up with her. just ask her what the deal is. go the route: "is everything ok? are you comfortable with me?" not "put out damnit!"
edit: just tell her how hot you think it would be if she initiated.
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May-24-2006 04:04
jonSun
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: Dec 2003
Location: Chicago CTA #77
dude WTF, she dont want ur shit, so loose her
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May-24-2006 04:05
DjConfessions
Senior tranceaddict
Registered: Jun 2005
Location: Jamesfranco, France
i read the first few sentences and i was honestly going to tell you that you can work out any situation with a girl with hot sex.
i geuess this can be solved by having sex with her mom
...known from a videotape the two made when they met in March... in Dresdens home, Dresden amputated Gabriels penis and Dresden and Gabriel ate the penis together...Gabriel had insisted that Dresden bite his penis off; this did not work.. Dresden used a knife. When that knife turned out to be too blunt, Dresden used a sharper knife to slice the penis off. Gabriel apparently tried to eat his share of his own penis..but could not because it was too..."chewy". Dresden then sautéed the penis in a pan with salt, pepper, and garlic.
May-24-2006 04:05
RapidFire
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: Feb 2005
Location: toronto
maybe you werent good in the sack the first time around?
May-24-2006 04:06
adi26
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: Apr 2003
Location: Miami, FL
Its time for alcohol poisoning......
But just get her drunk, not you...you have a mission to accomplish
May-24-2006 04:08
Arbiter
Naked Power Organ
Registered: May 2002
Location:
Re: Girlfreind Advice
quote:
Originally posted by chadmk3
Input ?
If you're attracted to girls because they don't put out, and then you don't like it when they don't put out in your relationship with them, then you have a problem.
May-24-2006 09:53
Yan
fauxhawk
Registered: Jul 2003
Location: Wano
Wait it out.
For you a month might be a very long time but you should think about us patient people who have waited up to a year just to get to 3rd base.
