I'm 26 years old. I have been in a relationship for three years and all the sudden I'm single again.
I didn't want to break up with my her. It was very much her call, now I obsess over what or who shes doing. She never comes to see me and we havn't done anything together in a month. She tells me she needs time. I'm of the opinion that if I give her time and space she will grow emotionally detatched from me with every passing day.
I look at it like this, if she broke up with me than she doesn't love me... so why should I wait around for her while she gets her jollies off with thirty other dudes? Evn though she told me that there was a strong chance we could get back together.
She doesn't even realize how this makes me feel. very abandonned and confused. My life revolved around her, and the way it is now tells me that she doesn't value my companionship the same as I valued hers.
*Am I wrong for making that assumption? what does she need time for? why doesn't she communicate to me?
No i don't have any deformations and my penis is av. guess I have a shitty attitude though, I'm trying to change.
Thanks for all incite
Aug-25-2007 20:31
jonSun
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: Dec 2003
Location: Chicago CTA #77
Re: Relationships Sucks.
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Originally posted by justin
It was very much her call, now I obsess over what or who shes doing. She never comes to see me and we havn't done anything together in a month. She tells me she needs time. I'm of the opinion that if I give her time and space she will grow emotionally detatched from me with every passing day.
I look at it like this, if she broke up with me than she doesn't love me... so why should I wait around for her while she gets her jollies off with thirty other dudes? Evn though she told me that there was a strong chance we could get back together.
Stop obsessing & waiting around for her. Its your turn to get your jollies off with 30 other girls.
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Aug-25-2007 20:34
nchs09
Traceaddict in training
Registered: Sep 2003
Location: Inside your mum
move on.. if she wants to get back together and you found someone else, though luck for her.
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Aug-25-2007 20:35
simplcake
tranceaddict
Registered: Sep 2005
Location: NY
tell her how you feel. if she understands and wants to get back with you than fine but if not then god gave you left hand for a reason, get to it.
Aug-25-2007 20:35
LoveHate
...........
Registered: Oct 2006
Location: Vancouver
you suck.
Aug-25-2007 20:39
justin
bana na-na
Registered: Jan 2001
Location: home
quote:
Originally posted by LoveHate
you suck.
explain
Aug-25-2007 20:42
idoru
You Can Call Me Al
Registered: May 2004
Location: Cascadia
You're consulting the COR for this? Bad move.
Aug-25-2007 20:43
Omega_Blue
Someone Changed My Custom
Registered: Dec 2003
Location: Gone
quote:
Originally posted by LoveHate
you suck.
quote:
Originally posted by justin
explain
quote:
Originally posted by idoru
You're consulting the COR for this
Aug-25-2007 20:45
LoveHate
...........
Registered: Oct 2006
Location: Vancouver
quote:
Originally posted by justin
explain
you cant move on from the bitch, when she clearly doesnt want you anymore.
Aug-25-2007 20:46
wotyzoid
it's not house
Registered: Apr 2007
Location: New Jersey
Are you sure you're 26?? Are you sure you don't need a grammar book??
I dont need a grammar lesson, (cuz I'll write howev the FK I want) why not consult with the COR? some good adcice in the first two comments. I figured I can tell the difference between good and bad advice but the bottom line is I need advice, shit I'll take it from whoever I can.
Aug-25-2007 20:56
washout
southern white boy
Registered: Jun 2005
Location: florida
best way to stop thinking about one chick is go after one or two more.
have fun, be yourself, alcohol helps.
Relationships Sucks.
