I just moved to a resort town where the housing situation is extremely tight, so everyone shares a bedroom with one, if not two others.
I couldn't find any housing at first, but eventually my friend's house had a room open, but they wanted more girls. So I told my friend I'd find a girl to share a room with, so that they at least have 1 more girl in the house. So I email some girl on craigslist that was also looking for housing and met up and had coffee. She turns out to be incredibly cute, (and french), and super cool. After coffee we went out for 2 pitchers of beer, and then bought a bottle of wine and wandered around some trails around the resort for a few more hours. 7 hours together straight, and we never talked to anyone else. I just told her I'd let her know as soon as possible when I know that we can move into this house.
I didn't find out for 2 more days that I could move in, so me and this girl hung out the next 2 days, walking around, doing nothing, finding things in common, getting along perfect (and me thinking she's amazing)...

Now yesterday I got the go ahead that I could move in to the house, and that I could pick whoever I wanted to share a room with, just as long as they are cool.

So now my friend has been trying to convince me for hours that if I have any feelings for this girl at all it is a stupid idea to set myself and the other roommates up for disaster and problems in the future... since I can't deny having feelings for her so he is straight up telling me that I shouldn't let her move in tomorrow. Oh, and at this very moment, she thinks she's 100% moving in, and seemed excited about sharing a room with me.

So do I cancel the love miracle waiting to happen, in hopes of avoiding disaster if things don't work out?
Or do I just go for it?
I mean what if she actually doesn't even like me at all, she's just all chill and happy all the time. Then I gotta share a room with a girl I'm crazy about?

Last edited by daphunky1 on Nov-11-2008 at 08:31