I've eventually come to realize that this thought, 'anyone can do anything,' is more a matter of faith to me. Precisely because it cannot be proven, and so far as I can see, disproven. As well, I react to related issues in a thematic vein - if someone tells me I can't do something, I do not want to hear it. And when I've overcome some perceived odds, or done something that makes me proud, I attribute it to my faith - That I did what it takes, earned it, and I can do it again elsewhere. And that anyone who might aspired could do the same as well, particularly if their circumstances were favorable.
Whenever this topic has come up in my life, that's where things get fuzzy, and where the argument starts: The idea and trappings entailed in 'Favorable Circumstances.' It's nature vs nurture, in a way.
Chalk me up to Nurture camp.
Funny thing is that, while I feel strongly on the subject, I generally have little desire to critically discuss it. I suppose that makes me a person blinded by their faith, a zealot. Weird, eh?
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