I Need some advice from all you "Dr. Love"s out there. There's a girl i've known for a while. I like her a lot and I'm pretty sure that she wants me too, but we're both shy. So I'm going to call her in an hour or so. The question is what to say. I like original stuff Thanks

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I've known you for a while. How'd you like it if I started screwing you?

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Originally posted by Mr Kirk I've known you for a while. How'd you like it if I started screwing you?

I forgot to mention that she is *extremely shy*.

Also I just want to ask her out, i don't know her well enough yet.

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hey you hungry???
how does lunch/etc. sound.... great i'll pick you up at 3

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STAY SINGLE!

you will have more money!

ok...on a serious note

i find asking someone out for coffee (does not qualify as a date in tta's book) is nothing harmful. The worst thing can happen is she can realize what you are up to and say she is not interested but you can gain a good friend out of it. Personally i find that people ask others out when they know so little about the person and the relationship crashes and burns. I also know some serial daters who just date person after person after person. If all else fails...pop the question..worst thing she can say is no. I find that over coffee (north american thing i guess) that you can talk with the person and they can trust you and you can really see if there is something in common. I know it's just tugging at you because you think i want to date this girl but i dunno and the uncertainty bothers you.

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Originally posted by torontotrance i find asking someone out for coffee (does not qualify as a date in tta's book) is nothing harmful. The worst thing can happen is she can realize what you are up to and say she is not interested but you can gain a good friend out of it.

That was pretty much what i had in mind

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Originally posted by torontotrance If all else fails...pop the question..worst thing she can say is no.

Will you marry me? Tried that once with a girl. didn't work

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Originally posted by partyprincess Whatever you do don't say "Would you please go out with me?" lol...

lol

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Will you marry me? Tried that once with a girl. didn't work

i never said pop "THE QUESTION"

i said pop the question of do you want to date me or do you want to go out but partyprincess has said it don't work.

ASK HER IF SHE WANTS TO COME ROUND TO WATCH A VIDEO

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Originally posted by Technaut ASK HER IF SHE WANTS TO COME ROUND TO WATCH A VIDEO

You think I should shout at her?

Better yet I should ask her if she wants to come up and see my stamp collection

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Originally posted by Technaut ASK HER IF SHE WANTS TO COME ROUND TO WATCH A VIDEO

yes tell her about your p0rn-video collection iam sure she will come

ok here is my input...as a girl first dont ask her to watch a video...thats goin to make her think this guy is goin to sleep with me...

i dont know what you are into, but with me the ideal date is not a fancy dancy dinner, been there done that not goin to a club but go to a nice park on a nice summer day have some ice cream, make fun of people and share some great laughs, that way she will think that you are sincere ...hopefully she is not a gold digger and in that case take her to a very fancy dinner

good luck and keep us up to date

indy

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You: Hi! I just downloaded my 50th GB of pr0n. You wanna come over and watch/borrow some?
She: WTF!?
You: Oh fuck. Shit. It's you. Eerr.. Hi. Wanna go out or something?



Or you could just borrow a line from www.linesthataregood.com I've used some on my friends, with positive results (hugs)

"If I told you you have a great body, would you hold it against mine?"

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