two people are together for a while and are relatively involved. he breaks up with her and she is devestated and in the depth of her depression he gets together with a girl that she had been friends with within days. regardless of that timing, they are really meant for each other and stay together.
is it wrong? is it disrespectful to the first girlfriend?
please let me know if you want me to clarify...
Jul-10-2003 15:38
predictor
Radiohead/ WoW Addict
Registered: Nov 2002
Location: Home
Re: is it wrong (love content)
quote:
Originally posted by butterfly
the situation:
two people are together for a while and are relatively involved. he breaks up with her and she is devestated and in the depth of her depression he gets together with a girl that she had been friends with within days. regardless of that timing, they are really meant for each other and stay together.
is it wrong? is it disrespectful to the first girlfriend?
please let me know if you want me to clarify...
i didnt understand this in the depth of her depression he gets together with a girl that first u were talking about she... then he... cant understand
btwww.... why should it be disrespectful ?
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Jul-10-2003 15:52
butterfly
melissa
Registered: Apr 2002
Location: West CoCo, CA
Re: Re: is it wrong (love content)
quote:
Originally posted by predictor
i didnt understand this in the depth of her depression he gets together with a girl that first u were talking about she... then he... cant understand
btwww.... why should it be disrespectful ?
k basically.... i am saying that the first girl was not over him and depressed about the breakup. and during that time the guy got together with a friend of hers.
and my question is, is it disprespectful to the first girl?
Jul-10-2003 16:59
predictor
Radiohead/ WoW Addict
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Location: Home
ah thats more clear...
i guess its not
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Jul-10-2003 17:12
Nabistai
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Appearantly he wasn't as involved in their (former) relationship as the girl originally thought. It must have been devastating for her so yes I would say it is disrespectful (or rude however you would describe it). The girl now probably think that the guy has been playing with her and giving her false impressions during their relationship (to get some). She probably feels 'used' and personnaly I think the guy is a real asshole.
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Jul-10-2003 17:20
44htz
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Registered: Jun 2003
Location: Wannocks
This describes it...
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Jul-10-2003 17:26
Clyde77
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Registered: Jul 2001
Location: Guam
well this is what is kinda going on with my life right now! 2 girls are bestfriend, went out with the other one for 3 months then we broke up, and now im fucking her bestfriend! that's what she gets!! bitch ass mofo!
btw. new avatar again!
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Jul-10-2003 17:30
butterfly
melissa
Registered: Apr 2002
Location: West CoCo, CA
quote:
Originally posted by Clyde77
well this is what is kinda going on with my life right now! 2 girls are bestfriend, went out with the other one for 3 months then we broke up, and now im fucking her bestfriend! that's what she gets!! bitch ass mofo!
btw. new avatar again!
which one gets ?
are you talking about your sex games with the current girl or saying you dont give a damn about the hurt of the other one?
Jul-10-2003 17:32
zzleeper
Supreme tranceaddict
Registered: Jan 2002
Location: Lima, Peru
Actually, thats quite common.. it doesnt has to be with the guy wanting to get laid again or that stuff.. it's simply that he is very depressed and needs someone so he can feels more secure emotionaly..
(its not my case btw)
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Jul-10-2003 17:32
Nabistai
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Location:
quote:
Originally posted by 44htz
This describes it...
lol that actually happens alot around here, except that my cat is completely white instead of black
quote:
Originally posted by Clyde77
that's what she gets!! bitch ass mofo!
this totally proves my earlier statement about that guy being an asshole
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Jul-10-2003 17:33
djSlain
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Registered: May 2001
Location: San Diego CA
i think it is somewhat disrespectful. You think someone has fallen for u, but they have secret feelings about your friends, hiding it only until their single and ready to mingle again (which for some people would be about 4-5 hours after he breakup).
