i was listening to the radio last night....a really cool progressive song came on. It says "only when i lose myself i find my own self" something like that. Kinda has a beat like dirty sticky floors. NIce male vocals. can someone hepl me out here

Sounds like Depeche Mode "Only when I loose myself" - but I don't know whether you heard some specific remix.

It sounds like the Lexicon Avenue mix to me

if it's the track playing on
www.lexiconavenue.com
then that's the lexicon avenue remix of "Only When I Lose Myself"
keep in mind that the tune playing on the page has the vocals from "From Dusk Til Dawn"