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Re: people who insult others compulsively
| quote: | Originally posted by UglyDave
people who are forever slagging others off, would i be right in sayin they're just a bunch of insecure twats who take pleasure in putting others down as it makes them feel better about themselves?? |
I wonder about this, too. Sometimes it seems there are people who seem to enjoy criticizing, putting others down, making others feel stupid or idiotic or ugly or unlikeable...
Sometimes it seems as if they think they are being constructive or helpful. Like really trying to help someone with their comments. Othertimes, it seems only as if they are being destructive and hurtful.
I have to watch myself. I think I say things sometimes...trying to be honest..but actually being hurtful...not meaning to be. I try to be more thoughtful and considerate...to think before I say something. Maybe this is part of growing up. I dunno.
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